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I am a forty year old single Catholic gentleman that has never been married.I attended Catholic school from grade school through high school.After graduating i attended two semesters of college, but soon after my mother was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis.To help with the bills, and keep the family afloat, i left school, and went to work full time(We lost my father years earlier, so my mother until that time, was the sole supporter of the family).I first felt God’s calling when i was in my first semester of college, but over time i became more involved in full time work and trying to help keep the household bills paid.

It wasn’t until a few years ago when my mother passed on, that i again felt God’s calling(By this time i was in my late thirties and spent the past 15+ years working fulltime, and helping take care of my mother(who over time was in declining health).What made things different this time, wasn’t only that i was a much more mature and (i believe:)) wise individual, my heart was(and is)fully receptive, and open to what God was asking of me.I have been praying and reflecting extensively about the possibility of dedicating my life to pursuing the priesthood.I have spoken with my parish Priest and my diocesan vocation director, but am having a hard time discerning what type of priesthood may be right for me(or at 40,those even open to me).I also can’t help but feel that at 40, i may not be wanted or needed.Though i have been assured this is not at all true,it is still a feeling i am having a hard time putting at ease.

Any advice or words of encouragement anyone might have to offer me, would be very much appreciated.A most heartfelt “Thank You!”, to anyone and everyone that takes the time to share a few words with me.🙂

God Bless,
Tes
 
The scariest part of the journey with God is sometimes having faith and stepping out of the boat. God will guide you as you go along- first you need to step out in faith and start becomeing a priest which i suppose would be seminary school? God doesn’t show us the whole trip only small parts of the journey ahead. Have faith that He will let you know which road to take as you start the journey.
 
Wow, you don’t know a lot of late vocations then? I can name a few local priests that entered late in life. They are in love with God. Ask about going to a seminary for late vocations.
 
yes, you need to have a spiritual director. Don’t worry about your age. I know 7 guys who are above 40 who have just entered seminary. Two of them are taking Philosophy right now.
 
yes, you need to have a spiritual director. Don’t worry about your age. I know 7 guys who are above 40 who have just entered seminary. Two of them are taking Philosophy right now.
The only issue you may have is if you feel called to religious life along with the priesthood. If you only feel a calling to the secular priesthood then you are at a young enough age that most dioceses will consider you.
 
Thank You all VERY much for the kind, and thoughtful responses.They have helped put me at ease.Without a doubt, i know that God is calling me to the priesthood.I have prayed and reflected extensively, and know this is what God wants of me.This doesn’t mean however(as i am sure you all know) that discernment is, or has been a simple process.At times it has been confusing(and even occasionally overwhelming), and taxing emotionally, but thankfully God,prayer,reflection,clergy,friends/family, and kind folks as yourselves have helped me through.

If anyone has any additional advice and/or words of inspiration to share, please add anything
you feel might help.Anything anyone has to share with me is appreciated very much.

Thanks again to all of you for taking the time to share your thoughts with me.Please pray for me and my discernment.
 
Thank You all VERY much for the kind, and thoughtful responses.They have helped put me at ease.Without a doubt, i know that God is calling me to the priesthood.I have prayed and reflected extensively, and know this is what God wants of me.This doesn’t mean however(as i am sure you all know) that discernment is, or has been a simple process.At times it has been confusing(and even occasionally overwhelming), and taxing emotionally, but thankfully God,prayer,reflection,clergy,friends/family, and kind folks as yourselves have helped me through.

If anyone has any additional advice and/or words of inspiration to share, please add anything
you feel might help.Anything anyone has to share with me is appreciated very much.

Thanks again to all of you for taking the time to share your thoughts with me.Please pray for me and my discernment.
That’s wonderful!

The best place to start is probably your diocese’s vocation director (unless you have a strong reason to prefer another diocese).

He can help you find a spiritual director and get you all the info you need; i.e. you will very likely need to start taking college classes, including philosophy to get your BA.

May God bless your vocation abundantly!
 
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