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“Almost no chance whatsoever”? My child was exposed at age 6, to a large gory banner being flown above a July 4th parade.
What makes it worse is that he was at the stage of sounding out every word he saw on signs as we drove along.

Happily, the excitement of the parade distracted him and the issue didn’t have to be dealt with prematurely (which is the point parents against this method are making; young children don’t need this kind of info yet).
And my chldren never saw them. But of course that is ancedotal evidence and proves nothng. however givent the number of abortion clinics and given the number of protestors who use these images the chances of any child seeing one of these pictures is almost non-existent.
 
And my chldren never saw them. But of course that is ancedotal evidence and proves nothng. however givent the number of abortion clinics and given the number of protestors who use these images the chances of any child seeing one of these pictures is almost non-existent.
My experience is anecdotal? Fine. What are the statistics you use to support the claim that chances of a child seeing one of those pics is “almost non-existent”?

If you’re going to make statistical proof the standard, then start by providing the numbers and studies that support your various proclamations.
 
And my chldren never saw them.
Yet you are quite happy to state absolutely that it is no big deal if everyone else’s child does so. I see.
But of course that is ancedotal evidence and proves nothng.
Only proves personal experience. If your anecdotal evidence is admissable, then so is everyone else’s and they all bear equal weight.
however givent the number of abortion clinics and given the number of protestors who use these images the chances of any child seeing one of these pictures is almost non-existent.
I seem to have a pretty clear memory of stating explicitly and on multiple occasions within this and all other threads on this topic that I am not talking about the protester standing outside the abortion clinic. If the use of these signs were limited to protesters standing outside abortion clinics, then I would be much more inclined to agree with you that there was a reasonable expectation that young children would not see them. In fact, that reasonable expectation is all that I have ever asked.

Instead, let’s take a look at where these photos are shown and in what manner: (the links are graphic)

abortionno.org/RCC/trucks_highway.html
truthtruck.com/where_we_go.php
*We’ve been everywhere and done everything (Well, almost!). We’ve been to hundreds of cities, large and small, all across America

We go to the busy downtown areas … to the big shopping malls … to the crowded beaches … to sporting events … we get in city parades - wherever there are lots of people - we’re there!

We’ve been to the Super Bowl … the Olympics in Salt Lake City … the Democratic Convention … the St. Patrick’s Day Parade … Mardi Gras in New Orleans … the Daytona 500 in Florida … to the biggest abortion clinics in the country … even to the big Planned Parenthood fundraisers!

You name it, we’ve done it, or will do it.*

operationrescue.org/photos/main.php?g2_view=core.ShowItem&g2_itemId=2845

operationrescue.org/photos/main.php?g2_view=core.ShowItem&g2_itemId=2408

operationrescue.org/photos/main.php?g2_view=core.ShowItem&g2_itemId=2211

operationrescue.org/photos/main.php?g2_view=core.ShowItem&g2_itemId=178

etc
 
My experience is anecdotal? Fine. What are the statistics you use to support the claim that chances of a child seeing one of those pics is “almost non-existent”?
Well of course your experience is ancedotal! As is mine.
If you’re going to make statistical proof the standard, then start by providing the numbers and studies that support your various proclamations.
If you are going to ask people to stop showing the pictures you need to povide statisitcs showing that many children are seeing them in the first place. As I said before we need to first determine if there is a problem before we go out and try to solve it.

Let me give you some more ancedotal evidence-there are less than a dozen abortion clinics in Houston-all near downtown. none in resdiential areas. Only a couple have pickets. Now tell me how are many of the aprox million kids who live in the metropolitan area ever going to be exposed to the pictures?
 
Well of course your experience is ancedotal! As is mine.
Then what’s the problem in my using it? You seemed to dismiss my child’s experience as anecdotal yet offer me more anecdotal evidence to bolster your position.

Are we having a serious discussion, or are you pulling my leg? I would suggest a different topic, if you desire levity.
If you are going to ask people to stop showing the pictures you need to povide statisitcs showing that many children are seeing them in the first place. As I said before we need to first determine if there is a problem before we go out and try to solve it.
This thread isn’t about asking anyone to stop doing anything. The suggestion is to take a deep long look at what is being done.
Let me give you some more ancedotal evidence-there are less than a dozen abortion clinics in Houston-all near downtown. none in resdiential areas. Only a couple have pickets. Now tell me how are many of the aprox million kids who live in the metropolitan area ever going to be exposed to the pictures?
Again you are being evasive because multiple posters have repeatedly mentioned the very public places where these graphics are indiscriminately displayed.

I think any further discussion with you will achieve very little so I’m going to attempt to refrain from responding any further to your posts on this thread.

If there are members who would like to apply the questions of my OP to this tactic, I’d be very much interested to hear what they have to say.
 
I did:eek: That most ceratinly was not my intention.

My contention remains the same-the chance of a child seeing these pictures is infintesimal and the chance it will cause any long term distress is even less.
You were just involved in a thread a couple of days ago about a truck that was impounded for having graphic images postered on it that also detailed places the truck went.

How you can make such a statement after being involved in that thread is simply astonishing.

Either you are in a seriuos state of denial (which is quite probable) and need help, or you are a liar.
 
There is not an abortion clinic anywhere near where the protesters were set up.
The majority of people who support abortion at any one time are not likely to mulling about the grounds of an abortion clinic. These are the people who vote and who need to be informed about what abortion really is.
So far through some fairly complex levels of vigilance, I have been able to keep these images from my daughter. We don’t go near the mall on the weekends. I make sure to place myself between her and the car when we come out of any store (I have found these images plastered to my windshield in the grocery store lot, even though the booster seat is clearly visible and the store is nowhere near an abortion clinic). I make sure that I enter any public restroom (including those in grocery stores, McDonalds, etc–places that families frequent for purposes other than having abortions) first in order to do a visual sweep of the area to be sure no “surprises” have been left. Etc.
If you are able to be such a good parent and are able to diligently ‘protect’ your child in this manner, why do you give other parents less credit for being able to do likewise. Is everyone else just haplings who absorb their surroundings. It is as I said before, if you as a parent feel the need to shield your daughter from these things, that is entirely up to you how much trouble you are willing to go through in that regard. Personally, I think it so much easier to just explain such things to them than doing a preliminary run through of every MacDonald’s restroom, etc., but that is a parental choice. Explaining to them in such a way as to not ‘traumatize’ them is within your control as a parent. This trauma does is not a direct result of a graphic abortion photo, but a reflection of your parenting skills.
 
This isnt about fighting abortion, its not about who fights abortion, its not about being pro-choice or pro-life and its not even about what is effective in fighting abortion.
I agree.
They are seperate issues to this thread. If you want to make judgmental comments about fighting abortion or what is effective, its probably best to start up another thread.
Haven’t said one way or the other about whether one should fight abortion or not (one should btw), but that is beside the point.
This thread is about if these graphic images are moral or not, not anything else regarding abortion or anything else.
And it has been plainly demonstrated that their use is moral as there is not anything about the action itself that is intrisically evil. There is no intention of causing so called distress. The end sought after is good in and of itself. Therefore, non-evil means are being used to seek a good end. The good that results more than outweighs any harmful side effects such as hurt feelings. One life saved is of much greater consequence than ones hurt feelings.
Do you believe that it is morally right to use these images?
Yes
 
The majority of people who support abortion at any one time are not likely to mulling about the grounds of an abortion clinic. These are the people who vote and who need to be informed about what abortion really is.
Then perhaps you can inform estesbob that these huge photos of dismembered and mutilated blood covered corpses of babies are not only being shown in places where it is “extremely unlikely a child will ever see them”.
If you are able to be such a good parent and are able to diligently ‘protect’ your child in this manner, why do you give other parents less credit for being able to do likewise. Is everyone else just haplings who absorb their surroundings. It is as I said before, if you as a parent feel the need to shield your daughter from these things, that is entirely up to you how much trouble you are willing to go through in that regard. Personally, I think it so much easier to just explain such things to them than doing a preliminary run through of every MacDonald’s restroom, etc., but that is a parental choice. Explaining to them in such a way as to not ‘traumatize’ them is within your control as a parent. This trauma does is not a direct result of a graphic abortion photo, but a reflection of your parenting skills.
I don’t give them less credit. I give no credit at all to the “good Christians” who choose to make my community a minefield by strewing these images randomly around with no regard for who will encounter them, for blowing them up to the size of tractor trailer trucks and parading them around town and flying them over cities and beaches or into huge posters placed where they fully intend that families who are accompanied by their young children will encounter them.

Again, this is not what I believe Jesus intended when He said, “Suffer the little children…” nor “love your neighbor as yourself”. I do not see any possible way in which this is acting with love and compassion and concern for all one’s fellow beings rather than just willful and deliberate self-induced tunnel vision about one’s chosen cause.
 
You were just involved in a thread a couple of days ago about a truck that was impounded for having graphic images postered on it that also detailed places the truck went.

How you can make such a statement after being involved in that thread is simply astonishing.

Either you are in a seriuos state of denial (which is quite probable) and need help, or you are a liar.
Exaclty one truck in a country that has over close to 100 million children. What are the odds of any kid seeing that truck??? Infintesimal. Like I said before much whining and hand wringing over a problem that doesnt exist.

Given the miniscuale chance that a child will ever see a Graphic picture one must ask what is the real reason people oppose these pictures? Perhaps its becuase they dont want to be confronted with the evil they support.??? Is that you reason?
 
Exaclty one truck in a country that has over close to 100 million children. What are the odds of any kid seeing that truck??? Infintesimal. Like I said before much whining and hand wringing over a problem that doesnt exist.
You are well aware that there is more than one truck.
Given the miniscuale chance that a child will ever see a Graphic picture one must ask what is the real reason people oppose these pictures?
Perhaps the real reasons are the ones that have been stated. The miniscule chances only seem to be in your mind.
Perhaps its becuase they dont want to be confronted with the evil they support.???
There probably are people like that, I stated that before, but that doesnt cover everyone who objects to the indiscriminate use of the graphic pictures. But this has been mentioned before.
Is that you reason?
LOL, you cant even keep track of your own accusations.

You already (falsely) accused me of supporting abortion, remember?

Other than that, the images dont actually bother me personally. They dont cause any sort of reaction for me.

So no that wouldnt be my reason. In fact I have already stated my reason to why I dont agree with their indiscriminate use.
 
Exaclty one truck in a country that has over close to 100 million children. What are the odds of any kid seeing that truck??? Infintesimal. Like I said before much whining and hand wringing over a problem that doesnt exist.
Bob, I have to say that I am astonished at the turn you have taken in this conversation. You and I have been discussing this on this board for many months, yet this is the first time I have seen you attempt to justify the use of these images in an indiscriminate manner by saying that there is “only one truck” and that that truck is stationary, so all the kids would have to be paraded by that particular known spot in order to see it. Do you truly believe that the protestors using these images are taking them nowhere but beside abortion clinics? Despite the press and photos I have shown you * from those very organizations* not only clearly showing that they are all over the place, but reveling in the fact that they are doing so?

I do find it interesting that the Center for Bioethical Reform has removed all the files showing pictures from their planes, the banners being towed, etc. The navigation links are still on the site, but when you click them you get “missing file”. This is new in the last month or so, as I have linked to those files multiple times. Instead, here are news stories about them:
wate.com/Global/story.asp?S=5536185

the.honoluluadvertiser.com/article/2003/Jul/22/ln/ln06a.html
(I find it interesting that the group wants to target the “wealthy and culturally elite” even though the information available shows that women living under the federal poverty level are more than four times as likely to choose an abortion as those at 300% above it. guttmacher.org/pubs/fb_induced_abortion.html)
Perhaps its becuase they dont want to be confronted with the evil they support.??? Is that you reason?
I certainly find it very hard to believe that after all our discussions you could actually type that with a straight face about the people with whom you are currently discussing this topic.

Not one single person that I can recall has said in any of these threads that you should not show these pictures to young children because abortion is a good fun desirable thing and everyone ought to have at least one. Not one single person has denied that abortion ends a human life and is without exception a tragic situation that has lifelong consequences for everyone involved. I have not seen anyone say that they are supporters of abortion on demand or as a means of birth control.
 
I have followed this thread with interest. My husband and two older children went to the March for Life in DC two years ago. My son came home shocked and clearly traumatized by what he had seen. This boy cried all night after he finished reading Where the Red Fern Grows. He is very tenderhearted. I was naive in that I had no idea that graphic images of dead babies would bombard his sensitive soul at his event. Our family will not participate again. There are other, better ways for us to combat abortion like teaching my kids the value of all human life, the joy and sanctity of family, and discussing issue openly in the home. I mourned his loss of innocence deeply.

I have encountered attitudes in the Church that make me wonder about the sincerity of many who claim to be pro-life. One priest sends ushers and altar boys to ask mothers with fussy babies to leave the mass. There is no place for them to go as the church has no cry room or nursery so the mother has to stand in the entryway or just leave. I am not talking about babies who are screaming, I mean just fussy. I was asked to leave when my 3rd child was 2 and I was 6 mo. pregnant with our 4th. I took her outside and cried while she played. We never went back to the parish. We have to love children after they are born as well to be truly pro-life. One of my dear friends was asked by a deacon what she was trying to prove by having her fourth child. Having children and loving them is the best pro-life example we laymen can give.

While protest against abortion obviously has its place I would beg those who participate to remember the innocence of the children whose parents chose life and refrain from the use of horrifying images.

+JMJ+
 
While protest against abortion obviously has its place I would beg those who participate to remember the innocence of the children whose parents chose life and refrain from the use of horrifying images.

+JMJ+
Protesting abortion has it’s place? It’s something we are all called to do. It’s not an option or something that is good to do. Standing up for the most innocent is something we are required to do.

42 For I was an ahungred, and ye gave me no meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me no drink:
43 I was a stranger, and ye took me not in: naked, and ye clothed me not: sick, and in prison, and ye visited me not.
44 Then shall they also answer him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee an hungred, or athirst, or a stranger, or naked, or sick, or in prison, and did not minister unto thee?
45 Then shall he answer them, saying, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye did it not to one of the aleast of these, ye did it not to me.

I was aborted and you didn’t try to stop it!
 
This isnt about fighting abortion, its not about who fights abortion, its not about being pro-choice or pro-life and its not even about what is effective in fighting abortion.

They are seperate issues to this thread. If you want to make judgmental comments about fighting abortion or what is effective, its probably best to start up another thread.

This thread is about if these graphic images are moral or not, not anything else regarding abortion or anything else.

There has been no criticism of people for standing outside clinics, protesting and being active, those things are not relevent. There has been criticism for indiscriminatly displaying the graphic images in question because some believe that sort of behaviour is wrong/immoral, but certainly none for protesting against abortion and I dont think that anyone here actually objects to protesting against abortion.

Do you believe that it is morally right to use these images?

Why/Why not?
  1. Yes I do
  2. Because they work
My point was that, I want to know what all of the people who are complaining about these images are doing to combat abortion. People leading the charge and fight against abortion use and promote the use of these images. If you are against these images, what is your exp. fighting abortion? What do you do? Most people who are against these images are usually very inexperienced and do very little.

If I am wrong let me know. Tell me what you do.
 
I beg to differ as to whether we are required to march in the streets to protest anything. We ARE required to pray for an end to abortion, testify to the sanctity of life through our own lives, and speak the truth at all times. I have encouraged young women to give birth to their babies on a one to one basis. I have spoken against abortifacient contraceptives and contraceptives of any kind. Many of the greatest saints made an impact quietly by living what they believed. As a mother my first obligation is to my own children so I love them, nurture them, homeschool them, and pray for them. If your own life does not reflect your values through a love of children and you march but do not help and encourage mothers who have chosen life or encourage individuals to choose life over abortion then your words and your marches are worthless. Jesus didn’t just preach, he cared for those he preached to. He worked quietly, letting the people come to him, not shouting in the streets.

As I stated, in our politicized society protest has its place, but not all are called to do it. Some are called to prayer and small acts of charity in support of life.
 
I beg to differ as to whether we are required to march in the streets to protest anything. We ARE required to pray for an end to abortion, testify to the sanctity of life through our own lives, and speak the truth at all times.
We are required to do both spiritual and corporal works of mercy.
 
I beg to differ as to whether we are required to march in the streets to protest anything. We ARE required to pray for an end to abortion, testify to the sanctity of life through our own lives, and speak the truth at all times. I have encouraged young women to give birth to their babies on a one to one basis. I have spoken against abortifacient contraceptives and contraceptives of any kind. Many of the greatest saints made an impact quietly by living what they believed. As a mother my first obligation is to my own children so I love them, nurture them, homeschool them, and pray for them. If your own life does not reflect your values through a love of children and you march but do not help and encourage mothers who have chosen life or encourage individuals to choose life over abortion then your words and your marches are worthless. Jesus didn’t just preach, he cared for those he preached to. He worked quietly, letting the people come to him, not shouting in the streets.

As I stated, in our politicized society protest has its place, but not all are called to do it. Some are called to prayer and small acts of charity in support of life.
You are right he didn’t just preach, He didn’t just pray either. He did both, just as wwe are required to do. He didn’t say I was hungry and you didn’t pray, I was thirsty and you didn’t pray, I was in prison and you didn’t pray. No He spoke about us taking action. We need to live what we profess, but we are called to act also!
 
My point was that, I want to know what all of the people who are complaining about these images are doing to combat abortion. People leading the charge and fight against abortion use and promote the use of these images. If you are against these images, what is your exp. fighting abortion? What do you do? Most people who are against these images are usually very inexperienced and do very little.

If I am wrong let me know. Tell me what you do.
Either the action of showing huge photographs of mutilated blood covered corpses where young children can be reasonably assumed to encounter them without their parent’s prior and express consent is morally appropriate on its own merits or it is not.

You are arguing two positions. One, that the end justifies the means. I believe that has been adequately addressed. In this situation, it does not, as there are plenty of alternate means available to achieve the end of informing adults that abortion is wrong that do not involve showing huge pictures of blood covered mutilated corpses to 4 and 5 year olds on the way to the toy store or birthday party.

Second, that the moral appropriateness of an action is based on whether one person does more “things” to protest abortion. This is a false argument that simply seeks to divert the discussion from the action in question.

First, one has to define the criteria. How do you measure the “experience” and which “experiences” count? Do you have to be involved in all activities concurrently and at the present time or is it cumulative? Does prayer, letter writing, donating to organizations, teaching your child about the sacredness of all life count or just standing on a street corner where others can see you? Ie, does the action have to be publicly visible in order to be “legitimate” enough?

Then we have to look at whether sheer experience is an adequate determiner of moral appropriateness.

Tina does 5 activities to protest abortion. Tina believes that it is morally inappropriate to show huge photos of mutilated blood covered dead babies in front of young children.

Andrea does 6 things to protest abortion. Andrea believes that it is morally okay to show huge photos of mutilated blood covered dead babies in front of young children.

Why should Andrea’s belief on the moral appropriateness of an action hold more weight than Tina’s solely because she does more things? If Tina adds two more activities, does it then make it morally inappropriate? And if Andrea then adds two, it flip flops again?

It would seem that that way lies moral relativism, which is not, as I understand it, popular with the Catholic Church.
 
Either the action of showing huge photographs of mutilated blood covered corpses where young children can be reasonably assumed to encounter them without their parent’s prior and express consent is morally appropriate on its own merits or it is not.

You are arguing two positions. One, that the end justifies the means. I believe that has been adequately addressed. In this situation, it does not, as there are plenty of alternate means available to achieve the end of informing adults that abortion is wrong that do not involve showing huge pictures of blood covered mutilated corpses to 4 and 5 year olds on the way to the toy store or birthday party.

Second, that the moral appropriateness of an action is based on whether one person does more “things” to protest abortion. This is a false argument that simply seeks to divert the discussion from the action in question.

First, one has to define the criteria. How do you measure the “experience” and which “experiences” count? Do you have to be involved in all activities concurrently and at the present time or is it cumulative? Does prayer, letter writing, donating to organizations, teaching your child about the sacredness of all life count or just standing on a street corner where others can see you? Ie, does the action have to be publicly visible in order to be “legitimate” enough?

Then we have to look at whether sheer experience is an adequate determiner of moral appropriateness.

Tina does 5 activities to protest abortion. Tina believes that it is morally inappropriate to show huge photos of mutilated blood covered dead babies in front of young children.

Andrea does 6 things to protest abortion. Andrea believes that it is morally okay to show huge photos of mutilated blood covered dead babies in front of young children.

Why should Andrea’s belief on the moral appropriateness of an action hold more weight than Tina’s solely because she does more things? If Tina adds two more activities, does it then make it morally inappropriate? And if Andrea then adds two, it flip flops again?

It would seem that that way lies moral relativism, which is not, as I understand it, popular with the Catholic Church.
What do you do? My guess is very little. Most people who don’t approve of therse images don’t do much. If I am wrong, prove me wrong. Tell me about the sidewalk counseling you do, the crisis pregnancy centers you work at, the praying you do at the abortion mills regularly. Tell me how you who don’t approve of the images personally fight abortion. Most people who complain about graphic images spend more time doing that than fighting abortion.
 
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