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Dennis, totally agree with you here. We can have a banner outside, an announcement before mass, a banner on the entrance/exit doors, a notice in the bulletin, a special announcement after communion by our pastor and someone will always say, “I never heard about that!” However, I have to believe that some if not a good portion of the people that regularly attend mass will hear or see it, whatever it is. We need to start somewhere and try, and not forget about it just because we know that some will not get it anyway. The C & E Catholics that call are corrected as I mentioned by me asking the staff members to say that, “we do not have a midnight mass, but a mass during the night.” Also, I make sure that our night time phone system and web site uses the correct terminology. Hopefully, over time, they will get it. I try, now to get the staff to understand! The people didn’t get the the new RM3 at first, but now it’s familiar; well, to the regulars anyway. You know darn well, that some will say after Christmas mass, “when did they change the responses?” I remember last year at our Christmas masses, their was a distinct stereo effect of the old and new, “And with your Spirit,” combined with “And also with you.”It is more basic than this. You can have a priest or parish do EVERYTHING you suggest and there will be people who do not pay attention, period.
Also, remember that most of the calls to a parish office are from people who probably do not attend regularly so they would not have heard the catechesis. And if you’re calling for a time, they all they want to hear what time Mass is, not what it is called. If I call to find out what time the movie starts, I really don’t give a hoot whether you call it a movie, a film, a cinema masterpiece, or visual expression.
I am a college professor. I have dates on my syllabus, my course website, I announce deadlines in class, we send email reminders but there will always be a segment of students who are “surprised” by a test, paper due, etc. That’s life.
I worked in business for over two decades and despite memos, announcements, and one on one conversation there were always people who asked when and where the meeting is. That’s life.
It is obvious this bothers you, but all you’re doing is giving yourself a headache. Face it, the Catholic Church could pick up each one of these people in a car and drive them to church and they would still manage to get it wrong!
Bless their heart, they did not get the common sense gene