A question for the men... about women kissing

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wow, your causing me to think when I only considered it as a joke. Hummm let’s see…I got it. Mans animalistic instinct to want to dominate a harem of gorgeous over sexualized women. I can be wrong 😊
Yes, I think it is an alpha male thing. That is why most men find the idea of two men kissing repulsive.

I am not an aggressive guy but the thought of another guy trying to kiss me causes desire to start throwing punches.
 
Yes, I think it is an alpha male thing. That is why most men find the idea of two men kissing repulsive.

I am not an aggressive guy but the thought of another guy trying to kiss me causes desire to start throwing punches.
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Most men find women attractive.

We’re pretty simple. Our brains work like this: if one is good, two is better. For many men, this translates into liking to watch twice the stimulation occurring at once.
What’s better than 1 woman? 2!
Yes! 👍
So, replace the dude with a chick. Problem solved.
You can also just put yourself in the guy’s shoes. Yet speaking of which, this fascination actually makes for a hilarious counter to anyone who calls me a homophobe.

Gay: “Omahgawd! Dun be such a homophobe.”

Me: “No I’m not. I like seeing two girls kiss. :p
Also interesting that NO women find two men kissing to be enjoyable either, nearly everyone finds this utterly disgusting and repulsive!
Want to switch lives?
The internet is loaded with it!

Most slash is written by straight women, for straight women. Not by or for gay men.
Yep. Funny how people accuse typical otaku (like yours truly) of exhibiting sexist objectification of women while the fujoshi shamelessly objectify us men.

A couple scenes from Seitokai no Ichizon would be very appropriate for this discussion right about now. 🤓
wow, your causing me to think when I only considered it as a joke. Hummm let’s see…I got it. Mans animalistic instinct to want to dominate a harem of gorgeous over sexualized women. I can be wrong 😊
Oh no. You’ve perfectly summarized a lot of typical male fantasies (and personally, some of my post-apocalyptic ones :p).
 
Yes, I think it is an alpha male thing. That is why most men find the idea of two men kissing repulsive.

I am not an aggressive guy but the thought of another guy trying to kiss me causes desire to start throwing punches.
lol. I know the feeling:slapfight:
 
Also interesting that NO women find two men kissing to be enjoyable either, nearly everyone finds this utterly disgusting and repulsive!

I cant explain why we like to see 2 women kissing or being together sexually, but I will admit I have this weakness too, i think its something about them being feminine, because while most men like to see 2 women together like this, they DO NOT like to see the typical gay females involved in this, like the women that look more manly than most men…I dont know any guy that would like to see these types of women kissing or more! That would be a turn off to me…has to be 2 feminine women for it to be enjoyable.

Lesbians look like that, they also look like Ellen and Portia, or Lea DeLaria. Femme lesbians are automatically assumed to be straight unless they scream that they are lesbians from the top of their lungs in which case they get told they are too pretty to be lesbians or to shut up.
That’s not true. I’ve known a number of woman who are definitely attracted to such a display. Women tend to be less visual than men however so those who are “into” it, tend to be more into written porn than visual porn. They don’t just want the visual stuff but all the emotional touchy feely stuff as well

The internet is loaded with it!

Most slash is written by straight women, for straight women. Not by or for gay men.
Indeed, women read stuff authors like Nora Roberts.
The existence of Yaoi as a genre (and a very popular one apparently) suggests that many girls do like the idea of two guys together. :twocents:

Warning: the link above, while it is just to the Wikipaedia page explaining Yaoi, does contain a couple of potentially offensive images. For those who don’t want to risk it, Yaoi is roughly speaking fiction portraying gay male romances, but aimed at young female audiences and often by young women.
You also forgot to mention that most gay men find yaoi ridiculous.
Yes! 👍

You can also just put yourself in the guy’s shoes. Yet speaking of which, this fascination actually makes for a hilarious counter to anyone who calls me a homophobe.

Gay: “Omahgawd! Dun be such a homophobe.”

Me: “No I’m not. I like seeing two girls kiss. :p

Want to switch lives?

Yep. Funny how people accuse typical otaku (like yours truly) of exhibiting sexist objectification of women while the fujoshi shamelessly objectify us men.

A couple scenes from Seitokai no Ichizon would be very appropriate for this discussion right about now. 🤓

Oh no. You’ve perfectly summarized a lot of typical male fantasies (and personally, some of my post-apocalyptic ones :p).
Masturbating to “lesbian” porn doesn’t make someone who is afraid of “catching the gay” if the socialize with gay men not a homophobe.

Men are far more focused on sex than women, this isn’t disproven by the existent of nymphomaniacs.
 
Masturbating to “lesbian” porn doesn’t make someone who is afraid of “catching the gay” if the socialize with gay men not a homophobe.
I call it an argument based on technicality. I just simply notice that homophobia, as far as its raw lexical properties are concerned, is too general. It just sounds too much like saying I’m an arachnophobe simply because I’m afraid of black widows. If you’re to call me something more specific like gay-man-o-phobe or even transex-o-phobe, you’d be spot on! 🤷

Because honestly, it’s really odd for anyone to accuse me of fearing/hating/shunning homosexuals when my own sexual fantasies welcome lesbian and bisexual women. :confused:

I mean, am I a homophobe only when I’m disgusted by yaoi and gay men? 🤷 It’s so confusing.
 
But there seems to be something particularly attractive about women kissing each other vs women kissing other men or women kissing their dogs, etc.
I am a man and I find nothing stimulating in two lesbians kissing. They are, however, less physically revolting to me than seeing men kiss each other, which frankly turns my stomach.
 
I don’t think this is true. They just express their sexuality differently because of gender differences.
It is true that women express their sexuality differently from men, it is less about the act of sex itself for women.
 
Why do men find it attractive when 2 women kiss? Even the ones who agree that it is morally wrong to kiss people of the same sex, still cant help but find it attractive when 2 women kiss. I don’t understand the appeal… is this something that is hard wired in males? And if so, why would God put it there?
I’m a guy and I don’t feel that way about it. But to answer your question, it’s called sexual perversion. Sex was meant to be enjoyed in a certain way. But many men pursue a disordered sexuality, most commonly through pornography. When this happens, their desires tend to turn more and more disordered, and they can turn to watching videos of lesbian sex like you are mentioning, BSDM, violent pornography, child pornography, and so on.
 
I’m a guy and I don’t feel that way about it. But to answer your question, it’s called sexual perversion. Sex was meant to be enjoyed in a certain way. But many men pursue a disordered sexuality, most commonly through pornography. When this happens, their desires tend to turn more and more disordered, and they can turn to watching videos of lesbian sex like you are mentioning, BSDM, violent pornography, child pornography, and so on.
I think this may be true. I can see how being an avid porn watcher will make a guy like seeing women kiss. 😦

It’s pretty gross, actually, but I am happy that so many men have commented on this thread and said that they personally don’t like it at all. Gives me hope.
 
Also I find some of the comments in this thread offensive and sexist. It is common in popular culture to portray men as either stupid and controlled by sex, or otherwise domineering, cheuvenistic and controlled by sex. I and many of my good friends have been properly formed as men of authentic, Catholic masculinity and personally I think it would be better for all of us to publicly fight the negative cultural concept of masculinity rather than to further perpetuate it on our Catholic Answers forums. The world could use more real men…
 
Also I find some of the comments in this thread offensive and sexist. It is common in popular culture to portray men as either stupid and controlled by sex, or otherwise domineering, cheuvenistic and controlled by sex. I and many of my good friends have been properly formed as men of authentic, Catholic masculinity and personally I think it would be better for all of us to publicly fight the negative cultural concept of masculinity rather than to further perpetuate it on our Catholic Answers forums. The world could use more real men…
I thought the same. I didnt like the direction this thread was going, especially on a Catholic site. Thank goodness you showed up. Your authentic Catholic masculinity is very much appreciated. On behalf of all us women, thank you for being that type of man. ❤️
 
When anyone starts making out, in real life or on tv, I leave them to it and turn my attention elsewhere. The quick “hi honey + smooch” is no big deal, but protracted displays are personal.
 
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