A sign from God?

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Hello I’m not 100% sure where to post this, so sorry if its in the wrong forum, however any advice would be useful!

A couple of months ago I had my heart broken. It still hurts, and infact the pain grows every day. He changed his mind so suddenly and out of the blue and I was so confused as to why because we were so perfect together, however he has depression and I’m aware it can change your thoughts and/or make you do things you wouldn’t normally do and make you push away those who are closest to you etc.
I have had a real tough day yesterday and prayed to God and Mary and my Nana who is (hopefully!) in heaven. I asked for some kind of sign or something for me to know things would be alright.

Several hours later I was on fb chat and my old psychology lecturer was online (she was a student lecturer when she taught me and we were a “mature students” class so we all became friends) anyways we hadn’t spoke for at least 2 years and I really felt like she’d be able to help either by giving me some understanding on depression etc or something. she asked me how I was doing etc and I explained about our break up.
She told me she went through something almost identical as my ex, breaking up with her partner due to being depressed and stressed out etc she one day snapped saying she wasnt in love any more even though she was she was just confused and trying to protect her partner etc. She said it took her 5 months to sort things out but they are now engaged!
She is the second person who I hadn’t spoke to for a while and randomly spoke to again who has went through something similar and ended up engaged.
Do you think this could be the sign? I do!
Today is the first morning that I have woke up and not cried. It is still really hard but I am trying my best to stay positive and am trusting in God for giving me this sign.

Please Lord let him see that I love him and we are meant to be. Please help me to stay strong and positive and to be patient.
Amen.
 
I don’t know whether it is a sign from God or not, but it does seem like reason to be patient.
Keep praying, trust in God and be patient. No, it’s not easy.
 
I wish God would tell me yes or no thats a sign. I know He won’t so I have to have faith and trust my instincts. They say yes it is a sign that everything will be ok.
 
I think it’s important also to not get your hopes up, people with depression are incredibly different and things like this do happen and they may realize it was a mistake, but some don’t. Either way, God has your best interests at heart and it is always important to pray that his will be done even when it seems like it isn’t what you think it should be. After all, if this was meant to happen then there is something better for you planned in the future I’m sure!
 
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