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Isabelle2012
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Hello. My 20 year old sister is living a life of sin. She moved out of my moms and into my dads(my parents have been divorced since I was in the 8th grade. I am 26 now) because my moms rules were not allowing her to sin. She has caused much pain to my mother to the point that my mother cries.
He allows her to sleep over her 27 year old atheist, pot smoking boyfriends house. My dad and her call each other vulgar names in a jokingly manner. I find the names offensive. The last straw was when I saw that she posted a very vulgar photo of some women reading the 50 Shades of Gray book and the caption contained the F word spelled out. This was on facebook. I was offended, but more upset that we have nephews, nieces and other family and friends who don’t need to see that. I posted a comment about it not being appropriate for her nephews and nieces to see and she said, “they hear it at school”. I told her privately, that this is not good behavior coming from a Christian. I left her a bible scripture and she proceeded to tell me to leave her alone and that I may as well homeschool my son." She posted on her public wall, “if you’re offended, block my comment!” and my own father LIKED her comment. She deleted all mine. All of her friends liked her comment and her disgusting photo. I told her that book is degrading to women. I feel like I am doing my dad’s job!
I am sorry this is so long. I have been dealing with these things for far too long. I am worried about her soul. She does not go to church anymore and said she can be a good Christian without going. I told her no. It is a commandment! I am her older sister and once, a role-model. While people sit back idle, like my dad and other siblings, I have enough care to tell her the truth. She does not want to hear it.
In the meantime, my facebook account is deleted and I want to leave her alone now and I feel like I don’t want my dad in my life anymore because he hurts me to emotionally. My grave grave sins were committed under his lack of supervision when we stayed with him on the weekends and I feel like he is condoning my sister’s behavior. He also does not take an active part in my life and makes no attempts to. I now have a 6 month old and the question of whether or not to have his grandpa in his life comes up. I had feelings of self-hate and low self-esteem growing up and sought any attention from any guy willing to do so, just to feel wanted.
Hitting her in the head with bible passages is not obviously working. I don’t know what else to do. I pray my rosary daily for her conversion. Any advice would be appreciated.
He allows her to sleep over her 27 year old atheist, pot smoking boyfriends house. My dad and her call each other vulgar names in a jokingly manner. I find the names offensive. The last straw was when I saw that she posted a very vulgar photo of some women reading the 50 Shades of Gray book and the caption contained the F word spelled out. This was on facebook. I was offended, but more upset that we have nephews, nieces and other family and friends who don’t need to see that. I posted a comment about it not being appropriate for her nephews and nieces to see and she said, “they hear it at school”. I told her privately, that this is not good behavior coming from a Christian. I left her a bible scripture and she proceeded to tell me to leave her alone and that I may as well homeschool my son." She posted on her public wall, “if you’re offended, block my comment!” and my own father LIKED her comment. She deleted all mine. All of her friends liked her comment and her disgusting photo. I told her that book is degrading to women. I feel like I am doing my dad’s job!
I am sorry this is so long. I have been dealing with these things for far too long. I am worried about her soul. She does not go to church anymore and said she can be a good Christian without going. I told her no. It is a commandment! I am her older sister and once, a role-model. While people sit back idle, like my dad and other siblings, I have enough care to tell her the truth. She does not want to hear it.
In the meantime, my facebook account is deleted and I want to leave her alone now and I feel like I don’t want my dad in my life anymore because he hurts me to emotionally. My grave grave sins were committed under his lack of supervision when we stayed with him on the weekends and I feel like he is condoning my sister’s behavior. He also does not take an active part in my life and makes no attempts to. I now have a 6 month old and the question of whether or not to have his grandpa in his life comes up. I had feelings of self-hate and low self-esteem growing up and sought any attention from any guy willing to do so, just to feel wanted.
Hitting her in the head with bible passages is not obviously working. I don’t know what else to do. I pray my rosary daily for her conversion. Any advice would be appreciated.