My question came up in discussion in another thread but as it was going off at a tangent from the original thread, the discussion was stopped. So, as I’d still like to know about this, my questions are…what is an acolyte as opposed to a server? I’m assuming that an acolyte is a kind of trainee priest, but I don’t want to assume - I’d like you to explain to me!
And how does a lector (in the strict meaning of the word) differ from a reader and why can women not be lectors?
I admit that I do not understand why women cannot be priests so this is probably going to be hard for me to understand, but I want to try.
Women cannot be priests for several reasons, but I think these are the two simplest. One, the priest is in the person of Christ, who was a man. The priest holds up the sacred host and says “this is my body.” A woman simply can’t do that–it’s biologically impossible. I cannot hold up a man’s body and say “this is my body.” Two, the priest, in the person of Christ, images Christ’s role as bridegroom–bridegroom of the Church, and bridegroom at the wedding feast of the lamb. A woman cannot be a bridegroom.
There are similar compelling reasons for why men cannot be mothers, regardless of how loving, kind, and nurturing they are.
This is not about competence, or compassion, or authority, or discrimination. The Church has always had strong women who were not afraid to say their piece, take charge, and do the right thing–and the popes listened. For example, Catherine of Siena was a 14th century laywoman, philosopher, and theologian. She went to Pope Gregory and convinced him to move the papacy back to Rome. You wouldn’t find that in a religion that discriminated against women. She is now revered as a Doctor of the Church.
Your comment about the Council of Trent? Women have never been priests in the Catholic Church. It’s just not possible, never has been and never will be. There is no “ban,” and no need for one. It’s just a physical, spiritual, and theological impossibility. By the way, most men can never be priests, either.