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I have lost out on some friendship oppurtunities that could have worked really well and been good for me and all because I behaved antisocial, highly-strung, irresponsible, proud and egoistical. Every day I am full of remorse and I feel lonely and sad coz I don’t have any real friends near where I live to hang out with me coz they don’t bother with me because of how I behaved in the past. I have gotten a little bit more sense since then so I pray that I continue to get sense, that I be a better christian in future and I get more oppurtunities and maybe if god wills get to be with the people I dissapointed (who I hurt and who genuinely tried) coz every day I feel what a waste of oppurtunities it is and how beneficial it would be to be with them.

I also need to improve my relationships with my parents. They are not together but they both vry good parents who love me and do everything for me and I hav been so disrespectful and done so many stupid things in the past that now they dnt feel safe for me to go anywhere by myself and it adds to my lonliness and sadness and they don’t trust me and I need to fix that.

St. Jude help me, I’m feeling desperate for positive change, I want to be a positive entity which radiates and glorifies Jesus.
 
I am praying that your friends will forgive you for hurting them and that you get another chance to practice the virtues that God has given you with them and with your parents …
 
I used to think I was a bad person all the time. I would constantly meditate on my sins. There was never anything good about me. It became an obbsession for me! When someone said, “stop beating yourself up!” i would still continue!!

STOP BEATING YOURSELF UP!!!

first thing first you have to forgive yourself!! the second you ask God for forgiveness
YOU ARE FORGIVEN!! that means its no more. God doesn’t remember and neither should you. Its good to be humble but not when remorse and shame take over your life. I read somewhere that the devil will try to make a forgiven person feel ashamed of their sins. KEEP STRONG!! I was in therapy and I had to do figure that out. I had to start listening. I had to understand nobodies perfect and everyone makes mistakes.

THERE ARE SO MANY GOOD THINGS ABOUT YOU!!! God made man and said this is GOOD!!! jesus wouldn’t have died for us if there wasn’t anything good about us.

confess your sins and ask for forgiveness you only need to do this ONCE
then thank God that your sinsd are no more
and thank God that your can be at peace with your soul
but remember to
concentrate on your good traits!!!
 
sinner12710 said:
I have lost out on some friendship oppurtunities that could have worked really well and been good for me and all because I behaved antisocial, highly-strung, irresponsible, proud and egoistical. Every day I am full of remorse and I feel lonely and sad coz I don’t have any real friends near where I live to hang out with me coz they don’t bother with me because of how I behaved in the past. I have gotten a little bit more sense since then so I pray that I continue to get sense, that I be a better christian in future and I get more oppurtunities and maybe if god wills get to be with the people I dissapointed (who I hurt and who genuinely tried) coz every day I feel what a waste of oppurtunities it is and how beneficial it would be to be with them.

I also need to improve my relationships with my parents. They are not together but they both vry good parents who love me and do everything for me and I hav been so disrespectful and done so many stupid things in the past that now they dnt feel safe for me to go anywhere by myself and it adds to my lonliness and sadness and they don’t trust me and I need to fix that.

St. Jude help me, I’m feeling desperate for positive change, I want to be a positive entity which radiates and glorifies Jesus.
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May God Bless you and His peace be with you. :signofcross:
 
Glory be to The Father, The Son and The Holy Spirit
As it was in the beginning, is now and ever shall be
World without end

Amen
 
I have read the replies and there are many more who are praying for you.

Ask for Jesus’ help and ask Our Mother, Mary and St. Dymphna (patron saint of family relations, neurological, behavioral and psychological distress) to pray for you.

Read Jeremiah 29:11-14

And Remember to BREATHE! You are a beautiful creation and because you believe I Our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, you are also a New Creation. He can transform your mind, body and soul.

Pax bene (Peace and All things Good)!

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The Lord Bless you and Keep you
The Lord turn his face to you and have mercy
The Lord turn his countenance to you and grant you peace
The Lord bless you

You are a quality person that the Holy Spirit has touched. Follow the Lord and he will help you restore all your relationships — I’ll show you the way ---- it’s Jesus !
 
Petite, et dabitur vobis (“Ask and it shall be given to you”)

PATER NOSTER,
qui es in caelis,
sanctificetur nomen tuum.
Adveniat regnum tuum.
Fiat voluntas tua, sicut in caelo et in terra.
Panem nostrum quotidianum da nobis hodie,
et dimitte nobis debita nostra
sicut et nos dimittimus debitoribus nostris.
Et ne nos inducas in tentationem,
sed libera nos a malo. Amen.
 
sinner12710 said:
I have lost out on some friendship oppurtunities that could have worked really well and been good for me and all because I behaved antisocial, highly-strung, irresponsible, proud and egoistical. Every day I am full of remorse and I feel lonely and sad coz I don’t have any real friends near where I live to hang out with me coz they don’t bother with me because of how I behaved in the past. I have gotten a little bit more sense since then so I pray that I continue to get sense, that I be a better christian in future and I get more oppurtunities and maybe if god wills get to be with the people I dissapointed (who I hurt and who genuinely tried) coz every day I feel what a waste of oppurtunities it is and how beneficial it would be to be with them.

I also need to improve my relationships with my parents. They are not together but they both vry good parents who love me and do everything for me and I hav been so disrespectful and done so many stupid things in the past that now they dnt feel safe for me to go anywhere by myself and it adds to my lonliness and sadness and they don’t trust me and I need to fix that.

St. Jude help me, I’m feeling desperate for positive change, I want to be a positive entity which radiates and glorifies Jesus.
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Lord we ask for Your Holy Spirit to work and guide this person, in Jesus’ precious name, Amen.

mlz
 
God loves you - and God can’t be wrong so if He loves you and created you for a purpose, you should love yourself as well

Hail Mary, full of grace.
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God,
pray for us sinners,
now and at the hour of our death.
Amen.

You have a good and honest heart.

God bless you,
Clare
 
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