Yes, I think I see what you mean. Offending a man results in temporary consequences; offending the God results in eternal consequences. I can apprehend that and cannot comprehend a way to reasonably argue against that.
By becoming man, God gave humanity infinite value. God also considers us children so it is not possible to do something against man alone. All things done to others whether good or evil is done directly to God.
We can only administer imperfect justice, with temporary consequences, where as God will deliver perfect justice with permanent consequences. Even if we put a person to death it is still a temporary punishment because they then face God and they might have, and might not have confessed, repented, and turned to God before death.
Very well, then. The damned deserve their eternal sentence. Now that this objection is answered, would you like to now address my other question?
Of the ways to reduce suffering, I can, at the moment, think of these:
- Limiting the time of the suffering
- Limiting the intensity of the suffering
- Limiting the awareness of the suffering
Which idea would you like to explore first? or do you have a third idea of how God is merciful to those tormented by the horrors of Hell?
First off I would like to make it clear that God’s justice for those who are alive and breathing is His mercy. God’s justice for those who have died in a state of Grace is His mercy. God’s justice for those who die in mortal sin is His wrath.
So for those who say God is unfair about eternal punishment miss the point. If we are alive and breathing God may be found, and God wishes for us eternal life more than we could ever wish it for our selves. Some people just choose darkness over light. It’s truly senseless to complain about punishment when it can be avoided.
Now on to your questions… I’ll do the best I can.
- Limiting the time of the suffering
How can you limit time where there is no time? The state of eternal death in the lake of fire is eternal. It takes place in eternal timelessness, and persists forever in eternity. Now there is a place where suffering can be limited in length and that’s in purgatory. The souls in purgatory pray fervently but their prayers are no longer efficacious. They can no longer merit, only those still alive on earth can merit. That’s why it’s important to pray for the souls in purgatory. My understanding is the suffering in purgatory is equal to the suffering in hell. The ocean of difference is those in hell are hopeless, and those in purgatory are just waiting to be purified so they can see God face to face.
So no, the time of suffering what ever that means for those in hell can not be limited.
- Limiting the intensity of the suffering
I believe there is a direct relationship between the chief punishment of hell and God’s mercy to those in hell. The chief punishment is loss. The damned will see God as He is when they are being judged. They will see His infinite beauty, and goodness, and know they will never see it again. God’s mercy to them is that they won’t be in His presence with their shame, guilt, wickedness, unrighteousness. It would be far worse to be in God’s presence in their shameful, wretched, hideous state than to be separated from Him. Saint Catherine of Genoa in her treatise on purgatory said the soul not yet purified would rather cast itself into a thousand hells than be in the presence of God with even the slightest stain of sin. The shame of the damned makes them want to hide from God. The intensity of the suffering is in direct relation to the knowledge that the only thing that can satisfy the soul, and give it peace, and rest is God Himself, and they will forever be deprived of God.
God does not give the damned any more suffering than is required by His justice. God could give infinite suffering if He chose, but will only give what is exactly necessary to satisfy His justice and not a speck more.
- Limiting the awareness of the suffering
I’m afraid that’s not possible, in fact the opposite is true. While we are in the flesh we experience God, and spiritual things as through a glass darkly. When we are in a spiritual state in eternity we will experience all things as they truly are, with perfect clarity. The spiritual world is far more real than the physical world. It is the ultimate reality because God is a spiritual being. This is the dream, and the spiritual world is being awake. Awareness is far, far more acute after death than it is now.
One last thing. The fundamental difference between those in Heaven and those in hell is. Those in Heaven are fully alive, fully free, fully happy, fully joyful, and fully at peace. Those in hell are dead. Since they are immortal because of the nature of the immortal soul God instilled in all of us, they persist only to receive their just punishment. They have no freedom. They can’t even move. They have no peace, no joy, no happiness etc. Nothing in hell is alive. There is nothing there but putrefaction, and decay. All they can experience besides the physical punishment that happens in those parts of the body they used to sin against God with is self loathing, self hatred, regret, and they blaspheme God for ever. They also find themselves in the extremely unfortunate position of being locked up with satan and his minions forever. By all accounts hell is far beyond anyones worst nightmare. God have mercy on us all.