The Church must always approve the Catholic marriage (Latin or eastern), but some approvals are given in canon law for certain circumstances. The tradition of receiving the ritual blessing in the eastern tradition is preserved when it is possible, however, if it is not possible it does not invalidate the marriage. A couple married in this way may never see a Catholic priest or bishop again due to isolation.
But, as was mentioned before, the orthodox supposedly do not believe the spouses are the minister of the sacrament; but rather the priest is.
In neither East nor west, is a layperson considered a ministerial priest.
Logically, then, in the East; when two people contract a marriage with no priest present to give them the special blessing; there is no way to say “Jesus joined these two in marriage.”
I am not claiming the marriage is invalid; I am questioning the theology of the East regarding the sacramentality of such marriages.
Note: Adam and Eve had a VALID marriage; however, they did not have a sacrament.
By definition, Sacraments could not exist until AFTER Jesus came and instituted them via the incarnation… As St. Paul comments, our salvation is effected through the two becoming one flesh; and he means Christ and his Church (incarnation/Eucharist/etc.)
For this reason (and what I am saying is obscure, I apologize) I do not believe an Eastern rite marriage consummated without the possibility of Eucharist, and blessed by a priest, is of the same quality as one with no possibility of either.
So, the objection I am alluding to is that any marriage contracted by two people (man, not God) which is later tried by a Orthodox ?tribunal? (or patriarch?) for validity, has no basis for claiming that Jesus/God Joined them until a blessing is given.
eg: consider this case: The couple married in isolation, but did NOT remain in isolation on some hypothetical island; but divorced separated/and after coming back into contact with the Orthodox church refused to receive a blessing. If they refused, would you argue they had a sacrament? Are there not clearly grounds in Eastern Theology to say that such a marriage could still be separated; eg: Jesus literally said “What
GOD has joined, let no man separate.” Jesus did not say, what man has Joined, let no church acting in my name separate. etc.
If the Orthodox really do believe that a priest must act to join a marriage; then, the exception you mention which allows two people to marry without a priest can not possibly be based on the exact same theology; such a position is intrinsically inconsistent.
I could accept that the exception is more of an issue of “no sin found here…” therefore, no punishment. Or insufficient evidence; but I have a hard time believing Eastern theology accepts the western position in case of emergency, but not as the norm.
I mean, the smallest tittle of the law can get a person off the hook when it comes to marriage…
Even to the woman caught in adultery in Scripture, Jesus said (paraphrase); “Is there no one here to condemn you?” and she said, “No one”; Jesus said “
Therefore, neither do I condemn you.”
Eg: according to law people may only convicted of adultery on the testimony of “TWO” or more witnesses. One witness, alone, is insufficient.