Accept Christ then be Baptized

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My husband feels that the Catholic Church is backwards in it’s teaching on Baptism. It all stems from the practice of infant baptism and that the baby is not ‘accepting’ Christ before he/she is baptised. How do I defend the Catholic position of infant baptism from Scripture to my husband?
 
My husband feels that the Catholic Church is backwards in it’s teaching on Baptism. It all stems from the practice of infant baptism and that the baby is not ‘accepting’ Christ before he/she is baptised. How do I defend the Catholic position of infant baptism from Scripture to my husband?
Your husband is right. The Bible aways say repent and be baptized not be baptized and then repent, Repent in the Bible means “turn to God” Phillip tells the eunuch that if he believes he may be baptized.
 
The bible also mentions entire households being baptised, not entire households minus the children. Did not Christ command that we in no way bar the children from coming to him?

Do you allow your children to choose what they eat? Do you allow them to choose whether or not to go to school, or where to go to school? Children need the guidence of their parents, spiritually moreso than others! Baptism is the first step in the walk with God, and parents should not inhibit that in any way.
Refusing to baptize a child because he might decide not to accept Christ in the future is like getting a pre-nuptual agreement because a marriage might fail. You’re already setting yourself up for failure and rejection, and it is very likely this will become a self-fullfilling prophecy.
 
Your husband is right. The Bible aways say repent and be baptized not be baptized and then repent, Repent in the Bible means “turn to God” Phillip tells the eunuch that if he believes he may be baptized.
WRONG.
Baptism replaces circumcision, which was decided by the PARENTS of the child, based on THEIR covenant with God.
 
The bible also mentions entire households being baptised, not entire households minus the children. Did not Christ command that we in no way bar the children from coming to him?
Actually, I believe it was only one household, and that’s a pretty big assumption that you’re making there that there were infants. It’s just as valid to assume all the kids were teens, and so could make the decision on their own.
Do you allow your children to choose what they eat? Do you allow them to choose whether or not to go to school, or where to go to school? Children need the guidence of their parents, spiritually moreso than others! Baptism is the first step in the walk with God, and parents should not inhibit that in any way.
Refusing to baptize a child because he might decide not to accept Christ in the future is like getting a pre-nuptual agreement because a marriage might fail. You’re already setting yourself up for failure and rejection, and it is very likely this will become a self-fullfilling prophecy.
 
Actually, I believe it was only one household, and that’s a pretty big assumption that you’re making there that there were infants. It’s just as valid to assume all the kids were teens, and so could make the decision on their own.
I’m not assuming their were infants, however their would likely have been children. Interestingly you didn’t address the second part of the post.
 
WRONG.
Baptism replaces circumcision, which was decided by the PARENTS of the child, based on THEIR covenant with God.
Of course, the inconvenient truth for your position is that the covenenant with God to circumcize (males only) was explicitly taught, whereas the same cannot be said for infant baptism. If baptism replaces something, then what does it replace for females?
 
I’m not assuming their were infants, however their would likely have been children. Interestingly you didn’t address the second part of the post.
Why is that interesting? You think you’re clever or something? Without a single example of infant baptism in the New Testament, your entire argument falls apart. The second part of your post is just one big assertion, with no scriptural basis, which follows from the poor reasoning in the first part of your post.
 
The parents have a responsibility to baptize their (gift from God ) child and allow the Holy Spirit into this child’s life. This also removes original sin and when the child is of age and after ( of course) a solid foundation in the faith the child can make a reasonably educated choice. As noted in previous messages many families were baptized together. Some that follow Solo Scriptora and do not believe in Tradition are missing a lot. Remember that tradition and oral transmission came before the New Testament was written down. Many things that were accepted by the followers of THE WAY were then put into writing and accepted as the written word of God. Although God can work through anyone, baptized or not, I believe that it is everyone’s best interest to be baptized and allow the Holy Spirit to work in that person.
 
Of course, the inconvenient truth for your position is that the covenenant with God to circumcize (males only) was explicitly taught, whereas the same cannot be said for infant baptism. If baptism replaces something, then what does it replace for females?
If I have to explain Jewish customs to you - you came to this fight with no ammunition.
 
Why is that interesting? You think you’re clever or something? Without a single example of infant baptism in the New Testament, your entire argument falls apart. The second part of your post is just one big assertion, with no scriptural basis, which follows from the poor reasoning in the first part of your post.
Why does it fall apart without an explicit, rather than implicit, example? The bible itself says that not everything that was done is in the bible. Seems to me that the bible destroys any argument basing itself entirely on it, on its own.

Do I think I was being cleaver? No, because I’m not the originator of that argument, however I have not ever heard a reasonable answer to it, and no it isn’t just an assertion, it is a sylogism. If you are going to force kids to do certain important things, why would you not make them do the most important thing?

I am rather shocked that after three posts your argument has turned to namecalling, especially since your original argument was simply “It doesn’t say it.” It doesn’t say only Adults can be baptised either. In fact the only reason it says “repent and be baptised” is because it is aimed at adults who have much to repent for, Infants have nothing to repent for, why should they be denied the Holy Mystery?

As a final thought, the bible doesn’t anywhere instruct believers that they should breath. By your logic a true Christian must not breath.
 
The parents have a responsibility to baptize their (gift from God ) child and allow the Holy Spirit into this child’s life. This also removes original sin and when the child is of age and after ( of course) a solid foundation in the faith the child can make a reasonably educated choice. As noted in previous messages many families were baptized together. Some that follow Solo Scriptora and do not believe in Tradition are missing a lot. Remember that tradition and oral transmission came before the New Testament was written down. Many things that were accepted by the followers of THE WAY were then put into writing and accepted as the written word of God. Although God can work through anyone, baptized or not, I believe that it is everyone’s best interest to be baptized and allow the Holy Spirit to work in that person.
According to Irenaeus, as I love to point out, everything that was preached orally was handed down in writing in the Scriptures. See Against Heresies 3.1.1.
 
According to Irenaeus, as I love to point out, everything that was preached orally was handed down in writing in the Scriptures. See Against Heresies 3.1.1.
You do know that Irenaeus predates the bible as a collective work? Clearly he wasn’t using “scripture” as synonymous with “bible” like modern protestants do.

Edit: I just read the verse you referenced, it says nothing of the sort.

newadvent.org/fathers/0103301.htm
 
You do know that Irenaeus predates the bible as a collective work? Clearly he wasn’t using “scripture” as synonymous with “bible” like modern protestants do.

Edit: I just read the verse you referenced, it says nothing of the sort.

newadvent.org/fathers/0103301.htm
Did you not even bother to read it?

We have learned from none others** the plan of our salvation**, than from those through whom the Gospel has come down to us, which they did at one time proclaim in public, and, at a later period, by the will of God, handed down to us in the Scriptures, to be the ground and pillar of our faith. For it is unlawful to assert that they preached before they possessed “perfect knowledge,” as some do even venture to say, boasting themselves as improvers of the apostles.
 
Did you not even bother to read it?

We have learned from none others** the plan of our salvation**, than from those through whom the Gospel has come down to us, which they did at one time proclaim in public, and, at a later period, by the will of God, handed down to us in the Scriptures, to be the ground and pillar of our faith. For it is unlawful to assert that they preached before they possessed “perfect knowledge,” as some do even venture to say, boasting themselves as improvers of the apostles.
Gospel means “Good news” while it later refers to the written gospels, it was not refering to them when it said it in that case. Secondly it does not say that everything Jesus said and did is written in scripture, it says that the things which they were proclaiming are in scripture, and once again, scripture is not synonymous with bible.
 
Did you not even bother to read it?

We have learned from none others** the plan of our salvation**, than from those through whom the Gospel has come down to us, which they did at one time proclaim in public, and, at a later period, by the will of God, handed down to us in the Scriptures, to be the ground and pillar of our faith. For it is unlawful to assert that they preached before they possessed “perfect knowledge,” as some do even venture to say, boasting themselves as improvers of the apostles.
WRONG.
**The CHURCH is the Pillar and foundation of truth (1 Tim. 3:15) - NOT Scripture.
 
My husband feels that the Catholic Church is backwards in it’s teaching on Baptism. It all stems from the practice of infant baptism and that the baby is not ‘accepting’ Christ before he/she is baptised. How do I defend the Catholic position of infant baptism from Scripture to my husband?
I believe the issue of infant Baptism hinges in large measure what your view of Baptism is.
As Lutherans, we believe that "it is necessary to salvation, and that through Baptism is offered the grace of God, and that children are to be baptized who, being offered to God through Baptism are received into God’s grace." (Augsburg Confession).
Now, if I believe it is necessary to salvation, and Christ said, “suffer the little children to come unto me, and forbid them not”, then based on faith, I believe He wants to bestow His grace and salvation on my infant child, and encourages me to bring my infant child to Him for Baptism.

Jon
 
Why does it fall apart without an explicit, rather than implicit, example? The bible itself says that not everything that was done is in the bible. Seems to me that the bible destroys any argument basing itself entirely on it, on its own.
It’s not implicit. You’re just assuming based on your preconceived notion.
Do I think I was being cleaver? No, because I’m not the originator of that argument, however I have not ever heard a reasonable answer to it, and no it isn’t just an assertion, it is a sylogism. If you are going to force kids to do certain important things, why would you not make them do the most important thing?
Hah! That’s not a syllogism. Thanks for the laugh. You might want to look up syllogism to see how to construct one, because what you provided was not a syllogism.

The reason I don’t force my kids to be baptized is the same reason I don’t force my neighbor to get baptized. It would be meaningless without personal faith.
I am rather shocked that after three posts your argument has turned to namecalling, especially since your original argument was simply “It doesn’t say it.” It doesn’t say only Adults can be baptised either. In fact the only reason it says “repent and be baptised” is because it is aimed at adults who have much to repent for, Infants have nothing to repent for, why should they be denied the Holy Mystery?
I didn’t call you a single name in that entire response. Please point it out. Telling someone they have poor reasoning is not name calling.

Philip told the Eunuch if he believed he could be baptized. In Acts it says that all those who “accepted the message” were baptized. No mention of infants. There’s the formula right there. If you believe. If you accept the message. Then you can be baptized. It’s not complicated.
As a final thought, the bible doesn’t anywhere instruct believers that they should breath. By your logic a true Christian must not breath.
You obviously don’t understand logic if you think you can conclude that from what I’ve said.
 
Gospel means “Good news” while it later refers to the written gospels, it was not refering to them when it said it in that case. Secondly it does not say that everything Jesus said and did is written in scripture, it says that the things which they were proclaiming are in scripture, and once again, scripture is not synonymous with bible.
Ok, now I’m convinced you didn’t read it. How embarrassing. In the SAME EXACT verse, Irenaeus refers to the written gospels
  1. We have learned from none others the plan of our salvation, than from those through whom the Gospel has come down to us, which they did at one time proclaim in public, and, at a later period, by the will of God, handed down to us in the Scriptures, to be the ground and pillar of our faith. For it is unlawful to assert that they preached before they possessed “perfect knowledge,” as some do even venture to say, boasting themselves as improvers of the apostles. For, after our Lord rose from the dead, [the apostles] were invested with power from on high when the Holy Spirit came down [upon them], were filled from all [His gifts], and had perfect knowledge: they departed to the ends of the earth, preaching the glad tidings of the good things [sent] from God to us, and proclaiming the peace of heaven to men, who indeed do all equally and individually possess the Gospel of God. Matthew also issued a written Gospel among the Hebrews in their own dialect, while Peter and Paul were preaching at Rome, and laying the foundations of the Church. After their departure, Mark, the disciple and interpreter of Peter, did also hand down to us in writing what had been preached by Peter. Luke also, the companion of Paul, recorded in a book the Gospel preached by him. Afterwards, John, the disciple of the Lord, who also had leaned upon His breast, did himself publish a Gospel during his residence at Ephesus in Asia.
Please, if you’re not even going to read the material you’re seriously wasting my time.
 
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