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Lest anyone think I am picking sides on this issue, I am not. It does not impact me, as I am not in irregular marriage. I do have a couple of observations (which may or may not be correct) and some questions.
It is my understanding that the Church holds that any marriage which has followed proper form is presumed valid. That presumption may be overcome if evidence is provided to a tribunal sufficient for a decree of nullity.
So. Assuming on the day of the wedding, one of the parties has an intention against perpetuity (to randomly pick one form of defective consent), until that is brought before a tribunal, the Church presume the marriage valid. To make this clear, it is the husband, and he tells his father that he is going in “king’s x”, and tells his best man the same thing.
For whatever reason, 15 years down the road they divorce. He has remarried outside the Church, but this is not sitting well at all, so he goes to the parish and talks to the pastor who advises him to apply, and he starts the paperwork. However, his dad died 3 years before, and no one else in the family was ever told about husband’s “king’s x” attitude and the conversation on the day of the wedding. The best man is now married to the former wife’s sister, and refuses to testify, or even discuss the prior conversation on the wedding day as best man’s wife is siding with her sister, who was committing adultery during the marriage and filed, thinking she was going to capture a “rich one” who has now abandoned her.
While the Church presumes the marriage valid, the tribunal has no witnesses, the ex wife, now having destroyed the marriage by filing, and being abandoned by the rich one states husband never told her his “king’s x” and says he is just making it up to get even for her “indiscretion”.
The tribunal, having no witnesses (one is dead; the other won’t testify) and confronted with husband who never revealed to anyone else his “king’s x”, and wife who testifies her opinion is this is all made up. decodes there is insufficient evidence - no decree.
However, the wedding occurred, but ontologically the marriage never existed.
And now we confront the footnotes of AL.
It would appear that some in the Church would raise the presumption to an absolute if circumstances left the petitioner with a case weak enough due to, for example, the inability to find witnesses to substantiate the grounds, even though ontologically as of the day of the wedding, there was defective consent.
Again, I don’t know the discussions in the synod, or the reasons and sources of the German bishops’ position in favor of limited circumstances of admitting some to Communion.
To hold that only if a tribunal grants a decree of nullity is the marriage null seems to say that, as here, only a decree of nullity creates the reality of of the defect, rather than the defect being ontologically present from the start.
Or, perhaps more crudely, presumption overcomes ontological reality unless sufficient evidence can be produced, which is a way of saying that reality doesn’t exist until you sufficiently prove it exists.
- Secularism is not only alive and well, but appears to be gaining strength. More areas around the world appear, for example, to be moving to legalize abortion (see, e.g. Chile) and in the US there has been an open sustained attack on religion over the last 8 years with not even a semblance of veiled intent.
- Catechesis went down the rabbit hole in the 70’s and we have pretty much lost two generations, which bodes not well for the third. And logically, since a marriage takes a bit more than the physical ability to say “I do”, that does not bode well for the sacrament. Some will live out a covenant marriage; some will live out a contractual marriage with no understanding of covenenant, but keep the relationship permanent; and many will end up in divorce court, with a high risk of remarriage.
It is my understanding that the Church holds that any marriage which has followed proper form is presumed valid. That presumption may be overcome if evidence is provided to a tribunal sufficient for a decree of nullity.
So. Assuming on the day of the wedding, one of the parties has an intention against perpetuity (to randomly pick one form of defective consent), until that is brought before a tribunal, the Church presume the marriage valid. To make this clear, it is the husband, and he tells his father that he is going in “king’s x”, and tells his best man the same thing.
For whatever reason, 15 years down the road they divorce. He has remarried outside the Church, but this is not sitting well at all, so he goes to the parish and talks to the pastor who advises him to apply, and he starts the paperwork. However, his dad died 3 years before, and no one else in the family was ever told about husband’s “king’s x” attitude and the conversation on the day of the wedding. The best man is now married to the former wife’s sister, and refuses to testify, or even discuss the prior conversation on the wedding day as best man’s wife is siding with her sister, who was committing adultery during the marriage and filed, thinking she was going to capture a “rich one” who has now abandoned her.
While the Church presumes the marriage valid, the tribunal has no witnesses, the ex wife, now having destroyed the marriage by filing, and being abandoned by the rich one states husband never told her his “king’s x” and says he is just making it up to get even for her “indiscretion”.
The tribunal, having no witnesses (one is dead; the other won’t testify) and confronted with husband who never revealed to anyone else his “king’s x”, and wife who testifies her opinion is this is all made up. decodes there is insufficient evidence - no decree.
However, the wedding occurred, but ontologically the marriage never existed.
And now we confront the footnotes of AL.
It would appear that some in the Church would raise the presumption to an absolute if circumstances left the petitioner with a case weak enough due to, for example, the inability to find witnesses to substantiate the grounds, even though ontologically as of the day of the wedding, there was defective consent.
Again, I don’t know the discussions in the synod, or the reasons and sources of the German bishops’ position in favor of limited circumstances of admitting some to Communion.
To hold that only if a tribunal grants a decree of nullity is the marriage null seems to say that, as here, only a decree of nullity creates the reality of of the defect, rather than the defect being ontologically present from the start.
Or, perhaps more crudely, presumption overcomes ontological reality unless sufficient evidence can be produced, which is a way of saying that reality doesn’t exist until you sufficiently prove it exists.