As a man, in general, my advice is that morally speaking and intellectually speaking, in my humble opinion, a woman (a future bride of a catholic marriage) has to be or to try to be
in favor of natural moral law of human nature, of the marriage, of the marital act and of the family. Thus, in the marriage,
the woman should to try to be the " New Eve of her Man " and the " Saint Mary Magdalena of her husband ":
the Female, the Fiancée, the Bride, the Sweetheart, the Love, the Mistress, the Lover, the Beloved, the Muse, the Friend, the Best-friend, the Girlfriend, the Helper, the Soul-Mate, the Companion, the Partner, the Associate, the Wife and the Potential Mother, the Educator, the Teacher, the Professor, the Thinker, the Philosopher, the Schoolgirl, the Pupil, the Student, the Follower, the Female Opposite Number, the Alterity, the Complementarity, the Princess, the Queen, the Doctress, the Nurse,
the Guide of her Husband and the Person who reveals in him, his part of feminity and helps his masculinity.
And
The female has to understand the normal sexuality of her male: wife is the schoolgirl of the sexuality of her husband; wife is the student of the sexuality of her husband, wife is the teacher of the sexuality of her husband, she is also the professor of the sexuality of her husband, and then she is the nurse, the doctress and love’s master of the sexuality of her husband.
She needs to agree with the natural rules of marriage. Thus, she should be, morally speaking and intellectually speaking, I mean in doctrine,
against:
- the theory of gender, the theory of homosexualism, the feminism radical, the jansenism, the neo-jansenism, the puritanism, the neo-puritanism, the victorianism, the neo-victorianism, the moralism, the rigorism, the quiestism, the fideism, the theoretical providentialism, the quiverfull movements, the absolute procreationsim, **the primary anti-personalism, the primary anti-phenomenologism, the philosophical absurdism of the conjugal sexual morality, the theological absurdism of the conjugal sexual morality: only the natural moral law that is explained by the Church, not more not less. **
- the communism, the socialism, the marxism and his friends, the clanism, the collectivism, the nazism, the fascism.
In fact, she should be agreed with, morally speaking and intellectually speaking, the fight against** the heresies and ideologies going against the human nature. **It is very simple. About the praxis, it is different. Each one is sinner, each one can to be touched by the weakness.
I know that my approach is very doctrinal and theoritical, but it is very important for the life of couple (all dimensions), for the life of family, for the education of children, for the spiritual life…etc.
