Aside from the lackluster liturgy, insipid music, lectors in team sports apparel, tepid homilies, irritating and officious parish councils, arrogance, condescension, unannounced second collections in an increasingly non-cash society, catching up on sports and weather during the sign of peace, and the unruly and irreverent behavior in the sanctuary…(mea culpa!)…
There are 1.2 billion reasons to leave Catholicism. There is but a single reason to stay: Jesus Christ in the Most Holy Sacrament of the Altar. Once I fully grasped Who lives in that little “box” behind the altar, nothing else mattered. I mostly close my eyes during mass, but snap to attention when Father calls out “Behold the Lamb of God!” - for therein lies my Salvation.
Sadly, the “Source and Summit” of our faith often languishes alone in the Tabernacle. To me, the sign of a healthy parish is the sign-up roster for adoration. Once apart from all of the negatives, and alone in silence with Him, everything changes.