Hi Simpleas!
I do love the “both/and” approach, which I learned from Fr. Rohr.
I look at it this way (today): How do I feel about humanity today? Do I see humanity as good, loving, and beautiful, or do I see us as a scourge, a problem, a mess? I think most people would have us as something between the two extremes, and somewhere the idea of “original sin” will be influenced by the underlying feeling and tip the scales one way or the other in terms of beliefs concerning orginal sin.
Whatever the case may be, forcing people to believe in original sin is counterproductive. If a person sees humanity as beautiful, and believes that God forgives “before always”, then any person or institution trying to talk them out of that will not be followed, but only tolerated.
I am currently reading a wonderful book,
The Faith Club: A Muslim, a Christian, and a Jew- Three Women search for understanding. The Christian, Suzanne, is Catholic, and has a very strong faith.
Suzanne addresses original sin in this context: She has her young daughter go to a non-denominational Bible class, and she brought home a construction paper booklet she had made there; the book was meant to represent the Christian view of creation and salvation.
The first page was green, her daughter had glued a picture she had drawn of Adam and Eve.
"The second page was red, and there was the tree of life with its apple. The third page was entirely black. There was no picture.
‘What is this black page?’ I asked Anne.
‘It is sin,’ she answered.
‘Whose sin?’ I asked.
‘The sin we’re born with.’
‘You mean original sin?’ My eyes widened.
‘Yes,’ she nodded. My thoughts immediately went back to a picture from a childhood catechism book I had. The picture, which I had found so troubling, showed a child with a black blotch on his soul representing original sin.
‘Tear that page out,’ I told Anne.
‘Why?’ she asked.
“Because I don’t believe original sin exists. I believe that we start out marked by the love of God, not the sin of Adam. If Adam needed to be forgiven, God forgave him long ago.”
Anne thought for a few seconds. ‘Yeah, I think you’re right,’ she said as she ripped the black page out of her booklet and threw it in the garbage."
We read these words without judging Suzanne’s motives, faith, or judgement of orthodoxy. She looks at God and humanity with a different set of premises than others. There is room for a variety of approaches in our great Church, in our great world.
BTW: I highly recommend the book, Simpleas.