Alone and possibly pregnant

[Augusta1990]

Hi everyone. GREAT news – I finally called my mom today in a state of severe emotional stress before I had even taken a pregnancy test. She talked me through the whole thing and told me she loved me either way. Also, I’m NOT pregnant; I even started my period today. I’m going to confession tomorrow at the earliest time I can. Thanks SO much to everyone who replied – I needed this push to get me to do the right thing. :grouphug:

Laudate Dominum! And good luck tomorrow!

 

[Contra_Mundum_1]

That’s wonderful, I’m so happy for you.

Sometimes situations like these serve as a wakeup call. best of luck and God bless.

 

[maryjk]

Hi everyone. GREAT news – I finally called my mom today in a state of severe emotional stress before I had even taken a pregnancy test. She talked me through the whole thing and told me she loved me either way. Also, I’m NOT pregnant; I even started my period today. I’m going to confession tomorrow at the earliest time I can. Thanks SO much to everyone who replied – I needed this push to get me to do the right thing. :grouphug:

I am so glad you have the support of your parents.

( Praying, for all of my talk, I will respond the same way your mother did, if ever my son comes to me with his girlfriend in a similar situation.)

 

[TheRealJuliane]

I am so glad you have the support of your parents.

( Praying, for all of my talk, I will respond the same way your mother did, if ever my son comes to me with his girlfriend in a similar situation.)

You would, of course you would. You’d be sad, in some ways, and concerned, but you’d still love him and want the best for your grandchild. It’s just what good parents have to do in situations they didn’t think they’d be in.

 

[dedo]

You would, of course you would. You’d be sad, in some ways, and concerned, but you’d still love him and want the best for your grandchild. It’s just what good parents have to do in situations they didn’t think they’d be in.

Strong post in a beautiful thread.

 

[FriendlyFace]

Megan. But don’t be afraid. God loves you and He wants to forgive you. Just remember how David trusted in God’s judgement and wasn’t disappointed. God is far more merciful than any human being, and he’s very quick to forgive someone who repents and turns back to him. It’s clear that you are very sorry about this. If you go to confession, you’ll feel a lot better, as others have said. But don’t be afraid. The Devil likes nothing better than when we’re discouraged, but the truth is that your life isn’t over. With God’s help you can turn things around and move forward. You aren’t alone. I will keep you in my prayers.

God bless.

 

[Serap]

I’m happy for you! This was a wake up call eh?

 

[Em_in_FL]

Hi everyone. GREAT news – I finally called my mom today in a state of severe emotional stress before I had even taken a pregnancy test. She talked me through the whole thing and told me she loved me either way. Also, I’m NOT pregnant; I even started my period today. I’m going to confession tomorrow at the earliest time I can. Thanks SO much to everyone who replied – I needed this push to get me to do the right thing. :grouphug:

Thanks be to God! Definitely a wake-up call in life… they’re good sometimes.

Now the hard part… to move on and move forward. You can do it!

 

[CatholicRaven]

Megan, I’m so happy for you! God bless your parents, too!

 

[Chantal25]

Hi everyone. GREAT news – I finally called my mom today in a state of severe emotional stress before I had even taken a pregnancy test. She talked me through the whole thing and told me she loved me either way. Also, I’m NOT pregnant; I even started my period today. I’m going to confession tomorrow at the earliest time I can. Thanks SO much to everyone who replied – I needed this push to get me to do the right thing. :grouphug:

I am so happy for you. I have no doubt that your guardian angel is dancing and Jesus is celebrating.

You are loved beyond word!

Blessings to you!

 

[R_C]

Hi everyone. GREAT news – I finally called my mom today in a state of severe emotional stress before I had even taken a pregnancy test. She talked me through the whole thing and told me she loved me either way. Also, I’m NOT pregnant; I even started my period today. I’m going to confession tomorrow at the earliest time I can. Thanks SO much to everyone who replied – I needed this push to get me to do the right thing. :grouphug:

We love you :hug1: You are very blessed, please do pray for us.

 

[HolyRosaryChild]

Hi Megan, there is never a need to feel alone as Our Lady Mary Mother of Jesus and Jesus are right there alongside of you as you are Baptised.

Further to Julianne’s advice, I wish to add the purchase of Rosary Beads then for those to be Blessed by your Local Priest when you attend Reconciliation/Confession. These can be purchased at the Catholic Bookshop or Christian Bookshop in your region; thereafter commence opening up your Heart to Our Lady Mother Mary for Her Most Holy Divine Loving Wisdom and Guidance.

Be open and honest with your Parents if pregnant, in order for your health and the Baby’s health to be taken care of straight away. Do NOT become depressed about having a Baby (any Child is God’s most Loving, unique, special GIFT He can give any Woman throughout their Life) and if you are expecting, it is God, The Holy Spirit and Jesus’ Blessing to you and your Family.

If not pregnant, it is always the best concept to become firm friends for at least 6 - 12 months before sleeping together and by that time, hopefully engaged to be Married. (Other physical relations without fully having sexual intercourse). If the guy loves you, he will wait!

I have witnessed the surprise births of so many young people (single and married) and the most wonderful Christian teachings a Baby/Child has brought into so many families and extended families. Have a chat to your boyfriend and put out some possible scenarios for your future together regardless of whether you are pregnant or not ie (a) Christian Marriage Preparation with a Priest, (b) Faith and Marriage, (c) How and where you would live as a Family, (d) ways in raising your child together and so forth. If your boyfriend takes off after the chat; he is not right for you Megan.

If this fellow is fine to engage in sexual relations in his twenties as a young man, then in my opinion, you should be communicating with him about the consequences of pregnancy risks, Faith, Religion and Marriage, giving birth, raising your child, financially supporting your child/home base/bill paying/child raising costs and the list progresses.

There are dozens of Christian organisations in each Country supporting single people with pregnancies, and if you are expecting, do not hesitate to contact them Megan.

Love and best wishes.

 

[pollylodges]

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

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Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

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For Help in Trials

Most holy apostle St. Jude, faithful servant and friend of Jesus, the name of the traitor who delivered your beloved Master into the hands of His enemies has caused you to be forgotten by many. But the Church honors and invokes you universally as the patron of hopeless cases–of things despaired of. Pray for me who feels so hopeless. Make use, I implore you, of that particular privilege accorded to you of bringing visible and speedy help where help is almost despaired of. Come to my assistance in this great need, that I may receive the consolations and succor of heaven in all my necessities, tribulations and sufferings, in particular (megan0913), and that I may bless God with you and all the elect throughout eternity. I promise you, O Blessed St. Jude, to be ever mindful of this great favor, and I will never cease to honor you as my special and powerful patron, and to do all in my power to encourage devotion to you.

Amen.

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