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delete the video I want the truth to go away. I want to bury my head in the sand and believe in my imaginary friend.
Solid advice.One of the most important lessons you can learn is that life will not always go your way. When it does, rejoice. But when it doesn’t, rejoice anyway.
Friend, what makes you traditional is NOT the EF. That would be to miss the point of being traditional.Hello again – it’s me, ParvaDei.
I’m writing this because I have started going to a public university, and I’ve found that while the parish is starting to become more orthodox (since they’ve recently come out of a funk of theological liberalism with a new set of more faithful priests), I still feel like the odd one out.
This is because I’m practically the only college student who veils and prefers more TLM-like liturgical praxis. (That isn’t to say that I will join LifeTeen/Taizé-esque college ministry activities if those are the only equivalents in the area, but I feel out of place.The only place I seem to fit in is either at the church’s Chant Mass or the Masses with the non-folk-style hymns.)
And please note a few things: the nearest TLM is two hours away (and I don’t have a car), and if anyone is going to post something about me switching to Christendom (or the like – even out of jest), I go to that particular university because of money issues and because of the quality of its research programs and faculty.
So, what should I do (besides go to the Ordinary Form on Sundays, etc.)? I don’t want to feel like I’m the only traditionalist Catholic in the university. . . .
Yes! To the OP: have you ever considered that God has put you into this situation for a reason, that maybe he doesn’t want you to “escape” to your comfort zone in an EF mass 2 hours away? Any time you’re put in a difficult situation, pray on it to figure out why you’re there. It’ll help you avoid mental and spiritual anguish, and will prevent you from becoming bitter in the process.One of the most important lessons you can learn is that life will not always go your way. When it does, rejoice. But when it doesn’t, rejoice anyway.
Nice post.Yes! To the OP: have you ever considered that God has put you into this situation for a reason, that maybe he doesn’t want you to “escape” to your comfort zone in an EF mass 2 hours away? Any time you’re put in a difficult situation, pray on it to figure out why you’re there. It’ll help you avoid mental and spiritual anguish, and will prevent you from becoming bitter in the process.
Trust me on this; I’m a senior faithful Catholic at a very secular school. I’ve hit the “everyone sucks and I hate my life and I hate this place” wall quite a few times.![]()
+1Friend, what makes you traditional is NOT the EF. That would be to miss the point of being traditional.
Being traditional is about having a mindset that is more attuned with our past. It is to have a prudent mind, a wise and discerning mind when it comes to day to day matters pertaining to faith and conduct which is not afraid to draw from the knowledge of traditions.
You will be a traditional Catholic and set an example for others when you do just that.
So even if you attend ordinary mass, things like taking communion on the tongue, praying after and before mass, praying the rosary, wearing the veil, these are the things that will matter.
In your life, avoiding situations that will lead to temptation (night clubs, cohabiting with the opposite sex, late night parties, dressing immodestly) this is what will make you a traditional Catholic (and an actual Catholic).
So don’t get tied up with this EF vs. OF business. EF is a great part of our tradition. But it is not what makes a person a traditional Catholic.
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It’s not just a “Mass preference,” it a worldview and a lifestyle. Live it where you are and maybe God will send you people who are attracted to it and want to try it. The Church needs more of what you do.
There are NOT specific to Traditional Catholicism.praying after and before mass, praying the rosary,
These are also NOT specific to Traditional Catholicism, as you note (then why include them in that category?).In your life, avoiding situations that will lead to temptation (night clubs, cohabiting with the opposite sex, late night parties, dressing immodestly) this is what will make you a traditional Catholic (and an actual Catholic).
Is your inquiry regarding why a certain item is considered traditional? If that is the case, you might be on the wrong thread my friend.There are NOT specific to Traditional Catholicism.
These are also NOT specific to Traditional Catholicism, as you note (then why include them in that category?).
Not at all. The poster asked for traditional practices. Items were provided that were not actually traditionalist, and for the sake of accuracy I pointed them out. The alternative is dissemination of misinformation, and I am sure that no one wants that, correct?Is your inquiry regarding why a certain item is considered traditional? If that is the case, you might be on the wrong thread my friend.
Every single parish that I have attended has had parishioners pray the Rosary and pray before Mass. Furthermore, something as basic as prayer, that is required by all Catholics, cannot be appropriated by a particular faction.But to satisfy your inquiring mind, I simply ask you to look around and number the parishes today that advocate any of the listed items above. They are far and few.
Traditional Catholicism is distinct from Catholicism in the choice of practices. You cannot say that something required by all Catholics makes them traditionalist, because then the definition of traditional would be useless: it would merely be Catholic. As the situation stands, the term has meaning because it espouses certain voluntary practices: veiling, the Extraordinary Form (if one is a liturgical traditionalist), perhaps a particular home arrangement, and so forth. You correctly point this out. Nevertheless, the idea of praying before Mass or praying the Rosary are most certainly not confined to traditionalists, and it is offensive to claim as much.So I think to call them traditional would be proper. You are however right in pointing out that they are CATHOLIC values. I wish more people realized that about traditional Catholicism![]()
I am not sure what is confusing you here?Not at all. The poster asked for traditional practices. Items were provided that were not actually traditionalist, and for the sake of accuracy I pointed them out. The alternative is dissemination of misinformation, and I am sure that no one wants that, correct?
Every single parish that I have attended has had parishioners pray the Rosary and pray before Mass. Furthermore, something as basic as prayer, that is required by all Catholics, cannot be appropriated by a particular faction.
I think you are being a bit too sensitive here. All the mentioned items were things that were part of Church tradition for centuries. So there is no inaccuracy in stating that they are part of the traditionalist repertoire.Traditional Catholicism is distinct from Catholicism in the choice of practices. You cannot say that something required by all Catholics makes them traditionalist, because then the definition of traditional would be useless: it would merely be Catholic. As the situation stands, the term has meaning because it espouses certain voluntary practices: veiling, the Extraordinary Form (if one is a liturgical traditionalist), perhaps a particular home arrangement, and so forth. You correctly point this out. Nevertheless, the idea of praying before Mass or praying the Rosary are most certainly not confined to traditionalists, and it is offensive to claim as much.
I come from a view point that traditional Catholicism IS the only valid form of Catholicism.
There are not brands of Catholicism like beers. There is one God, one true Church, composed of many believers absorbing the truth with different cultures and languages, with different minds, but all one Church. We do not form our own Churches according to our tastes,and call the other members less than legitimate somehow. There is no Traditional Catholic Church or Progressive Catholic Church, there is only THE Catholic Church.
Just wanted to say that FOCUS is a wonderful organization. Hope you are able to be a missionary with them!Yes! To the OP: have you ever considered that God has put you into this situation for a reason, that maybe he doesn’t want you to “escape” to your comfort zone in an EF mass 2 hours away? Any time you’re put in a difficult situation, pray on it to figure out why you’re there. It’ll help you avoid mental and spiritual anguish, and will prevent you from becoming bitter in the process.
Trust me on this; I’m a senior faithful Catholic at a very secular school. I’ve hit the “everyone sucks and I hate my life and I hate this place” wall quite a few times.![]()
So we are in agreement then. If I was not clear, I am from the camp that traditional Catholicism is the ONLY form of valid Catholicism.There are not brands of Catholicism like beers. There is one God, one true Church, composed of many believers absorbing the truth with different cultures and languages, with different minds, but all one Church. We do not form our own Churches according to our tastes,and call the other members less than legitimate somehow. There is no Traditional Catholic Church or Progressive Catholic Church, there is only THE Catholic Church.
And yes, you can expect Catholics to get sensitive over this issue. (or non-issue)
then you will be very unhappy with this forum,also insulting what the Church has approved is not tolerated on this forum.So we are in agreement then. If I was not clear, I am from the camp that traditional Catholicism is the ONLY form of valid Catholicism.
It is unfortunate that there is a “NEW” Catholicism that wants to break with our traditions and mislead people in to thinking there are two.
If you are claiming that traditionalism is the only valid form of Catholicism, then you cannot say that optional things (e.g. veiling) are “traditional,” because they are not required by the Catholic Church.I come from a view point that traditional Catholicism IS the only valid form of Catholicism. You seem to wholeheartedly agree with me as far as I can see. So I am not quiet sure what you are getting at.
The problem is stating that certain things are “traditional” versus “not.” This is the implied distinction, one set in motion by the OP and inherent to this thread. The notion that the Rosary is “traditional” and therefore confined to “traditionalists” is absurd.I think you are being a bit too sensitive here. All the mentioned items were things that were part of Church tradition for centuries. So there is no inaccuracy in stating that they are part of the traditionalist repertoire.
You are indeed making that same distinction, one that is as theoretically erroneous as it is empirically so, with regards, at least, to prayer and the Rosary.But to satisfy your inquiring mind, I simply ask you to look around and number the parishes today that advocate any of the listed items above. They are far and few.
First, the sample must be restricted to Catholics who are theologically and morally in line with the Church, since this discussion ought to be restricted to faithful Catholics. Second, I challenge the validity of the claim. The Rosary and prayer are encouraged and practiced at many NO Masses. Every single parish I have attended has a Rosary started by one of the congregants before Mass and during the hours of Reconciliation. I have no reason whatsoever to believe that my evidence is biased.Most modern day Catholics simply do not practice these things. The average Catholic family does not pray the Rosary together daily. The average Catholic kid does not pray the rosary daily and neither do they pray before mass.
Not to try and derail the thread, but, you are aware that ‘traditional catholicism’ does not include any of the Eastern Rites of Catholicism and so that by this statement you are claiming that no Eastern Rite Catholics are actually Catholic?So we are in agreement then. If I was not clear, I am from the camp that traditional Catholicism is the ONLY form of valid Catholicism.
It is unfortunate that there is a “NEW” Catholicism that wants to break with our traditions and mislead people in to thinking there are two.
and the Ordinary Form of the Mass is valid Catholicism .So we are in agreement then. If I was not clear, I am from the camp that traditional Catholicism is the ONLY form of valid Catholicism.
It is unfortunate that there is a “NEW” Catholicism that wants to break with our traditions and mislead people in to thinking there are two.
Dear i_am_a_Catholic,It is unfortunate that there is a “NEW” Catholicism that wants to break with our traditions and mislead people in to thinking there are two.