acolytes, lectors and women

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Question: would that mean that they would always be required to read at every Mass they are at if there is not another instituted lector/acolyte?
That is a good question. I’m sure if it were more widespread, the question would be addressed. But I would lean toward a yes, at least in many cases. Just as if a deacon is present, he should distribute communion before any EMHCs are used, an instituted lector should read before a “normal” layperson is called.
 
I wish dioceses would start to let laymen not pursuing the priesthood become instituted lectors and acolytes.
I do too. That would also be a load off of priests in bigger parishes who have to purify many vessels.
 
In my traditional parish women are allowed to lector, but not if they are wearing pants.
What does it matter what a woman is wearing? Would they say I could not read if I came straight to Mass from work wearing an EMS uniform or scrubs? What I wear does not change who I am or what’s in my heart (at least that’s what our Director of Liturgy and priest say), and it does not change how I approach the altar or the Eucharist.
 
What does it matter what a woman is wearing? Would they say I could not read if I came straight to Mass from work wearing an EMS uniform or scrubs? What I wear does not change who I am or what’s in my heart (at least that’s what our Director of Liturgy and priest say), and it does not change how I approach the altar or the Eucharist.
Clothes DO matter. The priest, for example, is still the same person if he is up there at the altar wearing a bathrobe and slippers. His heart is still the same, he is not changed either. But the dignity of the Mass requires him to wear set attire.yt

Thus it is within the realm of reason for the pastor to be able to set standards of dress for ministers that assist him ( EMHC’s, lectors, cantors, altar servers etc…)

Remember that service as a minister at Mass is a privilege, not a right.
 
Sorry, but wearing a bathrobe and slippers is NOT the same as a layperson wearing their work clothes that happen not to be a skirt/dress.

I guess I should be thankful for being in a parish that does not judge a person by what they wear to Mass and decides who should serve at Mass based on their heart than their clothes.
 
Is it true that it wasn’t until the Council of Trent in the 16th century that women were officially banned from priesthood?
There were no women priests, ever. In the early Church the only priest was the bishop, and it is clear with St. Paul’s Epistles that only men were bishops. Only later was the priesthood confered on the presbyters, but even before this time the presbyters (elders) were still only men.

Women back then were ordained to the diaconate. Although what the nature of the ordination of the diaconate back then is under debate. Even the role of the male deacons in the early Church were not the same as the role of deacons today. Back then deacons were literally (as the name implies) servants of the Church. They did a lot of the groundwork for the Church like charitable work. The seven deacons in Acts were comissioned to serve tables (ie. a First Century soup kitchen) and not really to lead prayers and help with the Sacraments. That is a later development.
 
Thanks for that…I shall look at the link. In the meantime…what do you mean when you say Jesus didn’t ‘ordain’ women - how did he ‘ordain’ men? If he asked only his immediate apostles to carry on after him, did he positively exclude women…or has the modern church chosen to assume that he did this? I understand that in the very very early years of the church, there was no such fast rule discriminating against women? Am I wrong here? When was it first ‘writ in stone’?
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That is a good question. I’m sure if it were more widespread, the question would be addressed. But I would lean toward a yes, at least in many cases. Just as if a deacon is present, he should distribute communion before any EMHCs are used, an instituted lector should read before a “normal” layperson is called.
There in I think might lie the problem. My husband is a reader…but he would not want to read at EVERY Mass that he attends. In our parish…the readers are scheduled…so they can prepare ahead of time for the readings. And even then you don’t have people show up…sorry to say…mostly the men.

As for women not being able to read wearing pants…I don’t get it. As long as they are respectfully dressed…what is the difference. Usually the problem with dress has been more with the men. We had a male reader who would wear shorts…I didn’t like it!
 
Sorry, but wearing a bathrobe and slippers is NOT the same as a layperson wearing their work clothes that happen not to be a skirt/dress.

I guess I should be thankful for being in a parish that does not judge a person by what they wear to Mass and decides who should serve at Mass based on their heart than their clothes.
Well, I wouldn’t see it as a matter of being coarsely judged and condemned by apparel so much. Our Parish is small and Father Pérez ensures that every Mass is as reverent as it can possibly be. It’s just part of the culture and that’s why we love our parish.

I didn’t even know that it was a specific rule until one of my friends asked me to sub for her because she had on a pantsuit. Interesting that you mention coming to Mass in scrubs after work, as I’ve had to do it on a number of occasions myself for daily Mass. Instead of upsetting Father and the few parishoners that would be bothered by my appearance, I would just have someone lector for me. Then they would know my heart, just as Our Lord does.
 
As others have said above, acolyte and lector are ministries that are generally given to Seminarians in training to be priests. They can be given to lay men (not women), but it is not very often (I’ve heard in Canada that they are restricted to seminarians actually).
In my traditional parish women are allowed to lector, but not if they are wearing pants.
I’m sorry, but this post made me laugh out loud.
Clothes DO matter. The priest, for example, is still the same person if he is up there at the altar wearing a bathrobe and slippers. His heart is still the same, he is not changed either. But the dignity of the Mass requires him to wear set attire.yt
But you need to make sure you are making a distinction when it comes to the priest. The priest (and other con-celebrants and Deacons) are required to wear certain vestments by the rubrics. On the other hand, the rubrics are silent as to what the appropriate wear is for any other ministers (readers and EMHC).
Thus it is within the realm of reason for the pastor to be able to set standards of dress for ministers that assist him ( EMHC’s, lectors, cantors, altar servers etc…)
In the realm of possibility to require them to wear modest clothing appropriate for Church. Welcome to this Century, women are now allowed to wear pants or slacks and that is modest wear for them. To say “women shouldn’t wear pants” in this day and age is just downright silly.
 
Sorry, but wearing a bathrobe and slippers is NOT the same as a layperson wearing their work clothes that happen not to be a skirt/dress.
All the same, you are there to assist the priest and serve in humility. If you don’t like the conditions the priest puts, then don’t do it.
 
There in I think might lie the problem. My husband is a reader…but he would not want to read at EVERY Mass that he attends. In our parish…the readers are scheduled…so they can prepare ahead of time for the readings. And even then you don’t have people show up…sorry to say…mostly the men.

As for women not being able to read wearing pants…I don’t get it. As long as they are respectfully dressed…what is the difference. Usually the problem with dress has been more with the men. We had a male reader who would wear shorts…I didn’t like it!
For one, there could be many men instituted so that it’s not all on one or two men. And there could still be a schedule. It’s not as if a man would go to a different Mass than he usually goes to, and boot out the reader last minute, or be forced to read when he’s not prepared.
I would guess it would be more of a strong preference toward the instituted men, not a strict obligation.
 
For one, there could be many men instituted so that it’s not all on one or two men. And there could still be a schedule. It’s not as if a man would go to a different Mass than he usually goes to, and boot out the reader last minute, or be forced to read when he’s not prepared.
I would guess it would be more of a strong preference toward the instituted men, not a strict obligation.
All these rules!!! I am amazed! Why do they matter??? OK, if the powers that be are really determined not to have women as priests, what can possibly be the objection to them READING in the mass? Or serving at the alter? Are women seen as unclean or something? I almost get the priest thing - altho’ I don’t agree with it - I see where your belief comes from… but why…I don’t know…(at the risk of sounding rude but I don’t mean to be - I can’t think of a phrase that sums up my thoughts better) - so much nit-picking!!!
 
All these rules!!! I am amazed! Why do they matter??? OK, if the powers that be are really determined not to have women as priests, what can possibly be the objection to them READING in the mass? Or serving at the alter? Are women seen as unclean or something? I almost get the priest thing - altho’ I don’t agree with it - I see where your belief comes from… but why…I don’t know…(at the risk of sounding rude but I don’t mean to be - I can’t think of a phrase that sums up my thoughts better) - so much nit-picking!!!
because the office of lector is an office reserved to men alone. it’s just that simple.
 
All these rules!!! I am amazed! Why do they matter??? OK, if the powers that be are really determined not to have women as priests, what can possibly be the objection to them READING in the mass? Or serving at the alter?
No, it’s not that. Rather, we’re talking about the difference between a deputed minister and an instituted minister. The question primarily doesn’t come down to gender, but to the character of the ministry. In general, if there’s an ordained or instituted minister, then it is proper for him to perform the ministry appropriate to him. If there isn’t an instituted minister, then his ministry may be performed by another (e.g., a lay reader or a lay server).

So, there’s no objection to a woman reading at the Mass; but, if there’s an instituted lector who is available, why shouldn’t the lector perform the ministry he was instituted to perform?
I don’t know…(at the risk of sounding rude but I don’t mean to be - I can’t think of a phrase that sums up my thoughts better) - so much nit-picking!!!
It’s funny – when the Church doesn’t have a rule to answer a particular question, the criticism is “boy, you’d think you guys would have a rule!”, but when there is a rule, the reaction is often, “wow! you guys have lots of rules!” 😉
 
What does it matter what a woman is wearing? Would they say I could not read if I came straight to Mass from work wearing an EMS uniform or scrubs? What I wear does not change who I am or what’s in my heart (at least that’s what our Director of Liturgy and priest say), and it does not change how I approach the altar or the Eucharist.
Well, you’re right, in that your heart wouldn’t be in the wrong place. However, I think I would ask the question differently: in order to be a lector, you have to be prepared and should be properly disposed to perform the ministry (same thing for acolytes). If you’re running straight from work to Mass, and don’t have enough time to change clothes, isn’t that an indication that your ‘preparation’ is only the last minute or two before Mass? Isn’t it, then, preferable that someone who’s had the time to prepare and dispose himself more fully – without the rushing around that you seem to be implying – would be more appropriate to exercise the particular ministry at that particular Mass?
 
Well, you’re right, in that your heart wouldn’t be in the wrong place. However, I think I would ask the question differently: in order to be a lector, you have to be prepared and should be properly disposed to perform the ministry (same thing for acolytes). If you’re running straight from work to Mass, and don’t have enough time to change clothes, isn’t that an indication that your ‘preparation’ is only the last minute or two before Mass? Isn’t it, then, preferable that someone who’s had the time to prepare and dispose himself more fully – without the rushing around that you seem to be implying – would be more appropriate to exercise the particular ministry at that particular Mass?
What if wearing work clothes means having enough time to prepare before Mass, but rushing to change clothes before Mass (to fit someone else’s idea of how one should look) leaves little or no time to prepare? This is my dilemma. I choose to prepare myself internally rather than externally. If my priest didn’t agree with this, he would have said something by now; and I would be able to be just another pew sitter.
 
I wish dioceses would start to let laymen not pursuing the priesthood become instituted lectors and acolytes.
There would be absolutely no advantage to permanently instituing acolytes and lectors unless the formation to institution was considerable. The purification of sacred vessels matter is simply not enough reason to permanetly institute acolytes given the potential downside of permanently instituting someone.

In years past the function of porter was often abused. It was bestowed upon those who gave the most money to the Church, etc. I suspect there would be a great deal of maneuvering by many to be permanetly instituted if it became a common option.
 
…I serve as a sacristian/head server, EMHC, and help with RCIA. I don’t know why some people on these boards have such a problem with women filling these roles, if that is their gift. My husbands gift is as a reader and hospitality. I have NO desire to be a priest…but I do want to help serve our priest, in whatever way I can. Sometimes that is as simple as cooking dinner for him when he has multiple pennance services. I truly don’t understand why others here put a restriction on serving roles for women that Holy Mother Church does not…but that is just me.
Why do you do all three liturgical ministries? I think one of the HUGE things hurting parishes are people that take on multiple liturgical ministries under the guise of “no one else will do it” while driving others away. That’s certainly the case in my parish. People are deeply entrenched and unless you happen to be one of them, good luck in becoming involved!

I think all servers should be males of all ages who might just possibly have a vocation as a priest or deacon. Serving at the altar and/or in the sacristy helps foster such vocations. When sacristies because de-facto ladies clubs (as many seem to be these days), it dissuades males from even getting involved. That’s simply the facts.
 
When sacristies because de-facto ladies clubs (as many seem to be these days), it dissuades males from even getting involved. That’s simply the facts.
you can say that again. I’ve seen sacristies both ways, and the difference is palpable. I even had a friend’s mom (who helps clean altar linens and cassocks) that it’s sometimes a slightly weird feeling coming into the sacristy, because they *almost *feel out of place. However, next she said, without a breath, that that is the way it should be. It’s a sacristy. I can’t help but agree, at least in part. Maybe she didn’t phrase it as well as she could have, but the idea is still there.
 
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