Advice: Can't decide between Catholic or Orthodox

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Orthodox Christians in Mexico honour Our Lady of Guadalupe.
Generally, is it true that icons of Eastern Orthodox Christians portray Mary with the Christ child. Certain Eastern Orthodox have very strict requirements as to what is and what is not an acceptable icon.
Orthodox fast requirements do vary somewhat between jurisdictions, and individuals are often given differing expectations from their spiritual Father
Can you give me an example of an Orthodox church, Russian, Greek or other, which has the fasting rule of one hour before receiving Holy Communion at the Divine Liturgy?
 
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They say the rosary before the Divine Liturgy.
Mine also does. This is a latinization. The rosary, as a private devotion, is fine but it is a community prayer that should it take the place of Matins/Orthos before the Divine Liturgy.
The fasting rules are very much relaxed from those of the Greek Orthodox.
This is true for the Ruthenian Church in the US. I myself practice the fasting rules (or try at least) of the Eastern Orthodox.
They have an icon of Our Lady of Guadalupe in the Church.
Many Eastern Orthodox Churches as well as laity have her on their iconostasis or icon corners in Mexico. How could one be a Christian in Mexico or South America and not have an icon of her. Imagine converts to Orthodoxy. They bring her along with them. Plus, Latin specific saints are not off limits, although being an Eastern Church it would make sense to stick with Eastern Saints.
They honor the Roman Catholic Pope at each Divine Liturgy.
This is how you would know you are in a Byzantine Catholic Church as compared to an Eastern Orthodox Church. Other than that it’s the same Divine Liturgy.
Generally speaking, my understanding is that the Eastern Catholic Churches must agree to the validity of the filioque even though it is not said during the recitation of the creed.
We recognize the filioque as a valid Latin understanding and take no issue with it.
I don’t think that the local Ruthenian Eastern Catholic church has the same liturgical practice, theology . . .
If “lex orandi lex credendi” means anything at all, then we do have the same theology as the Eastern Orthodox.

ZP
 
If “lex orandi lex credendi” means anything at all, then we do have the same theology as the Eastern Orthodox.

ZP
The Greek Orthodox and the Russian Orthodox do not recognize Eastern Catholics as Orthodox. They will use the “U” word.
Do Catholics accept the western rite Orthodox as Catholics and see no problem with attending their Churches on a regular basis?
 
The Greek Orthodox and the Russian Orthodox do not recognize Eastern Catholics as Orthodox.
Zealots on the interns and social media for sure. I regularly attend an OCA parish and GOA outside of my Ruthenian parish. I make no bones that I’m Greek Catholic and that I see myself as Orthodox in communion with Rome. Nobody I know at either parish us a problem. I’m friends with both priests and their family and I’ll be helping out at the local Grecian Festival in the coming month.
Do Catholics accept the western rite Orthodox as Catholics and see no problem with attending their Churches on a regular basis?
Not sure about Western rite Orthodox but we all know that the Catholic Church is fine with letting Eastern Orthodox attend on a regular basis. Heck, we’ll even allow them to receive communion but of course we would also ask that they follow their own rules on this.

ZP
 
Zealots on the interns and social media for sure. I regularly attend an OCA parish and GOA outside of my Ruthenian parish. I make no bones that I’m Greek Catholic and that I see myself as Orthodox in communion with Rome. Nobody I know at either parish us a problem. I’m friends with both priests and their family
I don’t think it’s just zealots, but all Orthodox view eastern Catholics as not Orthodox. Do you receive Communion at Orthodox Churches?
 
all Orthodox view eastern Catholics as not Orthodox.
Of course. Eastern Catholics are Catholics who recognize the infallibility and the universal jurisdiction of the Roman Pope.
If “lex orandi lex credendi” means anything at all, then we do have the same theology as the Eastern Orthodox.
i don’t see how it can be the same theology if you recognize papal infallibility and jurisdiction.
 
Some Orthodox receive at Eastern Catholic Churches… witnessed it myself.
 
I don’t. I’m just saying that my experience with Orthodox is fantastic.

ZP
I’m glad that it is. We hope that all of mankind would come and join the Orthodox Church and eastern Catholics are nearly there, and as I understand many do finally join the Church.
 
Some Orthodox receive at Eastern Catholic Churches… witnessed it myself.
Just as some Protestants receive at Roman Catholic churches and Roman Catholics receive at Protestant churches, neither is taught to do so and are at odds with their church’s doctrines. Churches today are not micromanaged and it is easy to have individuals doing scandalous things.
 
I’m very Orthodox friendly. I consider myself Orthodox and am often on the fence when it comes to communion with Rome or not.

I have a friend, Melkite Greek Catholic, and he communes at an OCA parish regularly in his summer home because there are no Greek Catholic Churches in the area. The community knows that he is Greek Catholic and it is not seen as scandalous by any means. When his daughter was in college she, also Greek Catholic, belonged to a ROCOR parish as well as occasionally attending an OCA parish and in both parishes regularly made Prosforo. I’m curious, as an Orthodox, how do you view this? I truly am curious and I hope you don’t feel that I’m being snide.

ZP
 
Plus, the business that they don’t recognize Saint Peter as the Head of the Church and their tradition of the Byzantine Emperor being the Head of the Church. Sadly, Byzantium has fallen to the Turks.

Wish it weren’t so.
Well the situation with the Orthodox Church is really more a question of whether the patriarch of Constantinople is “Primus inter pares.” That is to say, is Bartholomew I (Ecumenical patriarch of Constantinople) the first among all bishops in the Orthodox Church? Given the fractures within the orthodox Church due to geopolitics it would appear the other Eastern Orthodox do not subscribe to the position of Primus inter pares
 
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I have a friend, Melkite Greek Catholic, and he communes at an OCA parish regularly in his summer home because there are no Greek Catholic Churches in the area. The community knows that he is Greek Catholic and it is not seen as scandalous by any means. When his daughter was in college she, also Greek Catholic, belonged to a ROCOR parish as well as occasionally attending an OCA parish and in both parishes regularly made Prosforo. I’m curious, as an Orthodox, how do you view this?
Those practices can happen and are not canonical… They seem to be a product of personal friendship and/or an Ekklesiological looking away… It can happen in any Orthodox Church, and is not a good idea as a general practice… I sure hope that the Priests are praying for those whom they are illegitimately Communing…

I have a friend who would Commune in a schismatic Orthodox Church by special petition to its Priest when he was not prepared by preparatory prayers nor fasting not recent confession… When that priest said yes to him, the Orthodox understanding is that he thereby took responsibility for my friend’s preparation, and suffered the consequences of it’s lack instead of my friend…

We are in pretty chaotic times in a lot of ways…

God will sort it out…

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When his daughter was in college she, also Greek Catholic, belonged to a ROCOR parish as well as occasionally attending an OCA parish and in both parishes regularly made Prosforo.
That would be, perhaps, a matter of Ekonomia… I would bet that she is very pious and eager to learn more of her Faith and that the OCA and the ROCOR Priests were both taking advantage of her Prosphora making knowledge and using the ekonomia to draw her closer to the Praxis of the Orthodox Faith where she can find what she is seeking…

For I think we can all agree that she is seeking God…

I mean, it is one thing to enter into prayer and make Prosphora, and quite another to receive the Body and Blood…

Yet normally even in the making and baking of the Prosphora, it is only done by someone from within the Orthodox Faith…

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I’m very Orthodox friendly. I consider myself Orthodox and am often on the fence when it comes to communion with Rome or not.

I have a friend, Melkite Greek Catholic, and he communes at an OCA parish regularly in his summer home because there are no Greek Catholic Churches in the area. The community knows that he is Greek Catholic and it is not seen as scandalous by any means. When his daughter was in college she, also Greek Catholic, belonged to a ROCOR parish as well as occasionally attending an OCA parish and in both parishes regularly made Prosforo. I’m curious, as an Orthodox, how do you view this? I truly am curious and I hope you don’t feel that I’m being snide.
I’m glad that you are still open to joining the Orthodox Church, but you have to realize that if you have not really joined the Church by whatever method the Bishop will receive you, you are tricking yourself by calling yourself Orthodox in the sense of being part of the Orthodox Church.

As for your Greek Catholic friend and his daughter, these Orthodox Priests that commune them or let them make the Prosforo, are very wrong. Why would your friend receive Communion in the Orthodox Church if he has not joined the Church? Both he and the Priest seem to have no fear of God and his warnings, but then again so do all of us. I would say that his Bishop should be made aware of the scandal, but then again I’m not sure that all the Bishops in the OCA stand for correct teachings. Orthodoxy in America seems to have been unhealthily influenced by outside religions, and at the moment, I would try to stick to the Russian Orthodox Church Outside of Russia if possible, because they typically are not influenced by these problems. They are like the equivalent of the RCC parish’s that don’t have bands and still try to do things the way the RCC was doing them a hundred years ago, not trying to be Protestant style Churches.
 
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I’m glad that you are still open to joining the Orthodox Church, but you have to realize that if you have not really joined the Church by whatever method the Bishop will receive you, you are tricking yourself by calling yourself Orthodox in the sense of being part of the Orthodox Church.
I believe I am Orthodox when it comes to my liturgical practice, theology and spirituality but in communion with Rome.
Why would your friend receive Communion in the Orthodox Church if he has not joined the Church?
He believes you cannot “join” the Church when one is already part of the Church.

In many communities outside of the US, Greek Catholics and Orthodox see themselves as the same and will go to either Church depending on distance and what is more convenient. I’m not suggesting by any means that one (RCC or Orthodox) should just feel free to commune at one another’s parishes, but, in places around the world this does happen. Less in the US however. There are many Protestant converts to Orthodoxy who are now priests and In some cases can be very “anti” Catholic if you will.

ZP
 
He believes you cannot “join” the Church when one is already part of the Church.

In many communities outside of the US, Greek Catholics and Orthodox see themselves as the same and will go to either Church depending on distance and what is more convenient. I’m not suggesting by any means that one (RCC or Orthodox) should just feel free to commune at one another’s parishes, but, in places around the world this does happen. Less in the US however. There are many Protestant converts to Orthodoxy who are now priests and In some cases can be very “anti” Catholic if you will.
Unless your friend is not American, and is really from one of these countries you say has Orthodox Churches that treat Eastern Catholics like Orthodox, this argument doesn’t stand. From what I have heard from people from Greece, they are very upset that there are Catholic Churches and any other non-Orthodox Churches in their country.

As for your statement about anti-Catholicism from Orthodox in the US, I don’t think that is true. The most anti-Catholic, if you want to call it that, about the differences and the need for them to join the Church are from Saints from Serbia, Russia, Greece, and other Orthodox countries. If anything, like I said, many American Orthodox leaders seem to have gone against the teachings of the Church with regard to views of non-Orthodox.

I know that Eastern Catholics like to have “the best of both worlds.” We thought about it for a while before joining the Orthodox Church, but at the end of the day, we would have to say that we rejected communion with the Church that we feel has continued faithful to Christ. I was RCC and only trusted writings from Orthodox Saints, how could I choose to stay in communion with a Church that the Orthodox Church no longer views as Orthodox?
 
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As for your statement about anti-Catholicism from Orthodox in the US, I don’t think that is true.
I did not mean this as Orthodox as a whole. I spend most of my Sunday’s at an Orthodox Church (GOA and OCA). What I meant to say was that some Protestant converts to Orthodoxy can be this way.
From what I have heard from people from Greece, they are very upset that there are Catholic Churches and any other non-Orthodox Churches in their country.
There is a very, very small Greek Byzantine Catholic Church. Orthodox Churches that have a larger Greek Catholic counterpart (Melkite/Antiochian, Romanian, even Ukrainian) probably have much better relationships with one another.
I know that Eastern Catholics like to have “the best of both worlds.”
Many probably think this although if you look at some threads going around, I don’t think it is at all.
I was RCC and only trusted writings from Orthodox Saints, how could I choose to stay in communion with a Church that the Orthodox Church no longer views as Orthodox?
:+1:t3:

ZP
 
the Orthodox priest-monk who baptised me
First of all, you are in my thoughts and prayers. May God illumine you on what He wants from you. Please bear in my mind that while people showing sympathy here may be soothing, you do not face a psychological issue but a spiritual one. Please discuss these matters with a Catholic and a EO priest. Here is what I notice:
  • you have been baptized by the EO priest from this it results:
    • according to RCC you are double baptized, and this is not alright afaik. @edward_george1 Is this correct?
      If you choose to go back you need to accept some scrutiny I think. Also afaik you were also probably asked to give up believes held by RCC, which if you did, you did in front of God. You need to discuss with a Catholic priest as to how serious is this, and what to do to come back in RCC if you feel called back. But will you stay?
    • as far as the EOC is concerned you are now Eastern Orthodox having duties as an EO layman. Your national sensibilities are irrelevant since the Liturgy is not about socializing (St. Peter speaks of this) . Don’t expect the EO priest to just encourage you to do as you wish. You received the Baptism. God sees you now as an EO believer. It cannot be undone.
      You cannot just swing between denominations or try them on.
      I pray God helps you discern what is the root of your restlesness.
      You had problems with the RCC bishops allowing certain things, you wanted to leave. You have problem with the quarrel between your current bishops and EP, you want to leave. I think you get the point of what I mean.
      I also was tempted to swing between EO and RCC but God allowed me enough struggle so that I can realize the root of my restlesness and sent me to the right priest to whom I would feel comfortable confessing it and the problem was with me, not the Schism. But it took some tears and fears and prayers.
      Praying for you to discern what exactly is the problem and where to solve and how to solve it.
 
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