I would like to add my thoughts in here if I may.
I consider abortion no different from murder. It makes me feel physically sick at the realisation that there are centres all over the world (and one no more than 200 meters from my home!) where you can pay to have your baby killed.
I believe that if you think you are old and responsible enough to have sex then you should also be old and responsible enough to deal with the consequences of your actions should you (or your partner) become pregnant.
Pregnancy and childbirth are two of the most beautiful and miraculous parts of human nature and indeed human life, yet it is sidelined to allow convenience to the parent(s) on a regular basis.
I know a person who is an 18 year old male, I work with him. He is often off “sick” and then posting on his facebook status about how much fun he had getting drunk and how many times he had sex with however many people over the weekends and all sorts of things like this. Because he was using so many empty excuses for being off like he had a headache etc he had to make up a decent excuse so they could not ask questions so he told the managers he had depression. He had 2 months paid leave then came back happy as ever and having spent 2 months posting on his facebook photos of nights out and bbq’s and trips to the beach etc with no sign of depression.
Recently his girlfriend became pregnant with twins and said she was keeping them. He quickly developed “depression” again while continuing to openly post evidence online to the contrary because she refused to get an abortion despite his constant begging of her.
Sadly, she gave in. She aborted her twins at 2 months pregnant last week and…you guessed it, he is happy as ever and going out, getting drunk, getting laid. As far as I am conserned, he is a murderer and unfortunately so is his girlfriend for giving in to his wishes. Could you be nagged in to murdering a person? (teen/adult or any age) No matter how much someone said pleaseeee kill them they’re just here at the wrong time for me, they’ll mess up my plans etc would you do it? Of course not!
I have two other friends from college who have been going out for about a year and the girl got pregnant. Admittedly bad timing and it was out of wedlock but they have accpeted responisbility, got engaged to be married and are looking forward to their child’s birth and spending their lives together. That is what the guy from work should have done!
How is abortion any different? It is hard for me to think of anything more vile than slowly twisting off the limbs and head of an unborn child in order to abort it. It makes me feel sick and makes me boil with anger.
I do accept that there can be difficult circumstances. I have heard arguments that if a baby will be born disabled it should be aborted to save it suffering, I think this depends alot on the disbility for example if it’s something like downs syndrome then no there is no argument for abortion in my opinion. If a baby would be born, suffer extreme pain, and die shortly after birth then possibly but then if this is legal then why isn’t euthanasia? Isn’t it the same thing?
Another argument I have heard is that rape victims should be allowed to abort babies conceived in the act of rape. To my annoyance I have never decided on an answer to this in my head. Any thoughts on this?
Apologies for the long post, it is an issue that bothers me greatly.
May the peace of the Lord be with you.