an apology...

  • Thread starter Thread starter stuart12
  • Start date Start date
Status
Not open for further replies.
The point to it all (whether for bishops, popes, or the Blessed Sacrament) is to do honor to the one toward whom you are genuflecting. It has nothing to do with pride. I’ve never met a trad or a NO Catholic who does anything to feel superior or feel holier. We do things because we believe them to be right.
 
I have only been active on this forum for a few months, contributing little but enjoying reading some of the discussions. To be frank, I thought many of the people on here were a bit over the top in their condemnation of the Novus Ordo Missae and far too over zealous in their promotion of theTridentine Mass. I thought that you were wrong to be so strong opinioned as that but it seems that I am the one who has been quite mistaken.

At a Mass I recently attended abroad, the priest had us gather around the altar holding hands during the Our Father, I was really uncomfortable with it and since I really liked the priest, I did not want to make a show of it. It seemed so irreverent and it certainly did not appear to be the ‘Sacrifice of the Mass’ with this new innovation. A member of our parish I spoke to about it said that it was fine and was good for solidarity, but everything I look up on the web about it, it is very strictly condemned by Rome. Also, I believed many of you were mad with your constant ascertion that communion in the hand is wrong and sacriligious but I was wrong again. I have just started doing that and it feels much better now. I am only a new Catholic, so I don’t want to end up making enemies in my parish by going ‘abuse hunting’. I am researching the Tridentine Mass just now but because the town I live in (in Scotland) is not that big, I am having trouble finding an Extraordinary Form Mass. Anyway, I will keep trying. Thanks to all of you, and you all are in my prayers. God Bless, Stuart
Don’t worry about the apology. Apologies shouldn’t be necessary given that this is an internet forum. I believe that we shouldn’t take everything so seriously all the time.

Congrats on your new endeavor! I live in America so I can’t help you, but I hope that you find the Tridentine Mass.
 
Hmmmmm…why are folks suddenly attacking Cassius? Is it because he obviously feels strongly about piety? Is it because he is making some folks aware that they perhaps aren’t as pious as they could/should be? It is obvious to me anyway, that he knows a few things and should be respected. We’re all brothers and sisters here aren’t we? Piety IS a virtue and should be fostered, nurtured and given. I know that folks are used to being dismissed from pious attitudes and actions by the “liberation” of the Church in recent years, but come on, really! Don’t attack someone because they are trying to foster a VIRTUE we are ALL supposed to lovingly give! :confused:

Peace,

Gail
 
Hmmmmm…why are folks suddenly attacking Cassius? Is it because he obviously feels strongly about piety? Is it because he is making some folks aware that they perhaps aren’t as pious as they could/should be? It is obvious to me anyway, that he knows a few things and should be respected. We’re all brothers and sisters here aren’t we? Piety IS a virtue and should be fostered, nurtured and given. I know that folks are used to being dismissed from pious attitudes and actions by the “liberation” of the Church in recent years, but come on, really! Don’t attack someone because they are trying to foster a VIRTUE we are ALL supposed to lovingly give! :confused:

Peace,

Gail
I didn’t follow everything that Cassius wrote, and mostly skipped the responses. I agree that piety is important and needs to be practiced. I think it is not given the same emphasis that it was in the past. That lack of emphasis has nothing to do with Mass form.
Teaching Faith Formation, it disturbs me as to how often I have to reteach the Sign of the Cross to middle schoolers. Many do not seem to know it is a deliberate action made with the right hand. Nightly recitation of the family rosary is not commonplace. This may be one reason. People are busier now and don’t make time for family prayer. The Sign of our faith is not practiced on a daily basis.
I do notice in Church how often even those who genuflect as they come to their pew, genuflect using the left knee. I have not seen a parent correct a child in this regard. Growing up, the emphasis was always genuflecting with the right knee before and after leaving the pew. It bothered me that when I would genuflect leaving the pew that I would find myself genuflecting in front of somebody coming out of the Church. For this reason, I genuflected while before moving into the aisle keeping God as my focus.
My knees are bad and I often bow as I come to the pew rather than genuflect. I would rather see a profound bow than a sloppy genuflection, especially one done on the left instead of right knee.
 
Jealous much? :rolleyes:

I specified genuflecting on the LEFT KNEE.

Yes, on the RIGHT KNEE when entering the church when the Blessed Sacrament is not being adored on the altar.

In which circumstance a double genuflection (BOTH KNEES) is proper (such as during adoration). That’s why people KNEEL to receive communion. He’s no longer in the tabernacle, he’s present within the church (as during adoration…remember double genuflection, AKA BOTH KNEES). Were you aware of any of this!!!
Absolutely aware of all of it. And for reference I DO double genuflect for the exposed Blessed Sacrament. Right v left knee is a medieval archaism - totally irrelevant today. It simply is NOT terribly appropriate, IMHO, to go on either knee to a human being.
That’s perfectly alright amongst equals. You aren’t a bishop’s equal. You defer to him. And don’t forget to kiss his ring while you’re on your LEFT KNEE.
Well your boss is certainly someone you should defer to and someone who is most certainly not your equal, same with your President - I suppose you kneel to them as well?
Ok, so all the saints and faithful of the last thousand years have been idolators. Ok, I can handle that. I guess I’m one too. By the way, have you ever knelt down in front of a statue or image in your home? You have!!! you idolator!!! For SHAME!!!
Well, you and many Popes have mentioned certain risks (which I accept) involved in receiving Communion in the hand and (to a lesser extent) standing. Just pointing out that the risks run both ways.

Sure I’ve knelt in front of statues and images, can’t avoid it in some churches, or in my house which is quite full of 'em. Just as I’ve knelt in front of my bed or other places. My kneeling is for God and Him alone, and has little if anything to do with whatever objects (or people) are in the vicinity.
Not qualified to say. This was one memo I didn’t receive. I think God keeps his own counsel on what is offensive.
Well you for one seem quite happy to try to speak on His behalf along with others of us, no?
The point was that posture is indicative. It ‘indicates’. It doesn’t ‘conclude’ or ‘presume’. I don’t presume to read hearts any more than you. I do know from experience, however, that if I sit on my bed to pray, all relaxed and reclined, that it is out of laziness that I’m not beside my bed kneeling, instead of laying in it. If it were somebody else I wouldn’t assume they were being lazy (they could have a broken back or knee cap or something), but I know that for myself, strong and able-bodied, it is laziness and my posture is indicative.
And you speak for yourself on that point. I pray in bed all the time, among many other places - it indicates nothing more sinister than that I want my last thoughts as I fall asleep, and my first thoughts as I’m waking up, to be about God. Goes to show the danger of leaping to conclusions about mental state from posture.

And it would seem, being that the Church permits reception standing and in the hand, that they recognise (to a greater extent than yourself at least) the dangers of leaping to conclusions about peoples’ reverence from their posture.
Actually, the latin translates basically as “the manner in which you pray is how you believe”. From my example above, I could conclude about myself that if I lay in bed to pray, my comfort is as important to me as prayer. Therefore, when I can, I pray on my knees (can’t do that in my car, on my bike, hiking, in class, playing my cello etc.) because it is something I can offer for the Lord’s sufferings on the cross. I offer my discomfort and pain and unite it to Christ’s sacrifice. Believe me, as a 23-year OF attendee, starting to pray on my knees after becoming traditional was definitely NOT fun, especially during an hour of adoration, or even 15 minutes of the rosary. You can’t always have padded kneelers, or even carpet. ‘Offer it up’ is what I tell myself.
Good. Do your kneeling to prevent laziness, and offer it up, and may you be richly blessed by doing so. What I don’t understand is why you insist that I or anyone are somehow lacking if we don’t choose to imitate Our Lord’s sufferings in exactly the same way as yourself, when most of us have so many other ways to do so, many other sufferings and penances that we can and do ‘offer up’ daily. 🤷
 
Absolutely aware of all of it. And for reference I DO double genuflect for the exposed Blessed Sacrament. Right v left knee is a medieval archaism - totally irrelevant today. It simply is NOT terribly appropriate, IMHO, to go on either knee to a human being.
Maybe you are right. Maybe outward signs of deference and respect are out-dated. However, in regard to your other point (i.e. double genuflection), if you are willing to genuflect thus when entering His presence, why not also while actually receiving Him?
Well your boss is certainly someone you should defer to and someone who is most certainly not your equal, same with your President - I suppose you kneel to them as well?
If he was a bishop. But no, ‘in the world’, the proper greeting is to shake and look 'em in the eyes. Also, even though he may be my boss, his station in life, as a lay person, is basically the same as mine. Priests have exalted positions, and bishops even more so.
Well, you and many Popes have mentioned certain risks (which I accept) involved in receiving Communion in the hand and (to a lesser extent) standing. Just pointing out that the risks run both ways.
I’m not exactly sure what the risks are in receiving directly on the tongue 🤷
Sure I’ve knelt in front of statues and images, can’t avoid it in some churches, or in my house which is quite full of 'em. Just as I’ve knelt in front of my bed or other places. My kneeling is for God and Him alone, and has little if anything to do with whatever objects (or people) are in the vicinity.
But that’s just the point. There are different ‘signs’ of respect for different persons etc. Here’s a hypothetical: Would you shake the popes hand, or would you genuflect and kiss his ring?
Well you for one seem quite happy to try to speak on His behalf along with others of us, no?
No. I’m just laying out what the Catholic norms were (and still are some places) until the reforms.
And you speak for yourself on that point.
Exactly so. I even stated that. Thank you for reiterating what I said.
I pray in bed all the time, among many other places - it indicates nothing more sinister than that I want my last thoughts as I fall asleep, and my first thoughts as I’m waking up, to be about God. Goes to show the danger of leaping to conclusions about mental state from posture.
Exactly so, once again. That’s why I said it ‘indicates’, not that it ‘proves’.
And it would seem, being that the Church permits reception standing and in the hand, that they recognise (to a greater extent than yourself at least) the dangers of leaping to conclusions about peoples’ reverence from their posture.
But that’s just the point. I haven’t leapt to any conclusions. As I stated, I was simply laying out what were Catholic norms, and showing that they seem to have changed for the worse. You will not recognize this, or course since “both methods are approved”, nevertheless, the facts remain. Or do you believe that in terms of outward acts of reverence things have gotten better over the last 40 years??? I don’t. Another example is of calling a priest by his first name. People used to say “Father Smith”, not “Father Jim”. It basically says “hey father, you’re like me” when in actuality, he is not. He’s a priest. Would you say “Hi, G.W.” when meeting the president, or would you say “Hi, Mr. President” or “Hi, Mr. Bush”??? We even use the last names of teachers, and their station in life isn’t that of priests.
 
I have only been active on this forum for a few months, contributing little but enjoying reading some of the discussions. To be frank, I thought many of the people on here were a bit over the top in their condemnation of the Novus Ordo Missae and far too over zealous in their promotion of theTridentine Mass. I thought that you were wrong to be so strong opinioned as that but it seems that I am the one who has been quite mistaken.

At a Mass I recently attended abroad, the priest had us gather around the altar holding hands during the Our Father, I was really uncomfortable with it and since I really liked the priest, I did not want to make a show of it. It seemed so irreverent and it certainly did not appear to be the ‘Sacrifice of the Mass’ with this new innovation. A member of our parish I spoke to about it said that it was fine and was good for solidarity, but everything I look up on the web about it, it is very strictly condemned by Rome. Also, I believed many of you were mad with your constant ascertion that communion in the hand is wrong and sacriligious but I was wrong again. I have just started doing that and it feels much better now. I am only a new Catholic, so I don’t want to end up making enemies in my parish by going ‘abuse hunting’. I am researching the Tridentine Mass just now but because the town I live in (in Scotland) is not that big, I am having trouble finding an Extraordinary Form Mass. Anyway, I will keep trying. Thanks to all of you, and you all are in my prayers. God Bless, Stuart
Stuart, just bear with me as a paint a picture, it’s a mental exercise so you have to use your imagination:

You are advancing toward the “table”…it’s just like your’s at home, only bigger… to receive the Eucharist. You can smell the perfume of the woman in front of you…feel the tile of the floor through your shoes.

You glance toward the “worship space” in front of you & notice a light that you don’t remember seeing before…oh well, just a trick your eyes are playing on you. But, it seems to be growing & moving. As you watch it begins to take the shape of a man & the figure of Christ on the crucifix (if there is one) is glowing…looks red hot, but surely not.

Still, you can’t take your eyes away from the light in the “worship space” (it used to be called, the sanctuary). You’re moving forward, shuffling your feet with the crowd around you & you’re close to the light. Suddenly, you are able to look directly at the light without turning your eyes away and…THERE HE IS!! with black, black hair & skin…either darkened by the sun or by his heritage…calloused hands of a man who has known physical labor reaching out to you. But the EYES, the eyes are filled with love older than the ages, with deeper knowledge within them than you knew existed & wisdom & kindness. The eyes can see every sin you ever committed & every kindness you’ve ever been a part of, your soul…your very spirit is open to Him. He reaches toward YOU…in spite of the sin, in spite of the cruelty you’ve done, in spite of your neglect of Him. His Hands are saying, “Come to me.”!
Would you:
  1. straighten your shoulders, becoming very aware of the dignity that is within you, stride up to Him & shake His hand?
  2. Stumble forward…never quite sure how you got there & drop to your knees adoring this God/Man Who died in your place?
Your answer to this question, should give you the answer to the question in your post.
 
Stuart, just bear with me as a paint a picture, it’s a mental exercise so you have to use your imagination:

You are advancing toward the “table”…it’s just like your’s at home, only bigger… to receive the Eucharist. You can smell the perfume of the woman in front of you…feel the tile of the floor through your shoes.

You glance toward the “worship space” in front of you & notice a light that you don’t remember seeing before…oh well, just a trick your eyes are playing on you. But, it seems to be growing & moving. As you watch it begins to take the shape of a man & the figure of Christ on the crucifix (if there is one) is glowing…looks red hot, but surely not.

Still, you can’t take your eyes away from the light in the “worship space” (it used to be called, the sanctuary). You’re moving forward, shuffling your feet with the crowd around you & you’re close to the light. Suddenly, you are able to look directly at the light without turning your eyes away and…THERE HE IS!! with black, black hair & skin…either darkened by the sun or by his heritage…calloused hands of a man who has known physical labor reaching out to you. But the EYES, the eyes are filled with love older than the ages, with deeper knowledge within them than you knew existed & wisdom & kindness. The eyes can see every sin you ever committed & every kindness you’ve ever been a part of, your soul…your very spirit is open to Him. He reaches toward YOU…in spite of the sin, in spite of the cruelty you’ve done, in spite of your neglect of Him. His Hands are saying, “Come to me.”!
Would you:
  1. straighten your shoulders, becoming very aware of the dignity that is within you, stride up to Him & shake His hand?
  2. Stumble forward…never quite sure how you got there & drop to your knees adoring this God/Man Who died in your place?
Your answer to this question, should give you the answer to the question in your post.
This was the balance between intimacy and reverence that I was trying to describe in my initial response. The God of the Universe calls us to intimacy with Himself. Each morning I wake to the song “I Can Only Imagine,” about coming into God’s presence.
“Will I shout ‘alleluia’? Will I be able to say anything at all?”
It was years ago, but I still remember a very blessed week. As I reflected on my sins, God showed me the goodness with which He created me. The more God showed me the goodness of His creation, the more I was aware of my sinfulness.
We can be intimate with God and with each other. Even in our intimacy, we can express awe and reverence.

Several saints have mentioned how they prayed a prayer of abandonment just before going to sleep. Scripture says that God bestows gifts on His beloved while they slumber. One practice is placing yourself before the throne of God, upon the altar, to be shaped and molded like clay while lying on top of the bed.
 
Status
Not open for further replies.
Back
Top