If I had one thing to recommend to anyone and everyone, it would be the divine indwelling in the soul and Jesus living within the soul. For this is possible for everyone. Recommend means practise. Knowing his presense within us as much as possible, as much as Jesus makes this possible. To constantly love and adore him within and wanting him with us every moment.
With this, our life seems to fall in place. The answers that we need are given.
If this seems impossible, then go to Jesus, ask him to make it possible. It is difficult to force it on your own, but just ask him to make it happen. Ask him to be there and to let you know that he is there. Place all the occurance of this happening on Jesus, but let him know that you want him. Then have confidence in him.
He can do this quite easily if a person sincerely desires it. For he reminds us of his presence when we get distracted from him for a time.
The next recommendation is the Holy Eucharist whenever possible, which strengthens him in us. It is the divine food for his divine life within us. “He who eats my body lives in me and I in him.”