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Amie
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Hello! To anyone out there, I’d appreciate some help. My husband and I were out of town this past weekend, and had to attend a different Catholic church than our own. Okay, we start mass the usual way, sing, prayers, etc. We all sit down and wait for the first reading… this is when things get weird. A guy comes up, but instead of the first reading, begins to spout how he’s been with the parish 20 some years, yadda, yadda, yadda… and here’s Two GREAT parishioners (who happen to be actors on the side at a local theatre, etc.), who are going to talk about their own spiritual walk - RIGHT NOW! :bigyikes: They sit down at a little table IN FRONT OF THE ALTAR with a laptop and coffee mug for her, and a few books for him. And they just sit and talk about their own spiritual “walks” for the next 15 minutes. At the end, the woman gets up and says that we can all talk to God, if we just “Let go, and Let God!” I was already incensed at this point… but to end with a cliche’ just about killed me.
After that, mass went on as usual, except there was no offering baskets passed around during offertory (which was odd for a Sunday morning mass, although not as much for a weekday mass).
I walked up to the priest afterwards to get his point of view, very non-confrontational, but when I got around to asking about the GIRM, he said that the GIRM was up for interpretation by the pastor, and he decided this was fine, and so it was… and since you’re not a regular parishioner here, etc… So, I would like to know… where exactly did this mass go awry according to the GIRM? Any documents that anyone knows of where I can get specific clarity on this issue? Because #1 I’m going to ask the priest about it again via email and #2 I’m GOING to send my concerns to the local bishop. But, I want to make sure all my ducks are in a row first.
Thank you all for any help you can offer, and GOD BLESS!!!
-Amy
After that, mass went on as usual, except there was no offering baskets passed around during offertory (which was odd for a Sunday morning mass, although not as much for a weekday mass).
I walked up to the priest afterwards to get his point of view, very non-confrontational, but when I got around to asking about the GIRM, he said that the GIRM was up for interpretation by the pastor, and he decided this was fine, and so it was… and since you’re not a regular parishioner here, etc… So, I would like to know… where exactly did this mass go awry according to the GIRM? Any documents that anyone knows of where I can get specific clarity on this issue? Because #1 I’m going to ask the priest about it again via email and #2 I’m GOING to send my concerns to the local bishop. But, I want to make sure all my ducks are in a row first.
Thank you all for any help you can offer, and GOD BLESS!!!
-Amy