Abandoned & Divorced after 30 years

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tradcathcconvert and tbcrawford: you are such a sweet lady, but honestly I have so
many flaws. Living alone lets me reflect back and see them very clearly. Now I can
calmly review what I see going on around me. Before I was totally preoccupied
with my little married world. One of the benefits of now living alone is a lot of solitude
and time to think. Late, but maybe I can learn some things about myself for the
future. One thing this crisis has taught me: more patience with everybody else,
more empathy for everybody else. I now have the time to look deeply in the hearts of
others. I reflect a lot on the goodness of everyone on THIS site…their concern for
others & their generosity. Have a blessed day, “T”.

kaylynn7800
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Sweet Kaylynn 😃 I learn from you every day!👍 I do not think I could be as humble nor as generous as you if I had been through all that you have.
Like you I often reflect on things & see how God has brought me through difficult times in my life. I often recognise that it is through suffering we can empathise with others & truly learn what love is. God bless you dear Friend

Dear Lord thankyou for helping our dear Friend Kaylynn with all her trials in life and that she is such a wonderful example of faith and by her courage of sharing here she is helping so many people. Lord please bless Kaylynn and help her and Gideon as she adjusts to all these changes including her medications changed and weaned.Lord please keep her safe always and continue to grant her strength and good health. We pray also for Larry for his readjustment to this new phase of life and for them both.Please Lord bless our dear friend Kaylynn always.Thankyou Lord for hearing our prayers Amen

Eternal God , in whom mercy is endless,
and the treasury of compassion inexhastible ,
look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us ,
that in difficult moments we might not despair
nor become despondent , but with great confidence ,
submit ourselves to Your Holy Will ,
which is love and mercy itself . Amen

Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
tradcathconvert and tbcrawford: A privilege to hear from you both today! When I
meet with the divorced group at church on Tuesday nights, some positive things
happen and some negative things happen. It is a good thing to meet with my group
because we all have something in common, but on the other hand there is a lot of
talk about the past and it purposely stirs the pot and brings back some painful
feelings. So I could definitely use blessings today. God bless you for your
kindness and thoughtfulness.

kaylynn7800
 
Our Father, Who art in heaven,
Hallowed be Thy Name.
Thy Kingdom come.
Thy Will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven. Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our trespasses,
as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of death.
Amen.

Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son,
and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning,
is now,
and ever shall be,
world without end.
Amen
 
In the Name of the Father, and of the Son,
and of the Holy Ghost. Amen.

**Our Father, Who art in Heaven, **
**hallowed be Thy Name. **
**Thy Kingdom come. **
Thy Will be done,
on earth, as it is in Heaven.
**Give us this day our daily bread **
**and forgive us our trespasses **
**as we forgive those who trespass against us; **
**and lead us not into temptation, **
**but deliver us from evil. **
Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.
**Blessed art thou amongst women, **
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners,
now, and at the hour of our death. Amen.

**Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Ghost, as it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end. Amen. **

In the Name of the Father, and of the Son,
and of the Holy Ghost. Amen.
 
tradcathconvert and The Reginator: Happy August to you. This will be one year since
the divorce last August 27. I am really grateful to all of you for your support. The first
two months last yr. I floundered around. If you ask me how I found CAF, it was not
by referral. I was surfing the net. So I guess you could call that the inspiration of
the Holy Spirit last October. What else could it be? I was looking for a life preserver
and some relief. I felt stifled and needed to vent. You folks have been supporting me
ever since. This leaves me with a big lump in my throat. I have experienced tremen-
dous support and compassion here. I lift all of you in my thoughts today!

kaylynn7800
 
kaylynn7800 said:
tradcathconvert and tbcrawford: A privilege to hear from you both today! When I
meet with the divorced group at church on Tuesday nights, some positive things
happen and some negative things happen. It is a good thing to meet with my group
because we all have something in common, but on the other hand there is a lot of
talk about the past and it purposely stirs the pot and brings back some painful
feelings. So I could definitely use blessings today. God bless you for your
kindness and thoughtfulness.

kaylynn7800
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(((HUGS))) I can imagine how negative the Tuesday group could be as you are trying to move forward in a positive way in your life and discussing the ‘painful’ times is not good. I know that your faith.strength and courage will help so may others who face this terrifying situation that you have had to endure. Love and prayers for you sweetie xo
God bless you

Dear Lord thankyou for helping our dear Friend Kaylynn with all her trials in life and that she is such a wonderful example of faith and by her courage of sharing here she is helping so many people. Lord please bless Kaylynn and help her and Gideon as she adjusts to all these changes including her medications changed and weaned.Lord please keep her safe always and continue to grant her strength and good health. We pray also for Larry for his readjustment to this new phase of life and for them both.Please Lord bless our dear friend Kaylynn always.Thankyou Lord for hearing our prayers Amen

Eternal God , in whom mercy is endless,
and the treasury of compassion inexhastible ,
look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us ,
that in difficult moments we might not despair
nor become despondent , but with great confidence ,
submit ourselves to Your Holy Will ,
which is love and mercy itself . Amen

Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
77stanthony77 and tb crawford: Good friends I thank you for the prayers and kind
thoughts on my behalf. Good to get your prayers and messages before I turn in:

Angel of God, my guardian dear, to whom God’s love entrusts me here. Ever this
night be at my side: to light, to guard, to rule and guide. AMEN. Goodnight - God
bless. AMEN.

kaylynn7800
 
Our Father, Who art in heaven,
Hallowed be Thy Name.
Thy Kingdom come.
Thy Will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven. Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our trespasses,
as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of death.
Amen.

Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son,
and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning,
is now,
and ever shall be,
world without end.
Amen
 
tradcathconvert: Found your prayers this morning…reminds me of how I want to
start my day. Yesterday an old friend from years gone by called me. Knew of the
divorce and wanted to check on me. That felt reassuring - he was like a nephew to
me. He said: “as long as you are happy” . . . that might be overstating it, but it
definitely was great being remembered. I wish many prayers and good works for
all of you this weekend! Immaculate Heart of Mary, pray for all of us.

kaylynn7800
 
Our Father, Who art in heaven,
Hallowed be Thy Name.
Thy Kingdom come.
Thy Will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven. Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our trespasses,
as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of death.
Amen.

Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son,
and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning,
is now,
and ever shall be,
world without end.
Amen
 
Love and prayers continue for you dear Kaylynn
God bless you

Dear Lord thankyou for helping our dear Friend Kaylynn with all her trials in life and that she is such a wonderful example of faith and by her courage of sharing here she is helping so many people. Lord please bless Kaylynn and help her and Gideon as she adjusts to all these changes including her medications changed and weaned.Lord please keep her safe always and continue to grant her strength and good health. We pray also for Larry for his readjustment to this new phase of life and for them both.Please Lord bless our dear friend Kaylynn always.Thankyou Lord for hearing our prayers Amen

Eternal God , in whom mercy is endless,
and the treasury of compassion inexhastible ,
look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us ,
that in difficult moments we might not despair
nor become despondent , but with great confidence ,
submit ourselves to Your Holy Will ,
which is love and mercy itself . Amen

Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
Hail Mary, full of grace. the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.
 
tradcathconvert and tbcrawford: Attended a First Saturday Mass and had an
opportunity to go on some sick calls with a friend. I saw my friend, Barbara,
again at hospice and I see that a week has taken its toll. It broke my heart,
but I told her: fight hard, Barb. She said in a weak voice: “i’m doing my best,
Kaylynn.” We squeezed hands. I see God has sent her a trial far greater than I
could ever complain about. He is showing me that there could be something
far worse than a divorce.

kaylynn7800
 
Our Father, Who art in heaven,
Hallowed be Thy Name.
Thy Kingdom come.
Thy Will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven. Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our trespasses,
as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of death.
Amen.

Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son,
and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning,
is now,
and ever shall be,
world without end.
Amen
 
Dear Kaylynn my love for you and prayers always.
My heart goes out to Barbara and how special you are to think your problems are not as bad as hers.Both of you are going through terrible life changing trauma’s.The very fact that you are so considerate of dear Barbara’s plight shows how thoughtful you are.Prayers for you and for Barbara and all who are terminally ill continue.
God bless you

Dear Lord thankyou for helping our dear Friend Kaylynn with all her trials in life and that she is such a wonderful example of faith and by her courage of sharing here she is helping so many people. Lord please bless Kaylynn and help her and Gideon as she adjusts to all these changes including her medications changed and weaned.Lord please keep her safe always and continue to grant her strength and good health. We pray also for Larry for his readjustment to this new phase of life and for them both.Please Lord bless our dear friend Kaylynn always.Thankyou Lord for hearing our prayers Amen

Eternal God , in whom mercy is endless,
and the treasury of compassion inexhastible ,
look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us ,
that in difficult moments we might not despair
nor become despondent , but with great confidence ,
submit ourselves to Your Holy Will ,
which is love and mercy itself . Amen

Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
michael 57; tradcathconvert and tb crawford: hope you are enjoying your Sunday.
Gideon is spending some of the weekend with Larry. I got a call from my sister
in AZ; a fellow she was once engaged to died last night. Actually, they took Jim off
life support. He was a Green Beret and saw a lot of combat in Vietnam

They had found both brain and lung cancer. They had planned to operate, but
pneumonia set in, he went into a coma, and they removed him from life support.
A very good natured guy, bright red hair and freckles. 65 is way too young.

May the souls of the faithful, throught the mercy of God, rest in peace. AMEN

kaylynn7800
 
Our Father, Who art in heaven,
Hallowed be Thy Name.
Thy Kingdom come.
Thy Will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven. Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our trespasses,
as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of death.
Amen.

Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son,
and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning,
is now,
and ever shall be,
world without end.
Amen
 
kaylynn7800 said:
michael 57; tradcathconvert and tb crawford: hope you are enjoying your Sunday.
Gideon is spending some of the weekend with Larry. I got a call from my sister
in AZ; a fellow she was once engaged to died last night. Actually, they took Jim off
life support. He was a Green Beret and saw a lot of combat in Vietnam

They had found both brain and lung cancer. They had planned to operate, but
pneumonia set in, he went into a coma, and they removed him from life support.
A very good natured guy, bright red hair and freckles. 65 is way too young.

May the souls of the faithful, throught the mercy of God, rest in peace. AMEN

kaylynn7800
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Eternal rest grant unto Jim O Lord
may perpetual light shine upon him
and may he rest in peace Amen

So sad to read of Jim (only 65) passing away.May God bless his loved ones as they grieve for him.

Love and prayers for you dear Kaylynn
God bless you

Dear Lord thankyou for helping our dear Friend Kaylynn with all her trials in life and that she is such a wonderful example of faith and by her courage of sharing here she is helping so many people. Lord please bless Kaylynn and help her and Gideon as she adjusts to all these changes including her medications changed and weaned.Lord please keep her safe always and continue to grant her strength and good health. We pray also for Larry for his readjustment to this new phase of life and for them both.Please Lord bless our dear friend Kaylynn always.Thankyou Lord for hearing our prayers Amen

Eternal God , in whom mercy is endless,
and the treasury of compassion inexhastible ,
look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us ,
that in difficult moments we might not despair
nor become despondent , but with great confidence ,
submit ourselves to Your Holy Will ,
which is love and mercy itself . Amen

Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
tradcathconvert and tbcrawford: thank you most graciously for today’s prayer. I
also appreciate your thoughts and prayers about Jim, Teresa.

Received word from my attorney that a check may be cut shortly from Larry’s 40lK,
which we are splitting by order of the judge. I thank you for your continued prayer
because this could be money I need to actually purchase something of my own,
rather than rent next year. I am grateful to Almighty God. To me it was never about
the money, only about the principle. Now that it is over, I realize this money is
the vehicle to my future. God bless you all.

kaylynn7800
 
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