Heart to heart discussions can be very intimate. Discuss to discover what your mate thinks and feels about a subject like their faith.
In addition your wife seems to be lacking knowledge on NFP. It is a very effective method so she has pick up some false information from somewhere. A good Catholic OB/GYN should be able to give her the facts.
Good luck.
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