Let’s go to specifics, it is easier to work with a particular example.
I agree that examples are invaluable, however, the example that you gave (that I shall examine) still doesn’t elucidate your thoughts. I need some definitions.
Christian assertion: “God is good”. Good means to be helpful (a very simplistic definiton, I know).
Whoa. Okay, “good” just means “helpful”? Um. That’s pretty simplistic. I’ve talked about the philosophical and theological definitions of “good” so many times, and it doesn’t just mean “helpful.” If you want to go over what “good” means … I guess we can do that … again.
Evidence: “God is not helpful”. There are no signs that God would come to help to those who are in dire need of it. Therefore the evidence (the lack of actions) contradicts the hypothesis (God is good).
Well, what does “helpful” mean? Is all kind of helpfulness good? If I need help in order to commit a murder, is that kind of helpfulness good? No, of course not. Hence, your simplistic equation of “goodness” and “helpfulness” is obviously not well thought out. Very simplistic. Try again.
Particularly, define what “helpful” means and what “need” is and so forth. I have defined these many times throughout my time here at the Catholic Answers Forum. But I will gladly lay it out all again if you need me to. But, please, if you can clear up what you mean by these, that would be
helpful.
How is this dilemma “resolved”? By bringing up all sorts of different excuses.
The “excuses” I have given point out your failure to correctly define terms. So … they’re pretty good excuses. If you don’t think so, show me why not.
It would take a long time to analyze all the possible excuses, and at the end, when all of them are refuted, some new ones would be presented - none of which could stand the light of rational scrutiny.
I just presented the case that you defined “goodness” quite badly, and I think “rational scrutiny” is on my side on this one.
That is what I call self-deception. In a sense it is like “doublethink” - to hold two contradictory assertions as “true” - simultaneously (refer to the book “1984” by George Orwell). It is very hard to imagine how it can be done, but apparently it is possible. Compartmentalizing is the word, if I am not mistaken.
Yes, it is possible. However, the difference between you and me, is that I can justify the existence of such a thing, whereas you cannot. I can admit that self-deception exists because I believe one can believe something and that one knows to be false. However, you do not agree that one can believe something one knows to be false … and yet believe in self-deception. I cannot understand how you could possibly reconcile these two.
That is doublethink, I say.
As long as it is mutually understood what the stipulations are - before one accepts a gift, that is fine. And a rejected gift is not a gift. It may be an intended gift, but the acceptance is a crucial part of becoming a gift.
No, no, no. A rejected gift is still a gift. Otherwise, it wouldn’t be called a gift (hence, why we call it a rejected
gift). I can refuse gifts, but I can only do that if they are gifts, otherwise I wouldn’t be refusing
gifts. Gifts can be accepted or rejected, but for them to be a rejected
gift, they at least have to be a
gift (otherwise, they would be a rejected … something-or-other).
Imagine a birthday present, given to you, for example a nice set of kitchen implements. You are NOT told by the giver that you can only use them for making one specific type of dish. Someone else, whom you have no reason to trust tells you about this requirement. If you use it for any other purpose, the giver will take it back from you - without your consent. You use it to make a different type of dish, and the giver takes it back from you without your consent. In my eyes, that is not really a gift. But, I guess you see it differently. Stalemate. I just wonder, what your reaction would be, if this actually happened to you.
I may hate his gift. But it’s still a gift. Albeit a weird one.
In any case, you are trying to relate this to various theological claims … and I’m just confused. Can you relate this better to a particular theological example?
I’ll just say, God won’t condemn you for doing something evil that you honestly didn’t know was evil. So, right there, your example doesn’t seem to apply. Even if an ordained Catholic priest tells you such-and-such is evil, and yet you honestly believe the priest is wrong, then your commitment of that evil will not be counted to you as sinful, i.e. you will not go to hell for it. I don’t know if that resolves your issue. I’m frankly I bit confused what you’re trying to say.
We have here semantical differences. A loan is very different from a gift. Otherwise we could use the two words interchangebly.
No. A loan
can be a kind of gift. I can give someone a car … giving him complete ownership of it and all … and that can be considered a gift but not a loan. Or … I can give him the car … and yet still own it (and, yes, still pay the bills and insurance for it) … and that can be considered a gift as well as a loan. Or … I can give someone a car with the agreement that he pay me back for it at such-and-such a time … in which case, that would not be a gift but just a loan. So, some gifts are loans, some loans are gifts, some gifts aren’t loans, some loans aren’t gifts. Definitely two words that are not interchangeable.