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JDaniel
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Whadyamean:No, in fact we can’t. We assume it based on our perceptions. I am certain that you are not so naive as to be ignorant of one sided loves, mispercieved loves, and other phenomenon in the emotional realm that are the material of drama. There is only one thing, in fact, that a human can know. all the rest is assumption based on accepted premises and relative values. How could it be otherwise? There are far subtler versions of the blind men and the elephant than the teaching tale.
Unfortunately, this bit of information is left in the realm of ignorance until such time as one experiences what it is to be awake with no awareness of anything other than their identity. When it is known as a fact of existence that all thinking as we experience it is a veneer over that state, we are neither mature nor full aware of a fundamental fact about the human mind and it’s unfortunate sense of identity dependent on circumstances. Herein lies the root need of the kind of poverty that is misunderstood in vows, etc.
And only the esoteric departments or factions of the main line religions even begin to take this line of practice seriously. Wasn’t it Avila’s remarkable works that almost succumbed to the tender ministrations of the Inquisition? For my part, I don’t believe that Saints who had actual realizations in this area dared to, or perhaps in kindness refrained form, direct exposition of their discoveries, though there appear to be a few exceptions.
It seems that you presuppose only “love,” i.e., that love between two people unrelated by blood. The two examples I gave have to do only with “blood.” As a father, I know me and I know that my children can know that I love them. ("One-sided love, in this arena, is more than likely, a mental disorder.)
So, my kids know that I love them and I know that I love them. Where is the assumption in this scenario? (BTW, I know that they love me.) It can’t have anything to do with that which one does for the other. Because, as you noted, even a one-sided “love” can be very, very deceitful.
Yet, my kids are not inside my head. Therefore, they can never have the absoluteness of my love. However, they trust. Isn’t that what we do? Do we not trust that all of this is real?
God bless,
jd