I’ve sometimes asked a priest to bless something for me, such as a rosary, etc. Never once have they made recourse to any of the approved books of blessings (e.g., De Benedictionibus, Roman Ritual, etc.). In every case the blessing has been ad-libbed.
Is this allowed? Are such ad-libbed blessings efficacious in whatever ways they normally would be? And if so, are the official books of blessings merely suggestions or templates or something of the sort?
I suppose it can be said to be “allowed” in that:
- Every blessing is good.
- Every blessing is efficacious to some extent.
Thus, I would conclude that there is nothing intrinsically wrong in having an item blessed using a generic formula. However, since the Church provides special blessings for many objects, I think it can be said that it is more appropriate to use these and, if circumstances permit–and they usually, eventually do–pastorally necessary to use them. Otherwise, why would the Church provide them? It only makes sense that they
are to be used, and not at the personal discretion of the priest.
Now, it is probably a good idea to make an appointment in advance with a priest to have this kind of special blessing for an object. This is common courtesy. Not having time at a particular moment is, I think, a valid and reasonable excuse for a priest to use a generic blessing formula instead of the more specific. I would be very suspicious of a statement like, “I don’t like using the specific blessing and so I won’t,” if it came to that.
If, after requesting an appointment the priest outright refuses to perform the more specific blessing, or if an appointment will simply not be provided within reason, I think the priest could be said to be at least quite pastorally imprudent and perhaps a letter should be written to the bishop. The Church gives us these things to use these things, not to print them in books, never to be used.
At least externally, a more specific blessing is more efficacious than a less specific blessing, if a more specific blessing exists. It is only natural that our sensory experience is greater when a longer, more solemn blessing is used; thus, even if the intrinsic efficacy of a less specific and more specific blessing is the same, it can perhaps be said that our receptivity of the graces of a more specific blessing is (at least hypothetically, assuming we’re not psychologically impaired or possessed or ridiculously uncatechized, etc.) greater than our receptivity of the graces of a less specific prayer. Do I make sense here, or am a blathering? These kinds of threads are wonderful because they allow me to think.
Anyway, no, the official liturgical/blessing books are not templates or suggestions. Various books contain directions like, “In these or similar words the priest says,” but as I understand it, even in the new Roman Missal these have been greatly restrained. (Given the current liturgical climate, in the future I think we can expect the same in the new editions of the Rituale/De B. and so on.) But other than that, rituals must be followed word for word.