Am I lustful if i see photos where the girl I like is wearing a bikini?

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and I become excited
just because I see her womb… there where one day she could shelter my children (I dream)
just because I see her pretty nabel
and because I see how glad she could be because she is a WOMAN so beautiful… I am really glad since there is someone like her at the Universe…
and I think this - that she must be glad being a girl like she is, because I see - not obsessively, but actually, her female parts of the body

is it a sin?

the last thing I could not do
but I love do the other things
see her womb
see her nabel

i don’t know if that girl likes the fact of me seeing those photos, they are on a photo album which a friend hers has in the public apps of their facebook

I want care her most than any other thing
 
Yalibeth said:
and I become excited
just because I see her womb… there where one day she could shelter my children (I dream)
just because I see her pretty nabel
and because I see how glad she could be because she is a WOMAN so beautiful… I am really glad since there is someone like her at the Universe…
and I think this - that she must be glad being a girl like she is, because I see - not obsessively, but actually, her female parts of the body

is it a sin?

the last thing I could not do
but I love do the other things
see her womb
see her nabel

i don’t know if that girl likes the fact of me seeing those photos, they are on a photo album which a friend hers has in the public apps of their facebook

I want care her most than any other thing
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I wouldn’t say it’s a sin, though I’m a bit divided on your intentions. Do you mean to say you look at the photos in order to become excited? I would certainly encourage against this practice cause it could be considered leading into an occasion of sin and an immoral appetite for the female body. I suppose since there is no “action” in which you could consent to, then it can’t be considered sinful. However, I reiterate what I said before. I discourage you doing this. It wont lead to anything decent. Not to mention, you doing this encourages the indecency that is rampant on FaceBook, young ladies putting photos there that could lead to scandal.

So no, what you are doing isn’t sinful (though I may be wrong). Though, I find this part slightly disturbing: “I see her womb… there where one day she could shelter my children”
 
You can see her womb? Is she wearing the bikini on a surgical table? :confused:
 
I don’t know if it is lustful of you but I would discourage you intentionally seeking out provocative photos of a potential wife.

Honestly, the way you describe her in the pictures is definitely unnerving.
  1. The womb is on the inside. So unless she is Susan Storm, you probably can’t see it.
  2. The belly button is called the navel and not the nabel.
Quit looking at pictures of scantily clad women.
 
In defense of the OP, I don’t think English is his/her native language (thus the “womb” reference.)🙂

OP, whether or not you are being lustful depends on how you are thinking of the girl you see. If you learn the difference between sexual arousal and lust, it should answer your question. It is not only normal to become sexually aroused at a scantily-clad person, it is a very necessary human reaction (otherwise we’d have no impetus to mate and reproduce). You should not feel guilty over this. Experiencing a feeling of lust (which usually involves selfish and/or demeaning ideas toward that person) can *also *be natural (we can’t control what pops up in our minds), but these thoughts which reduce a person to a mere object should be redirected.
 
Yalibeth said:
and I become excited
just because I see her womb… there where one day she could shelter my children (I dream)
just because I see her pretty nabel
and because I see how glad she could be because she is a WOMAN so beautiful… I am really glad since there is someone like her at the Universe…
and I think this - that she must be glad being a girl like she is, because I see - not obsessively, but actually, her female parts of the body

is it a sin?

the last thing I could not do
but I love do the other things
see her womb
see her nabel

i don’t know if that girl likes the fact of me seeing those photos, they are on a photo album which a friend hers has in the public apps of their facebook

I want care her most than any other thing
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Brother, you sound like a mind gamer. That doesn’t lead to authentic holiness. We Catholics ought to be black and white and not somewhere in the middle. If you are not sure it is a sin, it is a sin.

I once watched an abortion video and disgusted myself from my own sinfulness in the past. It removed my impure thought.
 
Bellybuttons turn you on?

Seeing her womb gets you excited?

I’m sorry, but is her uterus on the outside of her body?

Is this guy joking?
 
PumpkinSeed said:
Bellybuttons turn you on?

Seeing her womb gets you excited?

I’m sorry, but is her uterus on the outside of her body?

Is this guy joking?
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kmuestwin said:
I don’t know if it is lustful of you but I would discourage you intentionally seeking out provocative photos of a potential wife.

Honestly, the way you describe her in the pictures is definitely unnerving.
  1. The womb is on the inside. So unless she is Susan Storm, you probably can’t see it.
  2. The belly button is called the navel and not the nabel.
Quit looking at pictures of scantily clad women.
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Lochias said:
You can see her womb? Is she wearing the bikini on a surgical table? :confused:
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Hilarious 👍
 
Here, lets make this easier.

You see a picture of an attractive woman and think “Wow she’s attractive.” Not sinful.

You continue to look at it and think “Wow look at the curve of her hips; see how flat and taught her stomach is; I like how he hair drapes over her chest.” (etc). Now you are venturing into the realm of lust. Focusing on her physical attributes is where you start to treat her as an object of lust and desire. Since this person is not your wife, fantasizing about where she might carry your child is inappropriate at the least.

Objectifying another person is always sinful.

-Dustin
 
Yalibeth said:
and I become excited
just because I see her womb… there where one day she could shelter my children (I dream)
just because I see her pretty nabel
and because I see how glad she could be because she is a WOMAN so beautiful… I am really glad since there is someone like her at the Universe…
and I think this - that she must be glad being a girl like she is, because I see - not obsessively, but actually, her female parts of the body

is it a sin?

the last thing I could not do
but I love do the other things
see her womb
see her nabel

i don’t know if that girl likes the fact of me seeing those photos, they are on a photo album which a friend hers has in the public apps of their facebook

I want care her most than any other thing
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From what I understand, lust is about an excessive obsession with sex for its own sake. Even in marriage, this is not acceptable.

Now, if you happen to see these pictures, and they inspire in you this kind of feeling, it would be a sin to intentionally see them again.

On the other hand, there is a difference between -lusting after someone- (sexual obsession,) and merely being -attracted- to someone (liking the way a person looks.) One is a sin and the other is not.

The last thing that I would consider with regards to this has nothing to do with lust, but rather, with sin in general. If the pictures that you’re looking at contain any serious nudity or otherwise attempt to separate sex from the marital act, even in your mind, they are pornography, and should not be looked at for any reason.
 
Hahaha

It is not necessary to make a scandal because I referred to her “womb”. I meant–> her belly.🙂 So it has sense that I like too her belly button or whatever is its name…
Since the womb is hidden behind the belly I constructed a poetic thought.
I don’t know if I desire to see the photos in order to obtain excitement. I do know that I am flatly anti-pornographic. I could swear by my heart that if I no married her I would become priest—> but don’t take seriously this last thing because God is certainly not a bride to pursuit after the Lady is gone
It is so I fantasize imagining that my children could be warm at her womb, someday…
The past days I saw naked bodies doing a search on Google (of an actress) an I died one time more because I die each day I see a naked body because I want to give my whole loving life to her.

I would underwrite that I am a mind-gamer but this I because i have no contact with noone. I have not exterior life and I want to give my life to a girl so tender like she is

She is not the kind of woman that dress scantily-clad. She is jewish she is a Conservative jewess but I think that she is deeply sensitive to the religious—> she would underwrite the orthodox elemments— for example the modesty (how Orthodox jewish women dress you know) There are photos where she is possing like a liwevire woman yes but I don’t like those I like the times when she let run her insecurity

I should’nt have a problem if I can’t see her I hope this is not a material attraction— a chemical attraction I can survive if I don’t have her scent in my body but always when I can see her I just feel that Israelites should have felt after seeing the mana flowing from the desert—> my heart is just sand

I don’t want to have a pornographic attraction to her
I don’t want imagine her nude nor having sex with me—> but I like see the way how her breasts are formed on her trunk
I know (I don’t like it but I knot it) the fact that maybe I won’t marry her so I don’t want have naked thought on me of another woman more than that woman who is the appropiate for me

I just want be pervaved towards her in the same manner how Neolithic men adored those sculptures of women with large bellies
I want be warm at their heart
that is all
—> I know this could be opposite to the male heroism that God demands on us. To Him i must give the flesh of my heart if he ask for that

just listen me and write me
thanks 🙂
 
fred_conty said:
Get a life.
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Be respectful. So you think that yours is a perfect life? Properties for nothing… are you a saint?

To the OP: Don’t care. Confront your heart. It is better than believe than one is an angel, like many people (and many pharisaic catholics like the previous poster) think.
 
Archedreamer said:
Be respectful. So you think that yours is a perfect life? Properties for nothing… are you a saint?

To the OP: Don’t care. Confront your heart. It is better than believe than one is an angel, like many people (and many pharisaic catholics like the previous poster) think.
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I believe he said that because he thinks the OP is a troll.
 
To the OP. All the love of the body and such must be secondary to the love of the person. A great book to read is: *** Love and Responsibility - Bl.John Paul II - A Simplified Version by Monsignor Vincent M. Walsh, J.C.D.***. Also, you must be aware of the difficulty of pursuing a relationship with a woman who is of a different faith. It is possible but there are many obstacles. A good idea may be to talk to a priest.
 
Sorry I am not a troll just a disaster person.

I am going to pursuit achieve that book. I don’t care noooothing about her physical parts that appeal to erotism. I do love toooo much the sad expression on her eyes and how pale is her skin and how sweet her curly hair draws bents. I love her Alpine shape. She is Ashkenazi. I do love this because though I am catholic now my begginings were protestant. I love the depiction of her body made of naivete. I don’t love the weight that carries the volume of the flesh of her body I love her style which of course takes material presence in this world. Further she is really sweet - so I have said that she should tend to Orthodox Judaism if she could. She has things that I don’t like there are fields of their life where she seems to be ready to go before the World - she says she is a front person with her very friends and I would be afraid of debate with her. The other things make she perfect for me. I just want a peasant girl embrassed among my arms.

I love just her body? What do you think?
 
Lost_Sheep said:
You’re kidding, right? I can’t even lust after my own wife??
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I think it was wmeant that you mustn’t make her an object. Lust is still a sin, even in marriage. There is a strong and clear difference between healthy sexual desire and lust. Lust controls your mind and eats away at it likan addiction. Heathy sexual desires are natural and founded in God.

And Yalibeth, why do you want a peasant girl? :confused:
 
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