A Tale of Two Parishes

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Hello Everyone! Glory to Jesus Christ!

I am, by rite, a Byzantine Catholic, in fact a convert from Judaism. By circumstance (and God’s will for me now) my wife and I worship in a Latin rite Catholic church. I know this sounds really unusual, but I really love and feel equally comfortable with either liturgy, when celebrated as they are meant to be. (I also feel equally comfortable with and love both Eastern and Western spirituality. Guess that makes me be a little schizoid :eek: ).

Unfortunately, our local parish Catholic “community” is rife with illicit practices. Nothing that, as far as I am able to tell, invalidates the Mass, thanks be to God! However, if illicit were invalid, the Mass would be invalid many times over. Interestingly enough, there is also a high degree of irreverence amongst the parishioners before, during, and after the Mass, there have been very, very few vocations emanating from the “community”, it’s devotional and pro-life activities are very minimal, and even the church architecture, both interior and exterior are incredibly bare and stark. At least there is a Perpetual Adoration chapel. But nothing is ever mentioned about it except when there are time slots needing to be filled. Sigh.

With regard to the illicit practices, I did send a detailed email to the pastor about it. He surprised me by responding and saying he’d like for us to meet. To make a long story short, we had a very pleasant, cordial meeting, and virtually nothing will be changing. Sound familiar to anyone? Is anyone surprised?

Well, recently, we attended Mass at another parish, about 16 miles from us, in the same archdiocese as the above-mentioned “community”. We had been meaning to do so for some time, and finally made it there. It was like night and day!! It is in a relatively new building, which actually looks and feels Catholic both inside and out. It really is beautiful, in a new-ish kind of way. But even better than that, every single one of the practices that are done illicitly in the first “community” are done properly, and with great dignity and reverence in the second “church”! And no one even broke into a sweat or started having conniption fits. Amazing! Even the altar servers were dignified, reverential, and knew what they were doing.

There was much greater respectful quietude in the church at all times, there have been a number of vocations that have come out of that parish, there are more Masses (2 daily, 1 Sat. evening, 5 on Sunday) in a parish that is roughly the same size as the other, if not a little smaller, they have an active pro-life ministry, Rosary after one of the daily Masses every day, and Divine Mercy chaplet every Thursday at 3 p.m. And the priests actually genuflect at all the appropriate times, as per the rubrics! Astounding!

It all just goes to show that even the N.O. Mass CAN be done beautifully, properly, respectfully, and reverentially. And with very little extra effort or pain or what-have-you. All that is needed is the will and humility to do it. Guess where we will be going to Mass as often as we can from now on! That is, until we are able again to attend Divine Liturgy at a Byzantine parish.

Please pray with us for ALL priests!
Jeff
 
I know how you feel Jeff.

My husband and I started attending the TLM in a neighbouring parish because of the liturgical abuses in our parish. In November the Bishop appointed a young priest and he learnt how to celebrate the TLM so it counld continue. His NO Mass on Sunday is simply beautiful and reverential.

We must pray for more holy priests.
 
Where in Maryland do you live that you are not close to a Byzantine Rite parish or a mission??
 
…It all just goes to show that even the N.O. Mass CAN be done beautifully, properly, respectfully, and reverentially. And with very little extra effort or pain or what-have-you. All that is needed is the will and humility to do it. Guess where we will be going to Mass as often as we can from now on! That is, until we are able again to attend Divine Liturgy at a Byzantine parish.

Please pray with us for ALL priests!
Jeff
Sure it can. The Pauline Mass is every bit as valid and beautiful as either the Eastern Divine Liturgies or the Tridentine Mass. In a very practical sense I think it all boils down to following God and these three things:
  • A bishop who supports and encourages (and yes, demands!) his pastors/priests to celebrate the Mass as directed by the Church.
  • A pastor who cares and is willing to take the time to train others and not simply off-load the work to others.
  • A pastor who is not afraid to take-on entrenched laity who perpertuate heterodoxy. Sound simple? Far from it.
I attend the Pauline Mass and Divine Liturgies each Sunday and they are both extremely nourishing. I avoid the Tridentine Mass because invariably most of the talk amongst the laity is how superior the Tridentine Mass is to the Pauline Mass, the evils of Vatican II, etc.
 
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