To understand the issue of befriending the Jews, Christians or people of any other faith, we have to study all the concerned verses from the Qur’an collectively.
Let us look at some other verses about this issue. The following two verses regulate relations with any people, regardless of faith:
As for such [of the unbelievers] as do not fight against you on account of [your] faith, and neither drive you forth from your homelands, Allah does not forbid you to show them kindness and to behave towards them with full equity: for, verily, Allah loves those who act equitably. … (Al-Qur’an 60:8)
Allah only forbids you to turn in friendship towards such as fight against you because of [your] faith, and drive you forth from your homelands, or aid [others] in driving you forth: and as for those [from among you] who turn towards them in friendship; it is they, they who are truly wrongdoers! … (Al-Qur’an 60:9)
From the above verses, it is very clear that Muslims are only discouraged from befriending those who fight them because of their religion.
You somehow forget that the first verse of the same chapter (Surah 60) which allegedly does not forbid Muslims from befriending all Jews and Christians says:
Surah 60:1
O you who believe!
do not take My enemy and your enemy for friends:
would you offer them love while they deny what has come to you of the truth, driving out the Apostle and yourselves because you believe in Allah, your Lord? If you go forth struggling hard in My path and seeking My pleasure, would you manifest love to them?
This verse clearly states that WHOEVER rejects the Koran as a divine revelation telling the truth is considered an enemy of Allah and Muslims! Thus, Islam regards ALL non-Muslims as enemies that must not be loved and befriended, not only the non-Muslims that join forces with the pagans who strive to take Muslims out of their land.
More, the following Koran verse implies that ALL non-Muslims are enemies:
Surah 5:33
The punishment of
those who wage war against Allah and His apostle and strive to make mischief in the land is only this, that
they should be murdered or crucified or their hands and their feet should be cut off on opposite sides or they should be imprisoned; this shall be as a disgrace for them in this world, and in the hereafter they shall have a grievous chastisement.
Since the verse includes the word “Allah” into the phrase “those who wage war against His apostle” and since it is unreasonable to assume that humans can wage a physical war against Allah, the phrase “waging war” refers to resisting Allah and Mohammad (Islam). Consequently, all non-Muslims who resist Mohammad and his religion through the critique of the Koran and Islamic tenets for the defense of their religion are considered enemies.
And as for the verse which is often quoted to show that Islam is intolerant:
O YOU who have attained to faith! Do not take the Jews and the Christians for your allies: they are but allies of one another and whoever of you allies himself with them becomes, verily, one of them; behold, Allah does not guide people who are unjust. … (Al-Qur’an 5:51)
Let us indeed examine the verse immediately after 5:51, to see if it sheds some further light on the issue.
And yet you can not see how those in whose hearts there is disease vie with one another for their good will (the hostile Jews and Christians), saying [to themselves], “We do fear lest a change of fortune bring us disaster.” But Allah may well bring about good fortune [for the believers] or any [other] event of His own devising, whereupon those [waverers] will be smitten with remorse for the thoughts which they had secretly harboured within themselves- … (Al-Qur’an 5:52)
During the time of the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) when the Jews and Christians were in open conflict with the Muslims, there were some Muslims who were more concerned about maintaining there alliances with the Jews and Christians at the expense of the Muslim community. The above verse is referring to such situations where Muslims with doubts in their hearts will ally themselves with the enemy.
Chapter 5 Verse 57 of the Qur’an makes it clear again, who are not to be taken as friends;
O you who believe! take not for friends and protectors those who take your religion for a mockery or sport,- whether among those who received the Scripture before you, or among those who reject Faith; but remain conscious of Allah, if you are (truly) believers. … (Al-Qur’an 5:57)
Allah teaches us throughout the Qur’an that there are righteous Jews and Christians. As such there is no prohibition for Muslims to be friends with Jews, Christians or people of any other faith who are of good character.
This is blatant hypocrisy, sorry to say! The Koran makes clear that the only true religion from above is Islam, and that Muslims are commanded to fight so as to make Islam the dominant religion in the whole world:
Surah 9:33
He it is Who sent His Apostle with guidance and t
he religion of truth, that He might cause it to prevail over all religions, though the polytheists may be averse.
Thus, the Koran is at an open and constant war with all those who do not follow Islam.