Anger at the Church

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I was replying to a thread that - obviously - was closed. I would still like to share part of my thoughts.

Nobody in their right mind negates that some things should have been dealt with better, but the Church condemns them, and in fact, it is thanks to the Church that we know some things are wrong and gravely immoral, because certain behaviors were actually very common in societies, before the Church of Christ brought her teachings to the whole world.

Ever since the beginning, incredible dignity was given by the Church to women, and even today the only voice that defends the true holiness and dignity of woman is the Catholic Church, all the while the world hurts them with lustful filth and desecration of the woman’s body, and strips her away of her dignity of virgin and of spouse and of mother.

If we visit the places where the vulnerable are found, we find almost exclusively or especially the Catholic Church in the form of missionaries. If we read some history, we learn how much the Church did ever since the very beginning for orphans and widows. If we brace ourselves and jump into the arena of the abortion debate, we see that the one community that is fighting against the killing of over one million unborn children every year in US alone is the Catholic Church.

But nobody praises her for her works of mercy around the whole world, for being the hope of billions, often the only reason that millions will live today rather than die of illness or starvation or a broken heart.

No, the world is too busy seeking the vanities of worldly affairs and, when time allows it, it turns towards the Church just for a minute or two, the time to spit on her face and walk away.

But the Church still loves everyone and protects the vulnerable. We take the spit in our face because some of our members have done wrong, even though many others have sacrificed their existence for the sake of those in need and still do and always will do.

We forgive those who scream at us and spit at us and throw us stones and yes, even kill us, because they do not know what they are saying and doing. They are hurt, and they need to blame someone, so they blame us, and they blame us because we are the ones that are called to be holy, we are the visible face of the God of infinite love and goodness in this filthy world of darkness that murders innocents every day and gives no hope to anybody.

We are supposed to be mankind’s hope, and when someone feels betrayed by us, he will hate us. We understand. We keep moving forward, doing the best we can. Because we, them, everyone…we are just men, brothers with the same defects, the same desires, the same hopes, the same weaknesses…and if in two thousand years we have not yet restored heaven on earth, the least we can do is bow our heads, accept it all, and work even harder for the suffering billions.
 
So, why exactly are you angry? Because some members of the Church are actually trying to be what Jesus has called them to be?
 
RC, I’m not sure what thread you are referring to, but I think I can guess. There was one thread which contained a lot of anger.

I have been a member of several Christian denominations and all of them have had their faults. I have had anger but have worked through a lot of it. At one church I went to, the minister committed suicide. That shocked me, but a friend told me to trust God and not the ministers. That helped me.

All of us are sinners, laity and clergy. I’ve learned only God is perfect.

There are some things I wish would change about the Catholic Church and there were reasons why I left. However, there were good things too. I had some great experiences with the sacraments. I like the Liturgy of the Hours and the saints.
 
Look up three days of darkness. It is from Mary and approved by the church
 
So, why exactly are you angry? Because some members of the Church are actually trying to be what Jesus has called them to be?
He isn’t the one that is angry. There was someone else that posted that they were angry at the Church, when in reality their anger should have been towards the media. This is his reply to that post, which was closed, because it was highly opinionated and aggressive.
 
RC, I’m not sure what thread you are referring to, but I think I can guess. There was one thread which contained a lot of anger.

I have been a member of several Christian denominations and all of them have had their faults. I have had anger but have worked through a lot of it. At one church I went to, the minister committed suicide. That shocked me, but a friend told me to trust God and not the ministers. That helped me.

All of us are sinners, laity and clergy. I’ve learned only God is perfect.

There are some things I wish would change about the Catholic Church and there were reasons why I left. However, there were good things too. I had some great experiences with the sacraments. I like the Liturgy of the Hours and the saints.
Did you ever pray about coming back?
 
He isn’t the one that is angry. There was someone else that posted that they were angry at the Church, when in reality their anger should have been towards the media. This is his reply to that post, which was closed, because it was highly opinionated and aggressive.
Yes, thank you. I get that now.
 
I think there is a big difference between being angry with the church and angry at the people who run it. It’s like when people say they hate the government. Do they really hate the government or just the people in charge?
 
Anger to me is a natural emotion. I think it is okay to be angry at the church and sometimes we can also be mad at God. It is natural to be angry here and there…but when the bird of anger lands in the tree we do not need to allow it build a nest and fester.

Now do not quote me on this but St. Ignastius (sp) I believe had many complaints about the church much like those Martin Luther elaborated upon. He even considered leaving Christianity but could not given he new the truth of Christ. He also wondered if he should leave the church with a piece of the flock but did not want to separate or bring pain to the body of Christ. Finally, he saw that he needed to stay within the church in order to build it up, cool says I.

Also, when we are just angry about the sins of the church or our leaders, we may be correct in our opinions and judgements but sometimes this reveals something else we must address. When we have sinned and been unrighteous we beg for forgiveness and desire mercy but when we view sin in others we often cry for justice and a pound of flesh. It would appear that it is easier for us to be angry at the sins of the church or at the sins of others. Maybe this is due to the fact it is easier to condemn the sins of others than it is for us to become introspective and look at our own sins. Just a thought.
 
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