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Armor_of_Light
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Hello all- I want to greet you as my ‘brothers and sisters in Christ’ but will hold off until you tell me it is OK to do so. 
I’m a normal church-going parish guy, weekly adoration time, rosary, plenty of good books on the shelf (some read-some not yet) 46 years old. Soon to be 4 kids. Saints names for them of course. Crucifix in every room. No holy water font yet…waiting for a new home to do that. Love Fulton J. Sheen, and wish there were more like him.
My question started a few years ago when all of a sudden I noticed (…I know…) how we were calling Father a ‘presider’ instead of a ‘celebrant’. I questioned the parish, did some research, etc… Then all the other things started to bug me, like the hand holding, ‘affirming’ of visitors, birthdays, teen groups, etc… All the wasted energy on things like video presentations and endless announcements and 25 prayers of the faithful.12 lay ministers. All taking our minds away from why we are there. I’m sure y’all know what I’m talking about. I’m trying to decide if it is a false sense of ‘pride of intellect’ that makes me bothered by all this, or if it is something deeper, and I SHOULD be bothered by it.
Anyway, to my questions for you:
I’m a normal church-going parish guy, weekly adoration time, rosary, plenty of good books on the shelf (some read-some not yet) 46 years old. Soon to be 4 kids. Saints names for them of course. Crucifix in every room. No holy water font yet…waiting for a new home to do that. Love Fulton J. Sheen, and wish there were more like him.
My question started a few years ago when all of a sudden I noticed (…I know…) how we were calling Father a ‘presider’ instead of a ‘celebrant’. I questioned the parish, did some research, etc… Then all the other things started to bug me, like the hand holding, ‘affirming’ of visitors, birthdays, teen groups, etc… All the wasted energy on things like video presentations and endless announcements and 25 prayers of the faithful.12 lay ministers. All taking our minds away from why we are there. I’m sure y’all know what I’m talking about. I’m trying to decide if it is a false sense of ‘pride of intellect’ that makes me bothered by all this, or if it is something deeper, and I SHOULD be bothered by it.
Anyway, to my questions for you:
- I don’t know Latin and have never been to a Latin mass. Would I be lost or would I be at home? Would you forgive my ignorance? Would you understand that my little ones would most likely not sit still? I love the idea of traditional catholics uniting for the mass but am intimidated by you. We have Latin mass about an hour away.
- We do have a pope, right? I did spend a little time on ‘Fisheaters.com’ but I do not have the time (right now) to go all the way through it. I’m a little wary if ‘traditional’ means rejecting the current papacy and councils that took place in my lifetime. Please explain.
- I was under the impression that SSPX is not good. They are not in communion with the church. Their priests are not priests. They are split away from the church. Is this correct?
- I love the CCC and I hope you do, too. Do you find error in it?