Am I wrong for hating my peers?

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First of all I’m 16 and my peers are losing faith in god. Many people in my school just party and do drugs. That’s there life. There are no more modest girls. I had a friend who was a girl and she used to always go to church and stuff but now she became trashy.I am sick of my peers.People worship these celeberities like they are god…I don’t have many friends because I can’t find people like me. I hate many people because how bad they are. They anger me. I do pray for the youth though. I still feel hatred towards these idiots I am around. I just hate evil.
 
First of all I’m 16 and my peers are losing faith in god. Many people in my school just party and do drugs. That’s there life. There are no more modest girls. I had a friend who was a girl and she used to always go to church and stuff but now she became trashy.I am sick of my peers.People worship these celeberities like they are god…I don’t have many friends because I can’t find people like me. I hate many people because how bad they are. They anger me. I do pray for the youth though. I still feel hatred towards these idiots I am around. I just hate evil.
that was me in high school. i’m the one that made the modest girls trashy, then dumped them. :rolleyes:

it’s not easy, but have faith. faith in your peers, faith in god, faith in yourself. many people feel the way you feel, so you’re not as alone as you think you are. you might not find that out until you become an adult and are free to make your own path.

if it helps, i’m sorry for the things i did in high school and the people i hurt. maybe your classmates will grow up and realize how immature they were as teens, and they’ll find other things to pursue. i found out the hard way that you can’t rent an apartment or hold a job if you’ve got drugs and alcohol in your system, so they’ll probably grow out of it as they pursue an adult life.
 
I hate to sound harsh, but yes, you are wrong to “hate” your peers: Recall, please, Jesus’ summary of the Law: “And the second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as you love yourself.” It is impossible to love God and hate one’s neighbor.

That means that you owe them courtesy, fairness, and decency. If you focus on the negative and despise them, not only are you breaking the Second Great Commandment, you are also setting yourself up for a life of loneliness, misery, and isolation, depriving yourself of an opportunity to be a good example to your peers, and perhaps losing many souls that could otherwise be saved if it weren’t for such an attitude. After all, we are all sinners: Some are worse than others, but we all fall far short of the glory of God.

Cut people some slack: If you wish to be holy, recall that Jesus Himself associated with some pretty seedy characters. And what attracted them to Him? Not necessarily His miracles, although they were most impressive. His holiness. People who are holy are genuinely kind to others. Other people find that very attractive, indeed.

I believe it was some advice of Mother Teresa to try to see the face of God in every human face she saw.

You do not need to participate in their worldliness, but if you are kind, fair, and courteous, you will be in a better position to elevate the topic of conversations and turn their thoughts to better things.

It is better to light a candle than to curse the darkness. Be that candle in your world.
 
First of all I’m 16 and my peers are losing faith in god. Many people in my school just party and do drugs. That’s there life. There are no more modest girls. I had a friend who was a girl and she used to always go to church and stuff but now she became trashy.I am sick of my peers.People worship these celeberities like they are god…I don’t have many friends because I can’t find people like me. I hate many people because how bad they are. They anger me. I do pray for the youth though. I still feel hatred towards these idiots I am around. I just hate evil.
Let me just say I felt the same way as you do now. I felt that people just didn’t care about being good people and were out to do drugs and get drunk and I hated it. It isn’t good. For one thing it makes others hate you. I can attest to this because I would call people names like “drunk” or “whore” or any other bad thing and well, I got called names back that were even worse. Also, could these be feelings of jealousy? Part of the reason I hated the kids who did all the things like drinking and drugs was because they were popular and I wasn’t,so I kind of had the attitude that I was better than them even though secretly I was jealous and wanted to be popular too (not that I wanted to drink or do drugs, but I was more against the kids than there actions, and eventually I switched my position because I didn’t want to be seen as a loser, but just got more angry and made some bad choices by threatening people because of being bullied and not being accepted:()

Anyway, it isn’t good. You need to love them. You need to show them that rather than being some angry guy who has no fun, that you have joy and happiness in your life because you have God on your side. Sure not everyone will follow, but not everyone follows God. all you need is one person and that will make you feel good inside. Trust me, people like happy people. Also, don’t speak out against it in words like some fire and brimstone guy. Let your actions speak louder than your words. I found out that some of the more popular guys in my school (not in my class) weren’t into drugs or parties, but they weren’t in the hallways saying how everyone was a bunch of sinners. They quietly lived their lives and set good examples, and I never knew because of how I was acting and being an uncharitable militant.

So to sum it up. Be happy and show love, not hate. People like happy people.
 
as hard as it is just keep praying and work on loving instead of hating

Hate is never justifiable especially to hate our fellow siblings in Christ
 
You shouldn’t hate the people in the world, but it is permissible to not like the world and the sinful nature of the world. I believe that the bible says that anyone who loves the world does not love God, so taking the contraception we see that that if anyone loves God he does not love the world. If you must hate, hate sin, and hate the devil too, but do not hate these deceived people who do not know where they are going or where they come from.
 
First of all I’m 16 and my peers are losing faith in god. Many people in my school just party and do drugs. That’s there life. There are no more modest girls. I had a friend who was a girl and she used to always go to church and stuff but now she became trashy.I am sick of my peers.People worship these celeberities like they are god…I don’t have many friends because I can’t find people like me. I hate many people because how bad they are. They anger me. I do pray for the youth though. I still feel hatred towards these idiots I am around. I just hate evil.
Well, you may hate what they believe in and what they choose to do. You cannot hate them as people.
 
Your peers are trying to grow up just like you are. Is there NOTHING good about any of these kids? I find it hard to believe that there isn’t. Get to know them on a personal level at school or in clubs when they are not drinking or doing drugs. You might find something in common with a few of them. Invite them to do something different. Don’t give up on your generation.
 
Hate the SIN. But love the sinner.

Love is wanting the ULTIMATE GOOD for the loved one. That is eternal salvation. We can and should pray constantly for this ultimate good, especially for those who have not yet learned the true value of a disciplined life focused on Christ.

While there is ‘peer pressure,’ that pressure is mostly to conform to doing things that are less honorable. It is usually pressure to do wrong as an immature way of showing how we are able to decide for ourselves. We are often anxious to show we are in charge of our life so we try to do things differently even if we know it is wrong.

Unless you have exceptional communication skills, you will most likely not be succesfull in trying to admonish the group. But perhaps, besides praying for them, you might try to develop a friendship with one or two and, based on that friendship, and in private, try to encourage them to lead a more honorable life.
 
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