Think of an earthly marital relationship first (as soon we are going to use the analogy of the Heavenly marital relationship as the Church and the physical aspect that is “not permanent” yet in another sense IS permanent).
(I will try to use general non-specific terminology here to respect the holiness of the marital embrace)
***First let’s look at the earthly marital relationship . . . ***
The “physical” feature even in a mere earthly marriage has a deeper characteristic of bonding than a simple physical aspect would suggest.
There is a uniting that is deeper than mere physical, is Sacred and holy and is WHY St. Paul warns to keep a marital “relationship” within the confines of a valid marriage.
1st CORINTHIANS 6:15 15 Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ?
Shall I therefore take the members of Christ and make them members of a prostitute? Never!
“Well WHY NOT St. Paul? Why should we never do this?”
Fortunately St. Paul tells us “why not”.
St. Paul explains “why not” because there is MORE in that one-flesh union than a mere “high five” or handshake.
And St. Paul uses marital language (“The two shall become one.” see also See Genesis 2:24, Mark 10:8, Matthew 19:5, 1st Corinthians 7:5 and Ephesians 5:31).
1st CORINTHIANS 6:15-19 15 Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ?
Shall I therefore take the members of Christ and make them members of a prostitute? Never! 16 **Do you not know that he who joins himself to a prostitute becomes one body with her? **For, as it is written, “The two shall become one.” 17 But he who is united to the Lord becomes one spirit with him. 18 Shun immorality. Every other sin which a man commits is outside the body; but the immoral man sins against his own body. 19 Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, which you have from God? You are not your own; 20 you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.
In other words, something real remains even after the “physical aspect” . . . “disappears”.
Something real in this relationship remains even after the “material appearances” . . . “NO LONGER” remain.
That’s why people who physically “consummate” their marriage cannot get an annulment or decree of nullity (based upon this aspect—they MAY have a decree of nullity concerning other aspects).
Because something real (though intangible) remains after the “material appearances” . . . “NO LONGER” remain in one-flesh communion, we safeguard ourselves against fornication and adultery (that proverbial supernatural “glue”, is only meant for a marital commitment BECAUSE something real remains even after the “material appearances” . . . “NO LONGER” remain).
***Now let’s look at the Heavenly marital relationship which begins on earth . . . ***
There is an intangible yet real aspect that remains after appropriate Covenantal one-flesh communion in a marital situation between husband and wife,
and likewise there is an intangible yet real aspect that remains after appropriate Covenantal one-flesh communion in reception of the Eucharist—a supernatural marital situation (the Church is the spouse of Christ as St. Paul asserts in Ephesians 5).
When we receive Jesus in the Holy Eucharist, when we have “one-flesh Communion” with Jesus the way we were intended to (by eating His Flesh), something real remains ALSO even after the “material appearances” . . . “NO LONGER” remain!
So in a sense the real presence ends, but in another sense “he who eats my flesh and drinks my blood abides in Me and I in him” continues (and leads to eternal life for those that don’t throw this relationship away).
JOHN 6:51,54-55, 58 51 I am the living bread which came down from heaven; if any
one eats of this bread, he will live
for ever; and the bread which I shall give for the life of the world is my flesh." . . . 54 he who eats my flesh and drinks my blood
has eternal life, and I will raise him up at the last day. 55 For my flesh is food indeed, and my blood is drink indeed. . . . .58 This is the bread which came down from heaven, not such as the fathers ate and died;
he who eats this bread will live for ever."
Just as with the marital embrace, there is an aspect that continues long after the “material appearances” . . . “NO LONGER” remain, likewise in our reception of the Eucharist there is an aspect that CONTINUES long (“for ever”) after the “material appearances” . . . “NO LONGER” remain.
The objector would assert this for his relationship with Christ ONLY spiritually! (He gets it partially right [what he affirms] but partially wrong too [what he denies])
Assuming he asserts he
IS one (in some sense) with his wife and not merely “
was one” with her, ask him WHY he would deny this enduring continuing physical-spiritual relationship connection with Jesus Christ, yet affirms it for a mere earthly marital relationship.
His denial is based on him denying Christ in the Eucharist, not in objecting merely because the “material appearances” . . . “NO LONGER” remain. (He may not even realize this until you point it out and walk him through it)
See Dr. Pitre’s outline
here for more insights.
brantpitre.com/~brant243/jesus_bridegroom_single_cd_outline.pdf
So even though the Eucharist in a sense, “NO LONGER” remains" . . . . in another sense the Eucharist DOES remain and it is associated with that physical reception.