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My wife and I have been together some 7 years this July. We have 3 children ages 6, 5, and 2. We are also going threw some rough times in our marrage now. Lack of money casses lots of stress. ![Frowning face with open mouth :frowning: đŚ](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f626.png)
The 14th is my wifes 30 birthday. We are cellabrating this tomorrow at her parents house along with my oldest girls 5th birthday. She turns 5 on the friday. The plain was for us to get up at 8am so as to make it on time for 930am mass w/ here famly. We will spend the day there.
Last night ( the 12th ), my wife asked if she could go out with her friend Ammy. Ammy is a nice lady but is unmarred and she is not a Catholic or a christion. Just a nice lady of (28??) who my wife went to HS with and has been friends for a long time. Althow I just came back from my six day of work I said ok. Like I say we are poor I have no gift to give my wife so I can at lest wach the kids while she gos and has fun.
Now she left a 6pm (??) to meet with Ammy too go see morrtercross races. She got home after 300am. My day normaly starts at 200am. So I was up. Althow I was not worred for her safety I was upset. My wife loves to sleep in whin she can and hates to get up. So I thought it kinda dumb for her to do this to herself. So I did not greet my wife witha smile or ask did you have fun whin she got back.
I was more "like a woman " as my wife would say and gave her a cold sholder whin she got in.
Now my wife tells me she called and lift a missage. That she and some friends of Ammys went out after the racetrack. The friends are more Ammyâs. Mostly ladyes with their boyfriends/husbands < not shure > . Thay went out to a small bar which my wife says is more like a pub. You know not a hot pickup point. More older folks ect. Ammy wishing my wife well, got her drunk. ( My wifes words). so she would dance and have fun. If she was late it was because she and Ammy had to sober up.
Now my wife thinks I have no right to be upset. I told her that I think that what she did was inappropriate for a married person to do. To go to a bar
To got dunk at that bar as a wife of three⌠:tsktsk: .
So am I beeing a killjoy for being upset with my wife?![Confused :confused: :confused:](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f615.png)
![Frowning face with open mouth :frowning: đŚ](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f626.png)
The 14th is my wifes 30 birthday. We are cellabrating this tomorrow at her parents house along with my oldest girls 5th birthday. She turns 5 on the friday. The plain was for us to get up at 8am so as to make it on time for 930am mass w/ here famly. We will spend the day there.
Last night ( the 12th ), my wife asked if she could go out with her friend Ammy. Ammy is a nice lady but is unmarred and she is not a Catholic or a christion. Just a nice lady of (28??) who my wife went to HS with and has been friends for a long time. Althow I just came back from my six day of work I said ok. Like I say we are poor I have no gift to give my wife so I can at lest wach the kids while she gos and has fun.
Now she left a 6pm (??) to meet with Ammy too go see morrtercross races. She got home after 300am. My day normaly starts at 200am. So I was up. Althow I was not worred for her safety I was upset. My wife loves to sleep in whin she can and hates to get up. So I thought it kinda dumb for her to do this to herself. So I did not greet my wife witha smile or ask did you have fun whin she got back.
![Frowning face with open mouth :frowning: đŚ](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f626.png)
Now my wife tells me she called and lift a missage. That she and some friends of Ammys went out after the racetrack. The friends are more Ammyâs. Mostly ladyes with their boyfriends/husbands < not shure > . Thay went out to a small bar which my wife says is more like a pub. You know not a hot pickup point. More older folks ect. Ammy wishing my wife well, got her drunk. ( My wifes words). so she would dance and have fun. If she was late it was because she and Ammy had to sober up.
Now my wife thinks I have no right to be upset. I told her that I think that what she did was inappropriate for a married person to do. To go to a bar
![Confused :hmmm: :hmmm:](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f615.png)
So am I beeing a killjoy for being upset with my wife?
![Confused :confused: :confused:](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f615.png)