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angelcrystal85
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I talk to her last night, she was very apologetic, saying in a sweet voice “I apologize” I didn’t realize I was doing that blah blah. She was begging me to take money from her, she wanted to come In person to talk it over. I said no, I dont need her money. Because I need a new dining set for my apartment, I told her while back I can’t afford one. So, last night midnight I got an email from her, She said it was a surprise and got me a new dining set for helping her with the book covers. Is going to arrive next week on my door. Now I feel horrible. She is trying and finding ways for me to continue doing her book. Before seeing this email, I was feeling so happy, joyful, peaceful, free. But now I just feel She is pushing my buttons and knows how to get me back to get what she wants. How should I handle this.
You shouldn’t feel horrible. She is using you and manipulating you. If anyone should feel horrible it’s her.
Simply email back. “Thanks for the dining set, I’ll return it in the mail. I don’t need it.”
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ConfusedLucy
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Don’t have any more contact with this person, sometimes you just need to cut someone right off, no more emails or phone calls. She is sick and won’t change her behaviour. Do what you need for yourself. Are you still considering moving? Are you making a plan?
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angelcrystal85
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Hello everyone,
I am planning to move back soon. I just feel so happy and free now without her guilt tripping me on staying. I dont understand why she is so pushy. She was the one that crossed the line. I talk to someone who also volunteer for her on creating a podcast and pulled the same behavior. She wanted asap and free. She said the devil doesn’t want the book to be published and is discouraging me to design it because is going to save souls. She said she has lost a ton of money working on the book. It took her 7 years to write, she said she is not doing it for the money but for God.
I am planning to move back soon. I just feel so happy and free now without her guilt tripping me on staying. I dont understand why she is so pushy. She was the one that crossed the line. I talk to someone who also volunteer for her on creating a podcast and pulled the same behavior. She wanted asap and free. She said the devil doesn’t want the book to be published and is discouraging me to design it because is going to save souls. She said she has lost a ton of money working on the book. It took her 7 years to write, she said she is not doing it for the money but for God.
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heidi_storage
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Please report her to her professional board, or she will prey on others.
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ConfusedLucy
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Is this person even qualified in anything? I cant imagine any sort of registered healthcare professional behaving like this
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Kaliaa
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If… I say IF IF IF furniture should arrive… REFUSE the delivery. She can’t afford to pay for a book cover yet she can pay for a dining room set? lol Just more manipulation.
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Kaliaa
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If… I say IF IF IF that “ordered” furniture should arrive… REFUSE delivery. That way you don’t pay for returning it or have to deal with her again and don’t feel you need to contact her about doing that. You don’t. She’s still trying to manipulate you.
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Horton
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Well done. If you haven’t reported her to the licensing agency, you really should. This women could potentially do harm to many people. If she is a licensed therapist, she needs to have some consequences for her behavior. The book part is bad enough but her claiming she knows what God wants of you specifically then using it to bend you to her will is extremely manipulative, then claiming the devil is discouraging your cooperation only makes it worse. This behavior needs to be reported.
LaughingBoy1503
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Wow. Who needs the The Bible, Church Tradition and The Magisterium when this lady knows Gods will so well!
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