If by “ok” you mean valid, then sure thats true. But if we’re talking practical effects on faith and spirituality, for some of us its just plain not ok. We go when we need to, like holydays of obligation during the week. But the hip-swinging, or loud drums, or cheesy sermons full of foot ball jokes or stories about puppies, or any host of other wonderful products of the new springtime make it almost unbearable. Thats not even mentioning the almost total lack of reference to sacrifice and over emphasis on meal and fellowship, the anthropocentrism, the disrespect shown to our Lord in the Eucharist, the yapping before and after while we try to pray, or the immodestly dressed lectors, the use of lay ministers of communion despite the fact that the church’s explicit guidelines on conditions under which they may be used are never met and on and on and on. Anyway, I’ll stop as I don’t want to derail the thread, but my point is, for those of us who are aware of the actual differences between the two forms (both the order of mass and the cultural “additions”) and who have rejected the “new springtime fever” as I call it and have become part of the growing minority of “crazy, unreasonable trads”, it simply isn’t “ok” if at all avoidable and its certainly worth the trouble to avoid it.
Besides, a 2 hour road trip is simply more time to listen to all those Michael Davies talks from
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