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As I said, such people need treatment- the priest will help spiritually, but the doctors are oft also needed- to say it is not wrong, or no fault is to allow sin, but also we must know that it is not sinful to eat when bullemic or such, but sinful not to eat, except in disorders, buit this should not weaken zeal. I personally fast, and often torture myself with thoughts, so as to purge myself of sinfulness, but it is also sinful to accuse one’s self of what is not sin (Baltimore Catechism), so when we do so, we must realise that we need treatment, and the work of grace and willpower- I might suggest the likes (obviously not it, but what a nutritionist says) the zone diet, or something which has smpecific amounts of food deemed healthy to a bullemic, or another diet, which works on exact amounts on eat meal- logic aids people, but it is wrong to unemphasise that this is not right, because such poor, wondrous souls need treatment, whether or not spiritually, but even non sinful things, if confessed with true sorrow, often are healed, by the grace of our repentance, if this makes sense- but as I said- it is not for laymen without knowledge to say someone is not in sin by deprival, and self-hatred, this is not their place- they should ask to pray for such people, and get them to get healing, which does not lesson one, but greatens them with aid. Eating disorders are dangerous, and it is a cross to eat, but this is subjection to God, who is truth, and needed- as to mental disorders, yes, they can reduce guilt, but this should not prevent seeking aid- many will only tell a priest such, so they need to be incouraged to- there is no excuse for preventing treatment when it is needed, and the spirit needs treatment too, for such horrid pain

Pray to the saints dear friend, they may aid, and be sure to see psychologists, but also see priests, read the bible, and realize that God loves you, and that sin is insanity, not the other way around, so surely, try the idea of eating fixed amounts, and remember when you feel bad, God is logical, goodness is logical, if you follow a nutritionist in eating, how can it be sin?

you have my prayers, know that God wants to aid you also 🙂

Of course, as I have said- for such, help is needed, never try things alone, or try them rather than not, but a priest, and other aids are there, as with saints and others. God knows what is true and good.
 
Vatican II
GAUDIUM ET SPES

“14. Though made of body and soul, man is one. Through his bodily composition he gathers to himself the elements of the material world; thus they reach their crown through him, and through him raise their voice in free praise of the Creator.(6) For this reason man is not allowed to despise his bodily life, rather he is obliged to regard his body as good and honorable since God has created it and will raise it up on the last day. Nevertheless, wounded by sin, man experiences rebellious stirrings in his body. But the very dignity of man postulates that man glorify God in his body and forbid it to serve the evil inclinations of his heart.”
vatican.va/archive/hist_councils/ii_vatican_council/documents/vat-ii_cons_19651207_gaudium-et-spes_en.html

it does not of course make it sinful, only shows that God wants to aid those he gave such cross, what great power as evangelism, to show- I think this food evil, but for God, I eat it 😉
 
As I have said I think my eating disorder is a cross to bear and hope that one day I will be freed from it if it’s the will of God! After years of Dr’s, nutritionists, medications and most importantly spiritiual guidance I know that God knows my struggles, my heart, my intentions and I am glad that He will judge me fairly whatever that may be. However, I beg for His Mercy!!!
 
I understand, and pray for you, my brother or sister, I go to confession weekly if possible, so as to confess past and present possible sins, and even Nutral thoughts, and movements- i.e. not apparently my faults, but the ghost of sin often remains, and is hard to avoid- pray the novena to Philomena
"NOVENA PRAYER TO
SAINT PHILOMENA

We beseech Thee, O Lord, to grant us the pardon of our sins by the intercession of Saint , virgin and martyr, who was always pleasing in Thy sight by her eminent chastity and by the profession of every virtue. Amen.

Illustrious virgin and martyr, Saint Philomena, behold me prostrate before the throne whereupon it has pleased the Most Holy Trinity to place thee. Full of confidence in thy protection, I entreat thee to intercede for me with God, from the heights of Heaven deign to cast a glance upon thy humble client! Spouse of Christ, sustain me in suffering, fortify me in temptation, protect me in the dangers surrounding me, obtain for me the graces necessary to me, and in particular
(Here specify your petition).

Above all, assist me at the hour of my death. Saint Philomena, powerful with God, pray for us. Amen.

O God, Most Holy Trinity, we thank Thee for the graces Thou didst bestow upon the Blessed Virgin Mary, and upon Thy handmaid Philomena, through whose intercession we implore Thy Mercy. Amen."
ewtn.com/Devotionals/novena/philomena.htm
I poray to her often, the reason I say this, is that she has changed my diet, since it began, from alright, to better, so I think she could help you, also 🙂

God bless, Marc Aupiais- God loves you, and I bless you in his name, a friend of truth, despite your hardship, in any case, maybe try what I do, but remember- Your body is what God made it, we are judged by what we do with what we are given (LG XVI), which means that the sacraments, or the real, truthful desire forgives us, so long as we use them regularily- you have my prayer
 
God does know your struggles, my friend.

My Mother was born into an abusive home. At the age of 7, she was stricken with polio and put into a sanitarium for two years of her life, away from her parents, with fellow polio patients and the mentally ill. She has a severely crooked spine, and has had self esteem issues all her life. She married the first man who paid attention to her, right out of high school. He cheated on her mercilessly, at times in front of her. He was also abusive. She divorced and years later, married my father. He was an alcoholic (now recovered). Neither man would attend church with her. Now, when they are both retired and should be enjoying life, she has been stricken with Alzheimers. Why all of this, to such a good, loving and caring woman? Why?

God knows why, and you will both know why someday. Everyone does have a cross to bear…some people have many of them. You are still a blessed soul. Continue to pray and ask God for his guidance and love, and I pray you find an answer, or at least peace.
 
2Bcatholic said:
As I have said I think my eating disorder is a cross to bear and hope that one day I will be freed from it if it’s the will of God! After years of Dr’s, nutritionists, medications and most importantly spiritiual guidance I know that God knows my struggles, my heart, my intentions and I am glad that He will judge me fairly whatever that may be. However, I beg for His Mercy!!!
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I sympathize with you. My dear sister struggles with this as well. It is only with God’s help that she gets through it each day. My prayers are with you! 👍
 
I am so sorry to hear about all of the heartaches and sufferings your mother (you) has endured. It is very difficult to see our loved ones hurting and not be able to stop it but I’m sure your prayers are being heard and great rewards will come from your mother’s pain. I believe that Our Lord allows certain souls to suffer so that those sufferings may be offered up to help in other’s salvation as well as our own. Even though this is very difficult I hope she is able to offer all of this up! You too!

I am a Hospice volunteer and have sat with many Alzheimer’s patients and truly believe they are close to God in a very special way.

I will pray for you and your family!
 
What a calling from the Lord, to volunteer with Hospice. You are certainly in my prayers as well.
 
UndertheRadar said:
I think the “official definition” is inaccurate. Sex addicts are not powerless, and they have a free will. The temptations can be mighty powerful but ultimately the person must decide to give in. Unless there is something wrong upstairs, the “compulsive behavior” does not hold water. Compulsion implies the ability to act irrationally.
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Agreed. I wonder if a sex addict can control themselves when they are out in public or at work. If so, I would say it’s an issue of self-control and having developed a bad habit.

Or is the compulsion so strong that they would have sex in front of their boss? If so, I would say they are mentally ill and need help.
 
Yes, I definately believe I was called to be a Hospice volunteer.

I have sat with patients who have no loved ones to be with them during this time of their lives. Nobody wants to die alone and if I can help then I want to be there for them. I have made many friends and feel much joy to be able to pray the Divine mercy chaplet over one who is about to see Our Lord. The rewards are priceless!
 
You are a blessing 2bcatholic, and i am glad you do so, as to people in habits, they are oft hard to break, but habits, eating problems can be called mental illness, but sex addiction, started somewhere, and somewhere must be confessed, and something else must be conquered, however the urges people have are powered, it is conquerable, unless it is illness, either way, I doubt sex addiction, or would think it emotional or physical addiction (Drugs similar to such), so both I think should be fought cold turkey, with spiritual help, confession, and counseling, but it is certainly sinful in matter.
 
And definitely different from clear illness,

in any case- God bless 2bcatholic and all who have contributed here, grave matter, is not always mortal, or even venial offense, but the matter is considered grave, whatever the sin(listed as grave, not venial matter, which is never mortal, except in a dual nature of action, venial and grave, but sometimes grave is cancelled under dual nature, as a side effect, i.e. self defense)- but this does not instill guilt- is this a good summary?
 
Oh, this almost made me cry!! :crying:

You have a tremendous heart. When we can give of ourselves, that is the greatest reward…especially to those alone, or without.

“Like Jesus we belong to the world living not for ourselves but for others. The joy of the Lord is our strength.”-Mother Theresa
 
Isn’t it very sad that so many people have such horrible addictions, sins, crosses to bear!!!

I pray for these people who have addictions, afflictions, sins, temptations, crosses --that they know God loves them and that regardless of what they have done in their past that they realize they have been given a new day to try again!!! The Sacrament of Reconciliation is most healing, always there…Our Lord waits patiently for us to come to Him. He knows our nature and knows the psychological importance of hearing “Your sins are forgiven”

No sin from a repentant person is too bad for God’s mercy and forgiveness. Give Him these afflictions and let Him work in your life.
 
Thank you for your kind words. Next to Our Lady, Mother Teresa is one that I try to model my life after.
 
She has become a source of light and inspiration for me as well as I travel down this new path of Faith.
 
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