Am I still Catholic if I don't always agree with the church?

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If the Church leaders didn’t realistically embrace the reality of diversity in this way, they’d have to close all the parishes, as there wouldn’t be enough folks left to pay the light bills.
It’s a miracle that the Church ever got off the ground. It’s founder died a lonely and cruel death without building a single building. His first followers had similar outcomes. How did the Church continue, with it’s seemingly foolish rejection of human success?
 
Thanks for the answers. I must confess that the reason I asked this question is my family is Catholic, and they said I can do anything but move to another religion. I don’t want to break their hearts or get in a fight with them.

It’s wasn’t because I hate the church, in fact I admire them and follow their sacraments(I believe in the Eucharist too). I just had a lot of questions about salvation according the Bible so I do plenty of research that lead me to answers conflicting with a few things in traditional Catholicism.
Would you mind if I suggest that overdoing it with research can easily become counterproductive?
It may sound simplistic and not very analytical,but an excess of whatever,is excess.
And excessive research can lead to getting tangled up.
One of the beauties of our Church is that Saints have contibuted to what we know today.
What if you tried “cruising” for a while,praying and serving? It worked for me,IMHO…
God bless you,member Jed 🙂
 
That’s a bit cynical, don’t you think? The Church in no way caters to people with differing views just to get their money and keep the doors open. It does cater to anyone who has an interest in following Christ, even those as yet not fully accepting of all the Church’s teachings. The hope is that sitting in the pews they will come to know and embrace the truth.

I have not met anyone in my present parish who has expressed a view contrary to Church teaching, and I know a lot of people, but it could be I am just traveling in the right circles. In my last parish, I did meet parishioners who held contrary views.
Consider the source. I have seen a couple of these posters come onto threads and start attacking either the Church or faith in general - and thankfully, their trolling is seen for what it is and reported to the mods. 👍 Unfortunately they can subvert a thread almost before anyone realizes it, and all the focus is lost. 😦
 
It’s a miracle that the Church ever got off the ground. It’s founder died a lonely and cruel death without building a single building. His first followers had similar outcomes. How did the Church continue, with it’s seemingly foolish rejection of human success?
Indeed, everything about the Church and its founder is miraculous. You might call it the proof of Christianity by all the happenstances that have contributed to its unlikely formation and continued existence. :newidea:
 
Consider the source. I have seen a couple of these posters come onto threads and start attacking either the Church or faith in general - and thankfully, their trolling is seen for what it is and reported to the mods. 👍 Unfortunately they can subvert a thread almost before anyone realizes it, and all the focus is lost. 😦
I don’t mean to sound snarky or intrusive, but it seems unnecessarily uncharitable to describe a fellow poster as “trolling.” Though his or her ideas might not be popular here, the poster you’re referring to seems to be genuine rather than someone who’s needling others just for the sake of doing so.
 
I don’t mean to sound snarky or intrusive, but it seems unnecessarily uncharitable to describe a fellow poster as “trolling.” Though his or her ideas might not be popular here, the poster you’re referring to seems to be genuine rather than someone who’s needling others just for the sake of doing so.
Sorry, I meant to say that the mods decide that and the person is sanctioned. And I just realized this is a forum I shouldn’t be posting in so

👋:choocho:

I’m out!
 
Sorry, I meant to say that the mods decide that and the person is sanctioned. And I just realized this is a forum I shouldn’t be posting in so

👋:choocho:

I’m out!
Got it. And… 😦 I actually *look *for your posts in Catholic Living threads! 🙂
 
I don’t mean to sound snarky or intrusive, but it seems unnecessarily uncharitable to describe a fellow poster as “trolling.” Though his or her ideas might not be popular here, the poster you’re referring to seems to be genuine rather than someone who’s needling others just for the sake of doing so.
It’s a judgment call. Those, not me, who have been on here a long time have a keener insight into this than I do. After a while you can probably spot them a mile off. I am not saying the post you are referring to is such a case. I am just saying I give longtime members more leeway.
 
This is just a guess on my part but I’m doubtful there was as much obsession with identifying true Catholics before Vatican II. Now there seems to be panic over how Catholicism is defined. At least here in the U.S.
Yes, a guess on your part. And a wrong guess. Before V2, it wasn’t a concern about “identifying Catholics” because Catholics themselves identified whether they were or were not in communion with Catholic teaching. They excused themselves from official practice if they were not. There was no Entitlement mentality to re-define doctrine for oneself, by virtue of some “membership card,” not to mention selecting which doctrine was or was not comfortable to adhere to, because the Magisterium, not the individual, was recognized as the Central Authority.

The concern is not the membership card. The concern is the what is espoused. If the pronouncement does not conform to authentic Catholic teaching, the statement is not a Catholic statement, even if the Pope officiated at that Baptism. Yet modernist Catholics declare autonomously the privilege to identify “what” is Catholic, based on who is Catholic. There’s too often a chasm between the two, a chasm which in the not-too-distant past, was virtually closed.

Have a nice day.
 
… is one of the perennial stumbling blocks for Protestants with regards to Catholic teaching.
And some of us (me) crashed toes into that stumbling block enough that we actually began to find out the Catholic doctrine for it.

I found it amazing that Catholics actually wrote about their beliefs and doctrine In plain language citing scripture as well as Holy Tradition (which, btw, was another stumbling block to break my toes against).

Thanks be to God for those stumbling blocks! I feel like I hit all of them.

Had I looked into the Catholic sources earlier, I might have gone through RCIA sooner… 🤷
 
Yes, a guess on your part. And a wrong guess. Before V2, it wasn’t a concern about “identifying Catholics” because Catholics themselves identified whether they were or were not in communion with Catholic teaching. They excused themselves from official practice if they were not. There was no Entitlement mentality to re-define doctrine for oneself, by virtue of some “membership card,” not to mention selecting which doctrine was or was not comfortable to adhere to, because the Magisterium, not the individual, was recognized as the Central Authority.

The concern is not the membership card. The concern is the what is espoused. If the pronouncement does not conform to authentic Catholic teaching, the statement is not a Catholic statement, even if the Pope officiated at that Baptism. Yet modernist Catholics declare autonomously the privilege to identify “what” is Catholic, based on who is Catholic. There’s too often a chasm between the two, a chasm which in the not-too-distant past, was virtually closed.

Have a nice day.
Before the 60’s we had practicing Catholics and non-practicing Catholics. From the 60’s on we began to have a split in practicing Catholics between those who observed all the teachings and rules of the Church and those who observed those teachings and rules they thought were correct. So, as you said, many proclaimed to be practicing Catholics who in former days would have been counted as non-practicing Catholics. For the first time perhaps in the history of the Church, large numbers began to place their personal beliefs (some called it conscience) above Church teachings, and claimed communion with Christ in so doing. IOW, they and Christ were correct, the Church was incorrect. Well, there goes 2,000 years of teaching out the window! But not to worry. The Vatican did not surrender as some felt it would have to. Instead, it kept a copy of all its teachings in spite of countless warnings that they were outdated and could not survive the modern world. Today, large segments of the Catholic community may be on the verge of breaking away, or if the Spirit has its way, reverting back to Catholic doctrine. Those are the only two possibilities there have ever been. So-called practicing Catholics who reject some of Catholic teaching are already de facto outside the Church. It is now, and always was, an all or nothing proposition. You can’t have marriage and fool around a little on the side all the while claiming fidelity. If you don’t believe me, ask your spouse. The Church is not an open marriage. Fooling around is a grave matter, despite so many Catholics taking it lightly.
 
I am sorry, but I think I must have misunderstood you. The books of the bible were written before the Church existed, so how could the Church have written the bible?
The Old Testament was written before Jesus Christ, obviously.

Didn’t the Church, Catholic, begin with Peter, and the New Testament was written after the Resurrection and Ascension?

Christina
Still learning…
 
I have the same problem. :confused:

For the Jews require a sign, and the Greeks seek after wisdom: But we preach Christ crucified, to the Jews a stumbling block, and to the Greeks foolishness; But to them which are called, both Jews and Greeks, Christ the power of God, and the wisdom of God. 1 Corinthians 1:23

I sometimes feel like you do. I get fed up with all the rituals and I just want to be alone with Jesus. I sometimes don’t want to be around other Catholics because most of the time we are just pating our selves on the back and sucking up to our preist.

Also at times I begin to lapse and listen to all of the bible bashers with their very inteligent arguments and I wish that I wasn’t a Catholic so that I could belive whole heartedly like them in the “Once saved always saved” position. But that always leads me down the plug hole.

What’s worse is that there is no happy medium. You can’t be nice to your family and freinds just because they are Catholic and you can’t rock the boat by pointing out to them that the bible doesn’t say what The Church says. It’s a real problem! And quite franckly I don’t know what the answer is.

But if I was to hazard a guess I’d say that its about Luke 9:20
“But what about you?” he asked. “Who do you say I am?” Peter answered, “God’s Messiah.”

Note that Peter does not say “The Messiah” which is a meaningless term by itself, but he explains to us and the other apostles his revelation by pointing out that there is a one-to-one relationship between Jesus and the Father, He is the Messiah of God. It’s almost as if Peter is saying you are the right hand of God.

I guess that my point is that it doesn’t ever get any easier than this. There will never be a point in your life here on earth where you shall be able to say, “Right! Now that I know everything it will all be and easy ride from now on.” Because there will always be another hill to climb. This is a big one but it does have a sumit. So just focus on getting there and prepare for the shock when you do.
 
Yes, a guess on your part. And a wrong guess. Before V2, it wasn’t a concern about “identifying Catholics” because Catholics themselves identified whether they were or were not in communion with Catholic teaching. They excused themselves from official practice if they were not. There was no Entitlement mentality to re-define doctrine for oneself, by virtue of some “membership card,” not to mention selecting which doctrine was or was not comfortable to adhere to, because the Magisterium, not the individual, was recognized as the Central Authority.

The concern is not the membership card. The concern is the what is espoused. If the pronouncement does not conform to authentic Catholic teaching, the statement is not a Catholic statement, even if the Pope officiated at that Baptism. Yet modernist Catholics declare autonomously the privilege to identify “what” is Catholic, based on who is Catholic. There’s too often a chasm between the two, a chasm which in the not-too-distant past, was virtually closed.

Have a nice day.
Um, okay…is there a reason your comments sound irritated? As for Catholics of days gone by, my great-grandfather never went to confession. He “didn’t believe in it.” And yes, he still accepted communion (he even attended daily Mass several times a week so he certainly wasn’t shy about receiving the Blessed Sacrament when he hadn’t gone to confession). I think to the outside world, yes – there were adherent Catholics and non-adherent Catholics. But the point is that this is/was the view from the outside, and it often didn’t match with what was happening behind closed doors.

I think your response is a great case-in-point that illustrates the concerns among many American Catholics regarding those who aren’t adherent or adherent enough. “Yet modernist Catholics declare autonomously the privilege to identify ‘what’ is Catholic, based on who is Catholic.” That seems to sum it up.
 
Um, okay…is there a reason your comments sound irritated?
Um, not irritated. Correcting you on history. Your great-grandfather was an exception. Not even close to typical of the behavior of that generation. What I described was the pattern, the same pattern confirmed by others on CAF on other threads, including probably before you became a member.
I think your response is a great case-in-point that illustrates the concerns among many American Catholics regarding those who aren’t adherent or adherent enough.
Do share with us how “American Catholics” are different from French or German or Polish Catholics in their level of adherence – and sensitivity, apparently, to whether they should or shouldn’t be adherent to the Magisterium. Because that perspective…
seems to sum it up.
😉
 
Um, not irritated.
Glad to hear it.
Your great-grandfather was an exception. Not even close to typical of the behavior of that generation.
But the point is you couldn’t possibly know this. No one could. It’s not as though my great-grandfather went around proclaiming his disbelief and failure to fully adhere. Why would I assume there weren’t many more like him? It’s interesting to note, as well, that his priest never refused him communion, though he clearly never saw my great-grandfather in the confessional.
Do share with us how “American Catholics” are different from French or German or Polish Catholics in their level of adherence – and sensitivity, apparently, to whether they should or shouldn’t be adherent to the Magisterium.
The example I gave earlier in the thread referenced a Polish Catholic’s view of American Catholics’ obsession with being “so serious” (her words) about the faith. Her comment took place during a discussion about what you would call adherent Catholics and what my colleagues at the time called “real” Catholics. She was genuinely confused about why American Catholics invest so much time in chastising other Catholics for being less than compliant. I don’t offer this example as proof of anything, of course. But the rest of my colleagues who weren’t from North America (perhaps 8 or so, all Catholic) definitely and vocally agreed with her. I found that interesting but you certainly don’t have to.
 
Um, okay…is there a reason your comments sound irritated? As for Catholics of days gone by, my great-grandfather never went to confession. He “didn’t believe in it.” And yes, he still accepted communion (he even attended daily Mass several times a week so he certainly wasn’t shy about receiving the Blessed Sacrament when he hadn’t gone to confession). I think to the outside world, yes – there were adherent Catholics and non-adherent Catholics. But the point is that this is/was the view from the outside, and it often didn’t match with what was happening behind closed doors.

I think your response is a great case-in-point that illustrates the concerns among many American Catholics regarding those who aren’t adherent or adherent enough. “Yet modernist Catholics declare autonomously the privilege to identify ‘what’ is Catholic, based on who is Catholic.” That seems to sum it up.
Sounds like your ggf was a victim of poor teaching. He probably considered it was the priest’s opinion and not an necessary requirement of being a practicing Catholic in good standing. Today’s Catholics, I believe, have much greater awareness of Church teaching and rules, so that when they disregard any of them they do so in defiance of the Church. Your ggf did not seem defiant against the Church the way you described him. If I’m wrong and he was defying the Church, then he was just as bad as the modern version. Choosing what you will believe and what you will not believe shows an independent spirit that has no place in the Catholic Church.
 
Sounds like your ggf was a victim of poor teaching. He probably considered it was the priest’s opinion and not an necessary requirement of being a practicing Catholic in good standing. Today’s Catholics, I believe, have much greater awareness of Church teaching and rules, so that when they disregard any of them they do so in defiance of the Church. Your ggf did not seem defiant against the Church the way you described him. If I’m wrong and he was defying the Church, then he was just as bad as the modern version. Choosing what you will believe and what you will not believe shows an independent spirit that has no place in the Catholic Church.
I think he was of the defiant variety. 🙂 Lots of stories about that one.
 
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