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I read them and do not see an answer as to why allowing Ed and Steve, who have been living in a committed, monogamous adult relationship for 15 years to be able to automatically inherit property from each other, visit each other in the hospital, or any of the other legal benefits to a civil (not a religious) marriage as outlined in nolo.com/article.cfm/ObjectID/E0366844-7992-4018-B581C6AE9BF8B045/catID/F896EE61-B80C-4FE1-B1687AC0F07903BA/118/304/ART/ is any worse or different than allowing the same things to Mary and Ian, who were both divorced 3 times before they married and have actively chosen not to have children, or to James and Brenda, when they also have chosen not to have children and James has a mistress.Karen,
I guess you didn’t read any of the responses I posted to answer this question. Perhaps you could go back and read them thoroughly and we can pick up the discussion on another thread, since this one is not about same-sex “marriage”. I would be happy to continue this discussion with you there.
Creating stable, viable family units is of benefit to the state and the state does not consider those to be exclusively a man and a woman and their biological offspring. The state recognizes the value of a variety of family structures–childless couples (by choice or by happenstance), step families, adoptive families, extended families, foster families, etc.–through tax benefits, government subsidies, etc.
The legal benefits are not given to heterosexual couples only if they have either never been married before or else have been widowed, if they promise not to use birth control, can prove they are capable of having children, promise that they can consumate the marriage physically or that if they do so, they will only use certain approved sexual positions and interactions. They are not denied the benefits of civil marriage because they are greedy, drunkards, swindlers, fornicators, idolaters, adulterers, effeminate, thieves, or revilers, which are listed as equal sins in Corinthians.
Heterosexual couples who choose to cohabit make a choice to not avail thmeslves of the legal benefits of a civil marriage–same-sex couples are denied the option to do so. The law forces them to cohabit against their will if they desire to create a lifelong committed relationship. There is, therefore, a religious test (not even one necessarily based on the religion that the two people practice) imposed on same sex couples in seeking civil marriage that is not imposed on heterosexual couples.
Denying civil marriage will not make same sex couples stop loving each other, forming committed lifelong relationships or having sex nor will it make them heterosexual. It only denies them equal rights under the law that allow them to care for their families in the same way that other Americans do. What benefit does society gain from denying a couple of legal age who desire to undertake the responsibilities of a legally committed relationship rather than one that has no legal ties that option?