(1) A downs syndrome young teen (13) was gang raped at a group home. She became pregnant. Her parents were good Catholics who in principle opposed abortion. The mother was even ready to raise the child - her daughter could not possibly have done that - but the mother had developed MS and was physically unable to. When they checked into adoption, they were told that since the baby’s mother and father were severely challenged mentally adoption was most unlikely. So they finally were convinced to have an abortion. We can judge them severely if we want to, but I don’t want to. That I will leave up to God, who is merciful.
The unborn child was innocent and should not have died due to lack of love and charity.
(2) A Catholic couple I know had six children and felt that’s all they could provide for. Moreover, the mother had been warned by her doctor that another birth could easily take her life and leave six young children motherless. The couple faithfully used the church-approved birth control method which failed. The couple even consulted their priest who said the decision was between them and God. They opted for an early abortion, having heard that Augustine and others had written that the fetus did not have a soul until two or three months (I forget which). Anyway,she had an abortion and lived. We can censure that couple, but I won’t. I will leave that matter up to God, also.
**Take a look at the life story of Saint Gianna Molla. She chose not to abort, had the child, died, and now lives in Heaven.
One quote from a website dedicated to her: “And again when speaking to her husband Pietro on another occasion, she said in a firm voice and with a penetrating gaze, “If you have to decide between me and the child, do not hesitate; I demand it, the child, save it.” Such was her generous attitude throughout her pregnancy.”
saintgianna.org/medicalcircum.htm**
(3) I am tired of religious people, pious and judgmental Catholics and Protestants both, who get irate on the issue of abortion, but are ready to remain silent or even applaud when thousands upon thousands of innocent civilians - and fine young men and women in the military - are killed in war, while certain rich people get richer. 9/11 demanded action in Afghanistan. But Iraq? And now there are those who are trying to convinced us to bomb Iran. And we have a long history of supporting undemocratic powers when they are on our side. Let’s be consistent.
I pray the Rosary for peace and the conversion of the Muslims. Do you pray for peace as well?
(4) This is not an argument, but I have noted that most abortions are spontaneous - miscarriages. We had two, so I am personally well acquainted with them. Was God calling those little ones home - or what? I do know that babies who die or are killed spend eternity in the presence of our compassionate Christ, so that helped dry our tears. There are even those fleeting moments when I read the headlines and think that “they are the lucky ones”, especially now that limbo had been sidelined.
Please accept my condolences on your loss.
God bless people of every creed, color and country, and may religion serve to unite rather than divide, become a bridge and not a barrier.