There is no difference here. One may “know about”, or “aware of” some evidence, but does not realize or understand its significance or veracity, then one does not know the truth of the evidence. One believes that in that case that the evidence is insufficient, or inapplicable.
Okay … now, you previously said:
I think that self-deception is to believe something that is contradicted by evidence. The person performing the self-deception is aware of the evidence, but - for whatever reason - does not accept it as evidence.
Now, when he “does not accept it as evidence” does that mean he understands its significant or veracity or simply knows about some evidence without understanding its significance or veracity?
If he just “knows about” the evidence but doesn’t
understand the evidence, then of course he would not know that the evidence contradicts his belief. His belief is completely in tact and there is no reason to consider that he deceiving himself, right? Hence, I do not see how this would be self-deception.
If he actually
understands the evidence and thus knows the evidence contradicts his belief, and yet sticks to his belief anyway, then I can see how this constitutes self-deception. Hence, self-deception is believing something you know to be false.
I’m probably missing something, no?
Honestly, if self-deception isn’t making yourself believe what you know isn’t true … why call it
deception? For you to admit the ability to deceive yourself (i.e. to lie to yourself), then you have to acknowledge the ability to believe something you know is false (because they are the same thing).
In your example the “giving” of the car is not a gift, it is a loan, with some strings attached to it.
So … how exactly does any of this stop it from being a gift?
First of all, why did you put “giving” in quotes? If a person lends me something, it can be said that he gives it to me … even if it’s just temporary or doesn’t become my exclusive property. Even if you are lent money, you still are given money. So, the teenager is definitely given the car.
Now, just because one does not become the absolute ruler of a certain thing given to him, does it mean the thing is necessarily not a
gift to him? I think there are two things required to constitute a gift (maybe more?): 1) it has to be given (which this example fulfills), and 2) it is given not for the reason that the giver owes it to the recipient for some reason. I would say, then, that the example definitely fulfills the second condition. Hence, the parent giving the teenager a car that the parent nonetheless still owns is definitely a gift to the teenager.
Why must a gift have no strings attached to be a gift? As long as it’s a thing given without obligation, it’s a gift, but the giver can choose to withhold (or in a case where he still owns it, revoke) it if the recipient does or does not do a certain thing.
Another example along these lines is giving shelter to a homeless person. You can
give them a room and bed in your house to sleep in even though they will never own any of it. You can even put the condition that if they try and steal anything, you’ll kick them out of your house. Nonetheless, with all of these things, it is still definitely and rightly considered a
gift that you have given to that homeless person. You didn’t owe it to them, but you gave your room and bed to use anyway. Definitely, a gift to that homeless person.
The teenager is free to accept the car, and the stipulated restrictions, or reject it entirely. At the very least he must be made aware of the restrictions before he can make a choice in the matter.
Once again, this does not disqualify it from being a gift.
Obviously he does not get full control over the car (he cannot sell it, for example) and this lack of ownership is reflected by the legal papers, which clearly say that the owners are the parents, and the teenager merely can “use” it.
Yeah, and that use of it is a gift. You can still say the car is a gift. You can still say the room and bed for the homeless person is a gift. Even though they specifically can only use it and not own it entirely. They can only analogously “own” it, insofar as they are free to use it (and sometimes only under certain conditions). None of this alters the fact that these things are gifts to those people.