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My 12 year old cousin likely doesn’t know. Her parents only take her to mass twice a year.
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That’s her parents’ fault, not the priest and not the bishop. If she isn’t there to hear his homilies, if she isn’t in religious education to receive instruction, that’s on her parents. Parents are the primary educators of their children in the faith.My 12 year old cousin likely doesn’t know. Her parents only take her to mass twice a year.
No I didn’t miss anything. Your statement was outrageous and misplaced. People seem to think they know better than their bishops, and also seem ready to cast nefarious motives onto them.I did say “almost.” Maybe you missed that.
Not all. I know a cradle Catholic who went to Catholic schools through high school. She didn’t know what holy days of obligation are. She did hear a homily last year, I believe, on them. After that she started meeting her obligation. It was a homily that finally taught her, but she was somehow a Catholic going to Catholic schools and didn’t learn this.Catholics know what a holy day of obligation is. They know they are supposed to attend mass. But many do not. Some cannot, legitimately. I don’t know why other do not.
I can see your point about Holy Days, but isn’t the obligation to attend Mass on Sundays directly coming from the 3rd Commandment?Ryan1:![]()
You have the wrong idea bout holy days of obligation if you think the bishops sin if they abrogate them. It is the authority of the bishops that created them in the first place. They are not mandated by any Church doctrine or by God. The requirement to attend Mass on Sundays and Holy Days of Obligation are a discipline of the Church. And, that discipline has changed over the centuries to meet cultural requirements.Almost seems like a sin on the part of the bishops, to do so.
Of course, the early Church had NO holy days of obligation, those developed over many centuries. Holy Days used to be many more numerous beginning around the middle ages and when countries were Catholic and workers did not have to work on those days-- they were truly holidays in all sense of the word.
In the current times, holy days are much fewer, and many have been moved to Sunday. The bishops have the authority to do it, and to imply they are SINNING by doing so is outrageous.
This is not an either/or proposition.What choices did the bishops face? Instruction or abrogation.
You are assuming things that simply aren’t true. As if no one in the Catholic Church instructs the faithful. Instruction happens. No one said “don’t instruct the faithful”. We have religious education, we have homilies, we have bulletins, we have blogs, we have You Tube. If people remain ignorant, it’s certainly not because of a lack of instruction opportunities.Why choose abrogation over instruction?
Abrogating a holy day likely has many considerations. They are different all throughout the world. I encourage you to re-read @edward_george1 's post.Was abrogation simply the easier path?
She went to Catholic schools her whole life. Sure, her parents may bear some responsibility. But maybe they likewise went to Catholic schools and were never instructed. If the Church, including her schools, don’t teach then how is anyone supposed to know the Faith? Also, in her case her parents are divorced. This is not uncommon. We have so many fractured families not following the Faith that it would not be wise to rely on parents.And yes, some don’t know for whatever reason-- and ultimately that is on their parents who are the primary educators of the faith and should be taking them to mass. If she never heard about a holy day of obligation her entire life, then her parents never took her to a holy day of obligation-- and that is her parents fault.
No, actually. The commandment only says to keep holy the sabbath, and in our case the Lord’s Day. It doesn’t command that we must attend Mass.I can see your point about Holy Days, but isn’t the obligation to attend Mass on Sundays directly coming from the 3rd Commandment?
I was replying to Ryan.She went to Catholic schools her whole life. Sure, her parents may bear some responsibility. But maybe they likewise went to Catholic schools and were never instructed. If the Church, including her schools, don’t teach then how is anyone supposed to know the Faith? Also, in her case her parents are divorced. This is not uncommon. We have so many fractured families not following the Faith that it would not be wise to rely on parents.
Her parents bear most responsibility. All too frequently parents and others abrogate the parents’ responsibilities as the primary educators of their children. I know this from first-hand experience. I am a teacher and we are often blamed for things pupils do not know when what they do not know is the responsibility of their parents. Very often as another member has said (1ke) pupils claim not to have been taught XYZ when, indeed, the teacher has taught XYZ.Sure, her parents may bear some responsibility.
Covering it doesn’t mean they learned it. It could be taught and not learned. The responsibility for that may not lay entirely with the educator.And, frankly, in many cases where cradle Catholics supposedly never learned anything in Catholic school or religious education, I can tell you for a fact it was covered because I’ve been teaching for over 25 years and I’ve had kids tell their next teacher that they never learned XYZ, when I taught XYZ extensively.
We don’t know that. As I said they may themselves not have known. You can’t teach something you don’t know. The parents certainly do have an obligation to learn the Faith themselves so they can teach it.Her parents bear most responsibility.