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Allyssamanalo
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Please help me and my family. Please pray for us. Last 2012 or 2013, those are the years wherein our family is really happy. No serious fights, or arguments. But this lady came in our life. She is the mother of my classmate, the mother of my best friend, and the friend of my grandmother. We trusted her so much because she is my grandmother’s friend. Then, last 2015 i think. April 25,2015. We invited her and her children (one is my classmate) to join us in celebrating my grandfather’s small celebration for his birthday. Then this fast moment happened. My grandfather asked the lady to let him kiss her in the cheeks. She agreed. Instead of us being happy that moment, we were all shocked. The fact that my grandfather even wrap his arms in the neck of the lady while kissing her, its a big no. After some months, or years probably. I decided to talk with my friend (the lady’s child) in the phone. So yeah we were laughing about different things and yeah. Then my grandfather came near me and asked me in a soft sound voice (he doesn’t really whisper coz he likes shouting always and its kinda weird for him to whisper) “ask her if she and her family liked the BRIGHT LIGHT that I bought for them”. At first, it doesn’t really matter to me coz im only 10 years old by 2015. Then I asked my friend. She said “yes! It’s so bright. It’s new to my eyes” (they don’t have a bright light before my grandfather gave them). Then my grandfather asked again “ask her if they liked the food that I bought them.” (food: 1 plastic of chicken, another bucket of chicken, cake). That’s the time that i got really suspicious. I just cant understand why would he give ‘em these things/food and can’t even manage to give an extra money to my grandmother who does everything for us at her old age. Then of course, I told everything that my grandfather said to my two aunts, and my grandmother. They got annoyed, and they started making conclusions. Fast forward, my grandfather and this lady started meeting each other secretly, my grandfather talkin’ to her without telling it to my grandmother. Came to the point that he gave her an expensive jacket. AND THAT IS UNACCEPTABLE. From that year until today, our whole family is arguing about that GRANDFATHER - LADY thing. We are all so stressed because what my grandfather is saying is kinda below the belt like “your grandmother is suffering from her sins” (duh, she is the only one who raised their 5 children even though they are together), “your grandmother will go to hell”. I CANT ACCEPT IT BECAUSE MY GRANDMOTHER IS THE BEST PERSON I KNOW. SHE SUFFERED 50 YEARS WITH MY GRANDFATHER THINKING THAT SHE WILL HAVE THE LIFE THAT MY GRANDFATHER PROMISED BEFORE THEY GOT MARRIED. I JUST WANT PEACE IN OUR HOME, MINDS, AND HEARTS. ALSO, MY AUNT IS SUFFERING FROM SCHIZOPHRENIA AND SUCH ARGUMENTS ABOUT THAT LADY IS STRESSING HER OUT. PLEASE HELP US PRAY FOR MY GRANDFATHER TO STOP WHAT HE IS DOING AND TO STOP SAYING THINGS THAT ARE ABOUT GOD AND MY GRANDMOTHER. PLEASE HELP US PRAY TO HAVE PEACE IN OUR HOME. WE JUST WANT TO BE HAPPY, AND BE QUIET.