So do you think that every person who chooses Catholicism or Orthodoxy is a self-proclaimed infallible type?
No.
** I’m confused by this statement.

Are you saying since you’re not infallible you can never in your lifetime come to find the right Church where you belong?**
I’m saying that that’s the wrong model.
The Catholic Church and Orthodox Churches can only teach and lead, we must make the decision, it’s free will?
Indeed. But we make decisions as part of a community.
In your previous post you made it sound (perhaps I misread you) that you wouldn’t jump to Rome or Orthodoxy on your own, you’d like your Episcopal diocese to do it and that would be acceptable? Now you don’t even acknowledge them as existing or taking you anywhere? I’m on a roll with confusion today. I’m just misreading your statements apparently.
First of all, I didn’t say I wouldn’t, only that I was reluctant to do so. There’s a difference.
Second, what I meant in my last post was that “Anglicanism” is not some sort of mystical entity (such as “Catholicism” and “Orthodoxy” are both claimed by their adherents to be) which can guide me somewhere. It’s just a bunch of fallible Christians. But since it is the bunch of fallible Christians with whom I presently worship, I take these fallible, sinful, messed-up Christians seriously as the people to whom I have the closest ties and the most responsibilities, and to whose wisdom (imperfect as it is) I should listen, as I hope they listen to mine (such as it is).
Then what’s the point in delving so deep into theology and having all these theories and spending the time if lex orandi, lex credendi does it for you?** It’s a waste of time if you local worship is all you need.**
First of all, I waste a lot of time. I came back to the forum after a week away because when I wasn’t here I was wasting time rearranging my Netflix queue! Wasting time is one of my biggest faults. So on one level, theological speculation is a fun pastime to which I’m addicted.
But I do hope that it’s more than that. I hope that I can influence the community/communities of which I’m part.
**Ultimately don’t you think God expects every man to judge where he belongs? **
Yes, but not in a vacuum.
** What about Augustine? The guy was a Manichaean and a Neo-Platonist, a womanizer, a secularized lost soul. He came to a realization through a long and slow, steady process that he must become a Catholic. And he did. Was he using private judgment and being arrogant?**
Augustine was returning to his mother’s Church, led by his mother’s tears. It wasn’t all about his lonely search for the truth. If it hadn’t been for his Christian upbringing, he might well have settled down as a pagan Neo-Platonist–but Platonism was lacking the name of Christ, which he had been taught to revere.
My mother’s tears are all on the other side. She has changed quite a bit now (she’s told me repeatedly over the last few years that while she hopes I don’t become Catholic or Orthodox, she will understand and respect my decision if I do), but when I first investigated Catholicism she did a good job of imitating St. Monica.
Francis Beckwith was more in Augustine’s position.
I’m not saying that individual conversion doesn’t happen. But when it happens–and in fact this is the way Augustine described it, and his experience has shaped Western Christendom powerfully–it is traditionally seen as being converted by the Holy Spirit, not as “converting” through one’s own choice as is often said today.
** How do you suggest one find his place in Christendom? You’re saying Anglicans won’t get you there**
I said Anglicanism won’t get me there, because nominalism is true with regard to Anglicanism (though possibly false with regard to Catholicism). Anglicanism is just a bunch of people. They have better things to do than get me places. And they aren’t “they,” they are “we.”
you can’t challenge your wife’s views (whatever they are),
Oh, I challenge them all the time–you should ask her! I just don’t
disregard them.
** you can’t rely on your bishop to inspire you to other places, you don’t recognize Protestantism as valid and you don’t recognize Catholicism or Orthodoxy as viable choices because you’d have to make the decision to go to one.**
I regard them as viable choices. What I don’t regard as viable is your attitude of “well, you know one of them is true, so just pick one.” I need something more compelling than that.
And in making the decision to go to one you’d be exercising private judgment? That is the weirdest logic I’ve ever heard in here, respectfully?
It’s hardly a point original with me, and it seems rather obvious. It’s actually quite a standard objection.
** How do you make decisions if every decision ultimately has to come from YOU and you don’t trust yourself to make one because it’s “private judgment?” **
Well, I’m not good at making decisions. I admit that.
That is no doubt one reason why I’m drawn to a theology that says that we aren’t supposed to be floating around in a vacuum making decisions on our own.
We make decisions together, as a Christian community.
We are coming to this from very different perspectives–I understand why you are so puzzled!
God bless,
Edwin