The woman says, “I was just so stressed out by this whole thing. I didn’t want to feed it. Anyway, why should I have to take responsibility for its care?”
The woman does not have to give up her bodily autonomy to care for the child here. She is not medically hooked up to the child’s body to care for it. It’s a distinction that our society identifies as different. Even our deceased have to give permission for their bodies to be used for someone else’s benefit over that sick person’s right to life. Since this is not the case of someone being attached to someone else, using their body to sustain them, isn’t this an example of a straw man argument where you presented a case similar but different enough to not actually be the case presented? The situations are not really the same, are they? Or do you see it differently?
Now, would anyone argue that the woman has no responsibility towards this baby? Whether we like it or not, when a woman is pregnant with a baby, she is the only person in the world who is able to look after them. Again, we’re not even asking the woman to do anything - during pregnancy, you do not have to actively care for the child, because it’s a completely natural bodily process that takes care of itself. Rather, we are saying that the woman cannot actively kill her child.
Again this is a right to life vs right of someone’s bodily autonomy: So in the episode I was listening to the issue was about special rights of the preborn that changes once they are born.
Preborn: fetus has a right to their life over the mother’s right to her own body and what it is used for.
Born: the child has a right to their life but not over the mother’s right to her own body and what it is used for.
That’s special privilege as they described it or is it not the case?
There is no formula milk in the cabin. For the baby to survive long enough to eat solid food, the woman is going to have to breastfeed them (remember that she is a new mother and is producing milk).
This would be a good point that someone needed to bring up in the discussion. But they didn’t so, I’m not sure how the host and guest would address this. I agree that it is not unreasonable to provide milk for a child in that situation. But we don’t force people, even the ones that created the victim, like the death row inmate, to give blood to save their victims. Would we hold the woman accountable for not breastfeeding the child if we would not hold a man accountable for not donating blood?
But again, abortion is not simply “withholding care”. So let’s add another element to the thought experiment:
So if the abortion process was just to allow the fetus to die by disconnection to the mother, that would be withholding care correct?
Now, this is a better analogy to pregnancy, where a woman can “escape” the situation of being pregnant by having an abortion. Is it okay for the woman to kill the baby in the crib to escape her predicament? Then it is also wrong for a woman to kill her son or daughter in her womb in order to get out of pregnancy.
Currently, post-birth, the woman can care for the child without giving up her bodily autonomy for care, then she is fine. But if the child needed her blood to survive or any other part of her body, the woman has to give consent. Same as if it was a man there. That is why we do not force death row inmates to give up any part of their body to save the life of their victims or any random person on the street to be picked up because their bone marrow matches someone else that needs it. Currently, consent of someone’s bodily usage supersedes someone’s right to life, regardless of the age of development of that person and the situation they are in. Or do you see it differently as to what is the case now?