An Open Letter To Melinda Gates By Fr. Tom Euteneuer (HLI)

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I am confused.

It seems logical to me that when you stop doing something you stop the end results. Thus no SEX no spread of AIDS. Condoms only encourage the actions and thus allow the spread of the virus.
I don’t think the case can be made that condoms specifically encourage sex. Our anthropological wiring encourages sex. Birds fly. Fish swim. Humans have sex. This will never change. They were doing it before the invention of latex.

If people will have sex anyway, and they will, wouldn’t it make sense to protect them from themselves?
 
It may not “wash” in your book, but to use anecdotal information misses the point. If you read this thread you would know that my position is to us ALL available means to avoid AIDS, whether it’s abstinence, condoms or other medical means.
I presume from the opinions expressed in this thread that if a viable vaccine were to be developed that you would make a case for not getting the vaccination.
The next time you meet someone who speaks Amharic, tell them that they should exercise “self control”. As I said in my original post - heads in the sand.
I have no idea where you got this from. Vaccination has nothing to do with this discussion on self control and condoms. As long as the vaccine does not use embryo tissue and was safe for use it then becomes a medical choice and not a life style choice.

I seem to give people more credit then you seem to IMHO. I believe they can improve their kinowledge and have the ability to change inorder to make their lives and those of their families better.
 
I don’t think the case can be made that condoms specifically encourage sex. Our anthropological wiring encourages sex. Birds fly. Fish swim. Humans have sex. This will never change. They were doing it before the invention of latex.

If people will have sex anyway, and they will, wouldn’t it make sense to protect them from themselves?
I can’t say about the third world or Africa. But, stats show that out of marriage births are up and this has proven to be the case since we started to make many “protections” available. Unless you can surgically place condoms, chastity belts, (or any other means of “birth control also known as SEXUAL activity CONSEQUENCES control”), do not work. So the message is sent that you don’t need to control you actions.:banghead:

Now as for your reference to animals having sex. Well it is part true, but, they do not do so for recreational purposes. Those that do not breed are sent packing into their own herd and those herds don’t survive due to no babies being born. Survival of their specific animal species is its main function. The female and male usually breed only with the biggest and strongest of the herd or flock.

Birds fly, man walks upright, dogs walk on all fours and none of this is changes the need for self control in personal behavior.
 
I can’t say about the third world or Africa. But, stats show that out of marriage births are up and this has proven to be the case since we started to make many “protections” available. Unless you can surgically place condoms, chastity belts, (or any other means of “birth control also known as SEXUAL activity CONSEQUENCES control”), do not work. So the message is sent that you don’t need to control you actions.:banghead:.
Of course actions have consequences and ultimately people will reap what they sow. You are dealing with ancient, hard-wired human impulses that have great power over the lives of people. Maybe they deserve what they get. Maybe we all do, but then again, Christ gave His life to fix that.
Now as for your reference to animals having sex. Well it is part true, but, they do not do so for recreational purposes.
I made no reference to animals having sex. I merely suggested that living organisms do those things for which they are internally wired, like fish swimming and birds flying.

Characterizing sex as “recreational” might be a bit reductionist. You cannot put sex in the same category as mountain biking or bird watching. It is one of our core urges that exerts tremendous power over people. Not everyone is able to appropriate God’s grace through Christ in order to overcome it. Many pay with their lives and that is sad. It is a cause and effect universe and violating God’s laws has grave consequences. But a little understanding and compassion for those caught by their own urges is OK too.
 
Everywhere we see, hear and are bombarded with the “recreational” sex culture. It has been turned into something to do not something to be gifted to our wives and husbands. it is sad to see something so wonderful made sleezy.
 
HIV/AIDS has killed some 25 million people worldwide. The vast majority of new HIV infections in sub-Saharan Africa are caused by unprotected sex, with the largest percentage of new infections occurring among women and girls. Comprehensive HIV-prevention programs that combine abstinence messages with factual information about condoms and safer sex have proven to be more effective than those that preach “abstinence only.” As a leading donor to HIV/AIDS programs worldwide, the United States cannot afford to substitute unproven HIV-prevention strategies for those that have succeeded in reducing behaviors that put people at risk of HIV/AIDS

U.S. Agency for International Development
You continue to cut n paste others opinions in order to bolster yours, ill-formed as it is. You have yet to tel us why AIDS rose in those countries that that though condoms was the solution and fell in those countries that stressed abstinence abstinence and
monogamy.
 
It may not “wash” in your book, but to use anecdotal information misses the point. If you read this thread you would know that my position is to us ALL available means to avoid AIDS, whether it’s abstinence, condoms or other medical means.
I presume from the opinions expressed in this thread that if a viable vaccine were to be developed that you would make a case for not getting the vaccination.
The next time you meet someone who speaks Amharic, tell them that they should exercise “self control”. As I said in my original post - heads in the sand.
The problem is the “means” you promote has proven to be a complete failure-leading to more people with AIDS.

I have no problem with a an AIDS vaccine nor do I think anyone else in this thread does. Why do you bring it up?

One other question-why do you have such a low opinion of Afrcans? You continue to portray them as oversexed beings unable to control their sexual desires. The same stereotype, BTW, that was hung on Amercian blacks until very recently.
 
Originally posted by M16
The man could have acquired AIDS through multiple venues, including a blood transfusion, which is the most unlikely case.
There was an interesting series of articles in a British medical journal a while back suggesting the majority of new HIV cases in Africa may not be due to “unprotected” heterosexual activity but to medical interventions. In point of fact, contaminated needles and suction abortions done with infected cannulae (tubes inserted into the cervix) may have been served as vectors for the transmission of H.I.V… People have wrongly concluded the virus was mainly spread through unprotected sex while the role of unsanitary medical conditions was ignored.
 
If that is the case then abortion is leading to AIDs. Sad that death leads to more death.
 
Kenya First Lady: Condom “is causing the spread of AIDS in this country.”

NAIROBI, May 23, 2006 (LifeSiteNews.com) - The First Lady of Kenya, Lucy Kibaki, spoke to Kenyan schoolgirls last week to warn them that sexual abstinence before marriage, not condoms, was essential to preserving their lives and futures. In speeches Thursday, and Saturday, Mrs. Kibaki spoke to high school girls about preserving their dignity and future, and urged them not to be duped into using the condom, which she linked to the spread of the AIDS epidemic that has sent millions of Kenyans and other Africans to an early grave.

“Fellow citizens, this gadget called the condom … is causing the spread of AIDS in this country”, Mrs. Kibaki said Saturday in a speech she delivered at St. Francis Girls’ Secondary School in Dol Dol in the north of Kenya. (from the Kenyan television NTV) Just days before in Nairobi, Kenya’s capital, Mrs. Kibaki had taken her message to the State House Girls High School for an awards ceremony, saying, “I am not telling you to use condoms. I am not in favour of condoms.” Mrs. Kibaki blamed the rapid spread of Aids on a campaign that has pressured youth to use condoms instead of practicing abstinence before marriage (according to the Kenya Broadcasting Corporation). “I caution girls to be careful about their sexual behavior as this can lead to teenage pregnancy or HIV/AIDS infection.”

MORE lifesite.net/ldn/2006/may/06052307.html

Has anyone listened to the online version of Jason Evert’s talk to High School students at both Private & Public School’s on Chastity Education?

pureloveclub.com/seminars/index.php?id=3

I think Jason’s talk would give the answers to those on this thread why we should support “Abstinence Education” ONLY!!
 
good letter. Is Melinda Gates “Catholic”? Or is she a “John Kerry” type Catholic (only agrees with what suits her).

Which African country is it that does the AbstinenceBeforeMarriageCondomsAsALastResort?

There’s nothing wrong with teaching chastity. But often people think of it as religiously based rather than common sense based. And that’s why secularized people hate Chastitiy, Abstience and Celibacy.
To follow up the poster’s question - is Melinda Gates a practicing Catholic (if she is, obviously of the progressive, dissenting variety)? Does Bill Gates even believe in God? I’d be curious to know if anyone has any info on this.
 
God Bless Fr. Euteneuer.

Let us not forget that we are Catholics and must try to conform our sensibilities to the teachings of the Church whether we completely understand them or not. How many people scoffed at Humanae Vitae when it came out? And now we can look back and see how prophetic it really was. Those who cannot see this are the ones with their heads in the sand. Sometimes the world’s wisdom seems to make so much sense. But in the end, it is only God’s wisdom and truth that lead to true happiness and well-being. We must work on converting people’s hearts and the other ailments will, in turn, become better. This will not happen overnight, but we must be careful that we do not thwart a great good by promoting a small evil. What we need to do is support the missions in Africa. Who have always been the ones to supply education and health care services to the poorest of the poor? The Catholic Church. This is what we need more of. When we start respecting the dignity of these people and supporting the Church in these areas, we will begin to see a shift. Their whole quality of life will improve. There are small pockets of this already happening. Why should we treat them like base animals who can’t control their impulses? Are they not children of God, made in His image and likeness? Are they not capable of sacrificial love and fidelity? We need to show them their value. The secular world has enough people to throw condoms at Africa. As Catholics, we need to see deeper than that, and act accordingly.
 
legeorge, you are right on! The best thing we can do is support the African missions - they are the ones doing the most good. God bless Fr Euteneuer!

Regarding condoms … the clinical trials say they are risk reduction (Remember that. They are not “prevention”.) We are not going to stop AIDS with condoms alone.

Also, a funny thing happens between the clinical trial (which says that condoms reduce the risk of HIV transmission) and the actual real world situation where AIDS is transmitted: we encounter human nature.

We know both from the African situation as well as the situation with the US gay community that putting a condom in every pocket is not the answer. The only time there was a sizable reduction in the US HIV infection rate was toward the beginning when many gays were literally scared out of having sex.

Bottom line: changing behavior is key.

If you tell a man who is not married yet but already loves loves loves having sex that if he abstains from sex he will 100% protect himself from HIV (usually this part is said in a half-hearted tone conveying the “impossibility” of this option), but then on the other hand if he still wants to keep on having sex that he should “just make sure and use a condom”, … which option do you think he will choose?

It’s likely he will continue to behave with a lack of self-control, which, when push comes to shove, can translate into having sex anyway when a condom isn’t immediately available. Because sex remains unchallenged as the most important thing.

When we present chastity as an option, for it to be honestly and realistically presented, we must teach people about the beauty of life when we are human beings in control of ourselves, rather than glorified animals who are slaves to our sex drive and “internally wired” to copulate on the sly with the best partner we can find instead of waiting for marriage. I agree with the others who have emphasized that this has to include educating MEN, not only women. Men should actually be the main target for education since they are the ones with more power in the sexual arena. (no condom, gel or technology will change this in the foreseeable future)
 
There’s nothing wrong with teaching chastity. But often people think of it as religiously based rather than common sense based. And that’s why secularized people hate Chastitiy, Abstience and Celibacy.
Agreed.
Which African country is it that does the AbstinenceBeforeMarriageCondomsAsALastResort?
I think you are referring to Uganda, one of the few countries in Africa which has greatly decreased its infection rate. Their approach was known as ABC:
A - Abstain until marriage
B - Be faithful in marriage
C - Condoms as a last resort
 
The man could have acquired AIDS through multiple venues, including a blood transfusion, which is the most unlikely case.
However he contracted the disease, he has it, knows it and should not be required to sacrifice his and hers marital life when there is a safe method to avoid transmission.
And please don’t offer the “condoms don’t work” mantra. It’s a lot of bunk. If it was not, AIDS would not show decreased infection rates in places where condoms are widely used and statistics have been gathered.

You can preach abstinence; you can’t enforce it. And you can’t penalize people with death because they don’t agree with your method of “vaccine”.
It is a good thing that I continued to read posts on this topic until I got to your’s. I couldn’t have said it better. Thank you.
 
This is a typical head in the sand answer which ignores African cultures and their way of living. A woman has no choice but to have sex with her husband. If he is infected, she will most likely become infected and so will any children conceived. If, however, he wears a condom, she and her fetus at least will be spared.
If a woman, anywhere in the world, is attacked by a rapist I would think a condom would be licit as it would be repelling an unjust aggressor, not contracepting. However, I doubt few rapists would consent to wearing one based on a request.

It seems you are talking about consentual sex in most of these cases. Such attempts at the marital embrace using a condom are intrinsically wrong. That is not my personal opinion. That is the reality.
You have no right to impose a summary death sentence on people you don’t know, a culture you don’t understand, and a way of life that you have absolutely no connection to.
Arrogance at its height.
You have no authority to help lead others into grave sin. That is the real issue.
 
Here is a good book on the subject:

Rethinking AIDS Prevention: Learning from Successes in Developing Countries

It basically “exposes the failure of the condom approach, and explains why AIDS experts cling to this failure.” (SOURCE)

Another review says:
Rethinking AIDS Prevention, by Edward C. Green, PhD, is a critical examination of the world community’s approach to the AIDS crisis, focusing on less-developed regions, where the problem is most severe.
Green is a senior research scientist at the Harvard Center for Population and Development Studies, with exhaustive involvement in international AIDS efforts. A self-described lifelong liberal, he serves on the Presidential Advisory Council on HIV and AIDS and has worked extensively in the contraceptive field. His book synthesizes peer-reviewed published research and extensive unpublished material to which he is privy to produce a highly critical study of the tack that the AIDS establishment has taken.
 
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