A Simple Vision - Catholicism and Simplicity

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Hello everyone,

I’m a long-time lurker and avid Catholic Answers listener. I just wanted to share a new project with all of you. My wife and I have decided to start a blog about Faith, Simplicity and Purpose.

I cordially invite you all to stop by regularly or subscribe to the blog as we look for inspiration as well as to inspire others.

A Simple Vision - Catholicism and Simplicity

Please say a prayer for us and our blog and God bless!

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I checked out your blog – you’re off to a nice start 👍

I don’t subscribe to blogs, but I do wish you all the best. And I thank you for putting yourselves out there to make a difference in the world, and hopefully lead a few souls to a deeper relationship with Christ!

God bless you!

Gertie
 
I look forward to following you – simple living is a staple of my life, but most of the literature I see about it online comes from Buddhist or Hindu sources. Christian simplicity doesn’t seem as popular, despite the examples set by monks and saints through the ages!
 
Thanks to both of you for your replies and thanks for checking out our blog.

I agree whole-heartedly, it seems many Christians seem to be leary of the “Minimalist” or “simple” lifestyle as it as almost ALWAYS presented with a hint of eastern mysticism, or at the very least as a “Self-first” philosophy, rather than a “God first” one.

We endeavour to break some of these stereo-types and show others that living a simple, meaningful and intentional life, informed by God, can be done!

Thanks to you both and God bless!
 
Certainly an admirable vision–to eliminate and simplify.

I hope you will accept some advice–do not allow your blog to become legalistic, and please constantly remind other Christians not to become legalistic in their quest for simplicity.

Back in the late 1970s, in the Protestant world (which my husband and I were part of for the first 47 years of our lives), a movement sprang up. This movement was called “Simple Lifestyle.”

I believe this movement got its start with an excellent book by Ron Sider called Rich Christians in an Age of Hunger. I highly recommend this book for Catholic and Protestant Christians. It has held up well. Ron Sider has gotten involved with certain liberal organizations and political stands over the years, but his book about poverty and how Christians can help is still quite good.

After his book came out, books and seminars were everywhere! Everyone was trying to be “simple.” Even Billy Graham got into the act, and one of the big Evangelical conferences actually published a mission statement that the participants would commit to living a simple lifestyle in order to have more money to give to the church and to missions.

But as the movement continued into the 1980s, it became disturbingly legalistic. I remember a discussion at a seminar about whether we can buy coffee or not. The speaker told us about how the farms in South America are bought up by giant coffee corporations, and the farmers work for pennies a day and often become poor, just so we can drink coffee, Coke a Cola, and eat chocolate.

Then the discussion turned to bananas, and we were told not to buy them because the poor sell them for pennies, while rich American apple growers sell their apples for an exorbitant price.

I think that’s when I started getting fed up with this movement. EVERYTHING was examined, even our shoes, and many of the simple lifestyle adherents were wearing shoes made out of old tires!

People judged each other, and if you actually ordered a Coke, you were sinning!

So my husband and I gave it up. I think that the Simple Lifestyle Movement definitely influenced us (we were married just as it got started). Instead of falling for the Great Big Castle House thing that so many of our peers did, we bought a smallish house in an inner-city neighborhood, and boy, are we ever glad we did after the housing crash a few years ago!

We don’t buy cable and never will. I don’t have a walk-in closet and never will because I don’t own enough clothing to fit in it and neither does my husband. I have three pairs of shoes (many women I know own several dozen pairs of shoes!).

But we are a figure skating family, and I know that the Simple Lifestyle adherents would utterly condemn this as heinously sinful! We also sent our daughters to a private secular preparatory school–the tuition was as much as many colleges. Outrageous!

So basically what I’m telling you is don’t let your desire for simplicity turn into a judgmental legalism. God is perfectly capable of guiding each individual as to how much they should or shouldn’t buy and own. 🙂

I hope this is helpful to you.
 
Thanks for the reply, I really enjoyed reading it and fully agree with what you have to say. It sounds like there definitely were some individuals who struggled with scrupulosity with that “Simple Lifestyle” movement you speak of.

Thats not at all what we’re looking to promote with our stories and insights. Simplicity is different for each person and/or family.

What we’re looking to do is to inspire others to re-evaluate what society is trying to convince us of, namely that More = Success and Happiness.

We truly do believe that LessIsMore, but that less doesn’t have to be apart from God, or from bananas or figure skating for that matter! It’s about purposefully evaluating our possessions, our purchases and what we bring into our lives both physically and spiritually.

Thanks again for the great informative response, and be sure to check out the blog regularly if you have time 🙂

Cheers and God bless!
 
Ahhh!

I am truly so very excited that and your wife are doing this new blog! I recently had been searching (in vain) on Catholic Answers and elsewhere for other Catholics who are also on a journey towards minimalism, or who were already living it. I have been baby stepping my way into a simpler life and reading and thinking about this for years (really, I have always been so inclined), but I know of NO ONE who is sympatico with me in this, except for (lucky me!) my husband. My kids get it, too, and are willingly giving up quite a lot right now as we begin, in earnest, to draw back our lifestyle dramatically. We want to have fewer belongings and more empty space and empty time to share with each other. We already have no debt except for our mortgage, and we are planning on selling our house in the next couple of years. We are exploring our tiny house options now. But we literally have no one with whom to share any of this, because everyone else already things we are crazy for not having much furniture, for homeschooling, and having a larger family. We will definitely be following your blog.

Let’s pray for each other as we commence our parallel journeys.

God bless!
 
I like St. Benedict’s guidance about possessions. In Chapter 31 of the Rule you’ll find

Let him regard all the utensils of the monastery
and its whole property
as if they were the sacred vessels of the altar.

I think that’s a good attitude to have toward our belongings. So often we buy something cheap with the idea that we can throw it away and replace it later. With other things we know that newer, faster, fancier versions will come along and we’ll want to replace the versions we have. I think it’s better to think in terms of buying something once and then taking care of it so that it lasts, and using it as long as possible even if there’s something newer on the market. This applies to everything from kitchen pots to cell phones to hammers to cars.
 
Mommamaree!

You and your husband sound very similar to my wife and I. We too have been down-sizing, de-cluttering, purging with a long term goal of possibly building a tiny house!

And yes, we also scoured the web looking for Catholic-cnetric minimalists and simplicity advocates and could only find a post here and there so we thought “Obviously there’s a need out there, let’s give it a shot!”

Thanks so much for the words of encouragement! And we look forward to engaging with you and your husband as both of our journey’s progress! Perhaps you could even write a “guest blog piece” sometime as well!

Feel free to subscribe to the blog via our About link here christian-loew.squarespace.com/about this way you will receive a weekly update with our new content.

Thanks again and God bless, we’ll definitely be praying for you and all of our readers!
Ahhh!

I am truly so very excited that and your wife are doing this new blog! I recently had been searching (in vain) on Catholic Answers and elsewhere for other Catholics who are also on a journey towards minimalism, or who were already living it. I have been baby stepping my way into a simpler life and reading and thinking about this for years (really, I have always been so inclined), but I know of NO ONE who is sympatico with me in this, except for (lucky me!) my husband. My kids get it, too, and are willingly giving up quite a lot right now as we begin, in earnest, to draw back our lifestyle dramatically. We want to have fewer belongings and more empty space and empty time to share with each other. We already have no debt except for our mortgage, and we are planning on selling our house in the next couple of years. We are exploring our tiny house options now. But we literally have no one with whom to share any of this, because everyone else already things we are crazy for not having much furniture, for homeschooling, and having a larger family. We will definitely be following your blog.

Let’s pray for each other as we commence our parallel journeys.

God bless!
 
Mommamaree!

You and your husband sound very similar to my wife and I. We too have been down-sizing, de-cluttering, purging with a long term goal of possibly building a tiny house!

And yes, we also scoured the web looking for Catholic-cnetric minimalists and simplicity advocates and could only find a post here and there so we thought “Obviously there’s a need out there, let’s give it a shot!”

Thanks so much for the words of encouragement! And we look forward to engaging with you and your husband as both of our journey’s progress! Perhaps you could even write a “guest blog piece” sometime as well!

Feel free to subscribe to the blog via our About link here christian-loew.squarespace.com/about this way you will receive a weekly update with our new content.

Thanks again and God bless, we’ll definitely be praying for you and all of our readers!
Thank you for the invitation to subscribe to the blog. One of the ways that we are minimizing is by unsubscribing to just about everything, and declining invitations to subscribe to anything new. (I may even need to start a new email address and abandon the old one because so many companies and organizations do not respect requests to not send emails…But that is another problem for another day.) So thank you, but no. I will be checking your blog for updates, however. On a regular basis, I like to check in on my favorite blogs, and I do leave comments. Good luck with your new blog, and I look forward to reading. And feel free to send me private messages here at CAF.
 
Great blog. I really love the concept. I am a fan of a lot of secular minimalist blogs and to see one like yours that is Catholic and family-based is really cool to see and challenging. I like the post on selling all and following Christ. It’s funny how often my wife and I to a purge from our house only to fine that very quickly it was as if we never purged at all. ;).

Keep it up and God bless!
 
What a great idea!

Like a previous poster, we have decluttered several times only to end up right back where we started out, with too. much. stuff. I think the trick is to employ some kind of one in, one out rule or be very mindful of purchases coming into the home! THIS time when I declutter again, I am going to be super careful about what I buy, as in cut back on purchasing items that tend to pile up and take up space! It has taken me years to figure this out. Shaking my head at myself!

Dh and I are talking about moving and I vacillate between wanting a bigger house with plenty of room for grown-up children, someday their spouses and grandchildren to come and enjoy a long stay… and thinking we should do some major decluttering before we move, downsize and then deal with any inconviences that might occur when we have holidays together. I go back and forth, big house, smaller house, big house, smaller house…I love reading about a simple life, but I am not “there” yet. 😊

I have cut back on what I do, how much running around I do, my interior design is much less fussy now, I am paring my wardrobe down, trying to eat more simple meals ( fresh, whole foods more often) and just in general trying to find our sweet spot.

I totally agree that there is plenty of wiggle room. What works for one family cannot be prescribed for all families. There are some areas I am happy to cut back on and other things are very important to us, to me and in those areas I will continue to spend money, time and allow myself to enjoy those things even if someone else thinks they are not “simple.” Shrugs.

Here is a link to an evangelical Christian blog about simple living that I have really enjoyed over the years. They sold their big house, lived in an RV and traveled the country for awhile, lived in many small houses, decluttered many times, etc.

nestinggypsy.com/

Looking forward to reading a similar blog from a Catholic perspective. 🙂

P.S. There are awesome resources out there, blogs, youtube videos, books. One of my favorite books is Elaine St. James, Simplify Your Life.
 
Love this thread and subject. I grew up Mennonite and simplicity ruled our lives. (I converted as an adult.) I still live simply and so does our entire family.
 
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