Absolution, Concealed Sin, and possibly scrupulosity ;)

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Okay, I am looking for authoritative text on this if possible.

Here’s the situation: I gave a confession, and concealed absolutely nothing (consciously) by the time absolution was given. Upon leaving I prayed for about 3 minutes and realized that either the priest forgot to give me a penance or I forgot what it was. So someone let me jump ahead of them to ask the priest that question. While I was asking him (either right before or right after) I recalled something that came up in my examination (it was feeling like perhaps I once lacked diligence with one of my penances, or didn’t do enough to remember my penance). I did not mention that there, I think primarily out of the fact that I was basically cutting in line. I don’t recall thinking it was mortal, but I still consciously did not mention it. Of course I am dealing with scrupulosity (trying to find the right mean between the two evils of laxity and obsessive legalism), so my mind worries that perhaps I concealed a mortal sin without now knowing that it was mortal and perhaps I thought it was mortal then when I concealed it and just don’t remember it because I so quickly dismissed it. In honesty I think it is a venial sin and perhaps not even a sin, for I think with that old penance in question, the priest had told me not to worry if I should forget, but if I had not chosen to be less diligent than I could have perhaps that would not have happened.

Here’s the question: It seems to me that absolution only deals with sins of the past and not the future. Forgotten sins thus seem indirectly washed away by the absolution as well since they were not brought into the light, but not withheld from it either. Thus, after the point of absolution it seems logical that a new absolution would be needed to directly deal with forgotten sin, and thus it would be a new confession, indicating that the old one was over as the absolution is dealing with a different one, for if it were not, then one could consciously conceal mortal sin in one confession and then bring it at a much later time after absolution was given since, by bringing it later, they never concealed it from this same confession. But this is absurd, unless it be suggested that one can never invalidate a confession this way so long as they suggest it at some later time (as it would be the same confession). Therefore, a sin recalled after absolution could be confessed at some later date even if penance has not yet been given (so it seems). That is, one who recalled a mortal sin after, but not before, absolution was not consciously concealing anything IN confession, and thus their confession would not be invalid, and need repetition, even if what was concealed was mortal. So I am wondering, does anybody have any links to authority to suggest this is correct (that confessing, and the obligation to reveal everything known, ends at absolution), or must we state it even if it comes after that point and before the giving of the penance? It would bring me great peace as I am tired of re-confessing things over and over, but shall if need be.
Also, I suppose the sacrament of penance is still valid even if the penance is given after the absolution, right?
 
You’re overthinking this. You don’t need an authoritative text. You need to trust Jesus in the sacrament.

Absolution is not contingent upon completion of the penance, whether you forgot it, ignored it, or accomplished it well or badly.
 
I also agree that you are way over thinking this. Be at peace as you went to confession and did your best. Next time you go, if you remember something and want to confess by all means do so. All of your sins were forgiven by the priest. Take care and relax.
 
Whoa Dranu, my friend, slow down a little bit. You are fine. Your absolution was complete. If you forget or do not make a complete confession during the sacrament of reconciliation, then simply mention the forgotten sin or make a complete confession next time you are with your priest for reconciliation. That is all there is to it.

You do not need to mention the same sins over and over. Once it has been stated, forget it, you are absolved. If you feel the need, sit at home with notes adn make a thorough examination of conscious. Write everything out (I once took 4 typed pages single spaced) and make an appointment with your parish priest - especially if you end up wit pages and pages.

Be sure to shred or burn your E of C when you are absolved.
 
Whoa Dranu, my friend, slow down a little bit. You are fine. Your absolution was complete. If you forget or do not make a complete confession during the sacrament of reconciliation, then simply mention the forgotten sin or make a complete confession next time you are with your priest for reconciliation. That is all there is to it.

You do not need to mention the same sins over and over. Once it has been stated, forget it, you are absolved. If you feel the need, sit at home with notes adn make a thorough examination of conscious. Write everything out (I once took 4 typed pages single spaced) and make an appointment with your parish priest - especially if you end up wit pages and pages.

Be sure to shred or burn your E of C when you are absolved.
While I cannot judge anyone else’s penitential practices, I’m almost sorry you mentioned the four pages! Even the most hardened and persistent of sinners could list by name and number their mortal sins on a single page! But maybe I’m just better at summarizing!
 
Priests are just the middle man between you and God.
Jesus sees into your heart and knows all. if you are repentant in your heart, Jesus will see it. and you are forgiven. you cannot hide something from God.
 
While I cannot judge anyone else’s penitential practices, I’m almost sorry you mentioned the four pages! Even the most hardened and persistent of sinners could list by name and number their mortal sins on a single page! But maybe I’m just better at summarizing!
But that was everything for about 20 years. 😃

Like the OP I was not giving a good confession. This went on for about 2 year after I came back to the faith. The whole “you are forgiven all sins, but if you remember one that you forgot you need to bring it up next confession” Oy! I’d remember two or three, purposely forget that I remembered one or two.

So I sat down and really did a thorough E of C. Came up with the pages, confessed it all and now I’m pretty free and clear when I go. I’m in and out within 5 minutes 👍 because I go at a minimum once a month.
 
But that was everything for about 20 years. 😃

Like the OP I was not giving a good confession. This went on for about 2 year after I came back to the faith. The whole “you are forgiven all sins, but if you remember one that you forgot you need to bring it up next confession” Oy! I’d remember two or three, purposely forget that I remembered one or two.

So I sat down and really did a thorough E of C. Came up with the pages, confessed it all and now I’m pretty free and clear when I go. I’m in and out within 5 minutes 👍 because I go at a minimum once a month.
Yes, I understand. A priest once told me that often a confession covering 25 years could be covered in a few minutes, mainly because our sins tend to be so repetitive. His example was something like, “I was drunk about twice a month, committed fornication about twice a week, blasphemy daily, and missed Mass weekly except for Christmas and sometimes Easter, over the past 20 years.”
 
If you forget or do not make a complete confession during the sacrament of reconciliation
My question is more if the sacrament, or confessing part ends at absolution or if it continues. It would seem most logical that it ends at absolution, and that if you recall anything after that point you may withold it (even if mortal) until the next convenient time to confess, so long as you did not consciously withold it before the absolution (in which case it would be invalid).

I just want to be at an end with this repeated confession of the past (perhaps do it as a penance but not as an obligation), and it was near perfect, until the circumstance I mentioned (some minutes after the absolution was given) threw a wrench of doubt into the mix.

I think perhaps I might force my self to live with this uncertainty since I do not see a clear and obvious violation of Church Law. Then again it is stated that if one intentionally conceals a mortal sin their confession is invalid.
 
On a side note I just found this in the Baltimore Catechism:

“420. Why does the priest give us a penance after confession?”
This suggests confession is over by this time and thus any concealing at this point is not concealing in confession, and can be brought at a later time without invalidating the said confession. Furthermore, the CCC seems to suggest that it is “in confession” where the sins need to be listed, and seems to distinguish confession as “an essential part of the sacrament of Penance.”

It would seem absolution is a good candidate for the end of confession.
 
My question is more if the sacrament, or confessing part ends at absolution or if it continues. It would seem most logical that it ends at absolution, and that if you recall anything after that point you may withold it (even if mortal) until the next convenient time to confess, so long as you did not consciously withold it before the absolution (in which case it would be invalid).

I just want to be at an end with this repeated confession of the past (perhaps do it as a penance but not as an obligation), and it was near perfect, until the circumstance I mentioned (some minutes after the absolution was given) threw a wrench of doubt into the mix.

I think perhaps I might force my self to live with this uncertainty since I do not see a clear and obvious violation of Church Law. Then again it is stated that if one intentionally conceals a mortal sin their confession is invalid.
I have to go to bed…so I will only respond to this shorter summary question…not the time to read all the above…

yes your confessing part ended at the absolution…for then the absolving part is taking place…then the dismissal after that…

If you remembered a mortal in after absolution it was absolved …and it seems one can wait until the next confession to confess it…

Scruples are to be dismissed and passed by like a barking dog…one does not argue with a barking dog…

Live in Easter! 🙂

also even if you remember it while the priest is speaking it may not be possible to mention it… read this:

jimmyakin.typepad.com/defensor_fidei/2005/04/confession_vali.html
 
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